Alright so hear me out on this, I was really good friends with this girl, consider it a brotherly-sister relationship. Well we've been like this through 2 of her boyfriends. I started to get feelings, but in retrospect it was nothing. I've cooked for her, gotten her food, allowed her to use my cable. I've always hit her up first to do stuff. always texted her first. Well I did this test where I didn't text her and just waited to see if the feeling was mutual to hit me up to hang out. Note I used to text her on a regular basis. Well a week and half go by and nothing. Even last week when I acknowledged her presence at college, I got nothing back. So I delete her off the app I texted her on realizing this is one sided and she throws a fit, then my cuck friend demands I readd her and apologize and I said "why should I?". I can add or talk to whomever I want and that goes for everybody. Apparently she's hurt/pissed but I don't give a shit because in today's age nobody takes into account how us guys feel. You know I'd like it to be mutual and not onesided. Now I'm not demanding her attention or anything you know...I'd just like it to be where I talk to her and she talks to me, not me just talking to her. I felt like I was the dude on the side just in case her relationship goes wrong and I'm not about that at all either. Am I a dick for this? I think I'm just standing my ground and would ask for the friendship to be mutual. Since not dealing with her I've been more consistent in my exercise and just developing my bonds even further with my bros.
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Fail. All you did is waste the opportunity to fuck her.
Wanna really win. Get cool with her. Fuck that pussy. Lick her ass, really get all over her. Then after you have busted your nut, go out with another chick. And do the same.
Why should we clap because you avoided hot pussy? Fuck pussy, just don't worship it.
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Actually It was snapchat I deleted her off of lmao. I don't give a shit, I'm just gonna do my own thing and set out to accomplish my dreams. She's not needed and she doesn't need me
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I did the same thing when me and my ex were together. Stopped texting her to see what would happen and if she would text back. She never did, and when we did see each other again in person she was angry at me for not texting her.
I did it a few more times during the course of the relationship and over time she began to not care if I texted her or not, which later I found out that was because she was seeing other guys on the side.
I've come to resent texting women because of the mind games they play. I'm a lot less stressed and anxious now that I've cut women out of my social circle. I also can focus on the work I have to do and it's nice not having to constantly please a woman.
Bottom line I don't see an issue with what you did. It's not abnormal the behaviour those women had towards you. It's just the price you pay for being around them.
I honestly don't know how other men get anything done when they have women friends. So time consuming and you get so little back.
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they go insane when they lose emotional tampons.
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da fuq? Do you know what sub you are in? You cooked for her, got her food, let her own you?
You are a fucking beta male cuck. This is not place for you.
Did you hold her purse while she sucked other guys dicks too? What the actual fuck did I just read?
Seriously. I want you to read what you wrote, out loud. By yourself, with no one around and read that out loud. I want you to hear those words.
Dude, I want to fuck you right now and I'm not even gay. That's how much of a pussy you are.
No homo. (ok maybe a little homo)
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