This cognitive dissonance goes beyond dating.

It’s a cold and harsh world- that is the truth of what they would have to face.

They would also have to face that they have been tricked and lied to for their entire lives because they were born into this system.

They would have to face and accept that the patriarchy controls everything- including them. They have no power UNLESS they revamp and morph into who they actually are as real women- deep down beyond the bullshit, facades, materialism, fears of aging, fears of being alone, past religion, and etc.

This takes courage and it can be hard for people who are brainwashed by mainstream everything. Because mainstream hates this freedom for women and will hate them. Mainstream hates fearless and powerful women.

Lastly, recognizing that since all of this is the reality of life, one very well could be alone forever.. .and that is a very bitter pill to swallow... at first.

It’s also a magical pill that gives freedom not to EVER SETTLE AGAIN.