You’re not going to get that ring sis, run

PossibleCook · 2020-06-08T03:21:47+00:00

I always find it weird when people have no problem going into the life long commitment of having kids with someone but refuse to marry that person. Like, why would you want kids with someone you don’t love enough to marry?

Sage_Planter · 2020-06-08T05:46:21+00:00

How is she not embarrassed by posting this?

A former friend of mine became a pickmeisha when we were in college. She was with her boyfriend for 3-5 years (can't remember exactly), and by the end, every holiday was "maybe he'll propose!?!?" First it was logical things like vacations to Mexico, Christmas or Valentine's Day. By the end, she was so desperate for a ring it was like "St. Patrick's Day proposal!?!?" and "Cinco de Mayo!?! A ring on Cinco de Mayo!?!!!!"

sadpourtoujours · 2020-06-08T12:36:24+00:00

That’s why women need to enter a relationship with a goal. Say to yourself, I want to be married by X. If he doesn’t propose by X then I’m moving on. Then don’t deviate from your plan or get soft and mushy. If he doesn’t meet the expectations you set for yourself, get another one.

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