I know that “dates” at home are considered low effort, but if a man cooks you a fancy dinner that took a lot of time and effort, would you consider it low effort still?

Example: let’s say he cooked some Cheesecake Factory quality stuff with appetizers, the main dish, and dessert.

I don’t think I’d call that a date, but I can respect the effort it takes to prepare a meal for someone. Thoughts?