Are MGTOWs "coping celibates" ?

theRobertX · 2021-05-24T19:40:47+00:00

Not me. I'm older, have had dozens of women, and I'm just not interested in the game.

For the same reason, I don't play the lottery

Cursedwithknowing · 2021-05-24T19:51:21+00:00

Been with dozens of women. I quit when it was no longer worth the risk. And, I'll not return. I'm far more productive and happy without women.

ActOutside4853 · 2021-05-24T20:00:53+00:00

No, I think its more of a case of maturing beyond sex as a primary motivation.

You know: beyond the humping dog phase...

Speaker7 · 2021-05-24T21:28:15+00:00

What if you are just coping? Is that supposed to be an insult? In any other field hearing that someone is coping with something garners a thumbs up or a pat on the back for making it by. This whole shaming men is just another way to control men and put them down. Fuck women or don't. If you can and do, good for you, if you can't and don't, good for you. It literally doesn't matter.

JohnPerera · 2021-05-24T20:10:40+00:00

I had a few FWBs but now I'm celibate as it makes me happier.

The_Meep_Lord · 2021-05-24T19:54:13+00:00

For the sake of argument, let’s say we are all incels just coping (most are probably divorced and/or experienced to a decent degree, but this is for the argument).

How does that make us wrong at all about anything or change anything?

It doesn’t make us wrong, doesn’t make mgtow any less valid. Doesn’t impact anything at all. Just a cheap attempt to shame us into submission.

So here is the answer to op’s questions: who cares? If we are all former sex gods or all incels, who cares?

Fo go further. Some people here probably did have shitty relationship lives, but many are also former Chads. In the end sex doesn’t matter, it does not determine nor impact the value of a man.

Bros before hoes.

WeeklyGreen8522 · 2021-05-24T21:53:40+00:00

No marriage, no kids, no cohabitation. Any man with deductive reasoning, sooner or later, reaches the same conclusion. Relationships make that happen faster. Are some unable to get sex? Anybody with 20 bucks can get sex. Do some stop wanting to have sex? Sure. Do some of those who don't want to have sex still have some urges? Sure. Saying mgtows are "coping celibates" is like saying mgtows are blonde. The tag is used by women to prevent males from going mgtow and by men to get pussy.

CenturianMonk · 2021-05-24T20:14:26+00:00

Why do incels always ask this? Can some of them not see the freedom outside of cooch? I understand some of them never dated nor had sex.

gibberingone · 2021-05-24T20:16:00+00:00

An incel that rises above pedestalizing relationships stops being an incel & becomes MGTOW in my book.

Not all MGTOWs are incels (obviously) but there exists a subset.

Some call them MSTOW (sent TOW), but there is little difference. What matters is what one does, not how he got here.

Nesarry31 · 2021-05-24T22:12:33+00:00

Considering I’ve been with the same girl for 11 years and she knows I won’t do marriage I’d say no? No common law in my state either.

Thinkingman21 · 2021-05-24T23:02:47+00:00

The failed retardation of the incels community, with its coping finger point and back stabbing drama isn't relevant to mgtow which is older and more original.

It doesn't matter if we currently couldn't get a girlfriend based on a rapidly accelerating hypergamous shit show.

We chose to go our own way and don't bitch. And we offer solutions. Those accusing you of coping as a mgtow are the first type of idiots that would turn around and give sex dolls rights when they walk upright because of them being natural Cucks and simps who are afraid to die alone, won't do work on themselves to deal with unrewarding environment, and validated themselves through female permission as a man.

No wonder they claim you are incels. Misery loves company.

Mgtows buy cars and bikes and ghost

eecoig · 2021-05-24T23:30:27+00:00

I think this is a pretty good critique of what a lot of mgtows are like. However mgtow is not a movement but just an idea, and that means that it's not everybody's fault if a lot of people don't understand our philosophy well. I also believe that most people come to this sub during their redpill rage, just as I did, which means that there are definitely gonna be many angry posts about women and this contributes to the view that many outsiders have of us. Motivational and uplifting posts still get the most upvotes and general engagement.

SuperSupremeKai · 2021-05-24T23:38:50+00:00

I live in a country where you have to get married to have sex.

I don't want to get married so I am technically an incel.

TECHNICALLY.

BobbingForBunions · 2021-05-24T23:44:38+00:00

Define "coping."

I avoid social interaction with women.

I eat what I want. I wear what I want I buy what I want. I do what I want. I wake up excited to get to work (I run a business) and I go to bed completely satisfied.

If that means "coping," I guess I'm "coping." lol

Kolo11234 · 2021-05-24T20:48:57+00:00

Who is updating the site? And what knowledge do they have?

theegowarrior · 2021-05-24T23:41:49+00:00

They can say what they want mate. I've only had one relationship that last 8 years and she got married to someone who was chosen by her parents. Typical Indian scenario. I did go on a few dates post that but all I saw was a pattern and an apology for being basically neurotic among women. Even more it is the accepted norm in society here. That your wife/gf can influence you let go of your hobbies, interests, friends and engage you in meaningless pursuits and occupy all of your time without any repurcussions becauss that is what you signed up for. If majority of the women have that belief I'm better off going my own way and have done so for the past few years. Life is pleasant now, I have a dog and go on long rides or play video games, read books and sip on a whiskey while cradling a cigar all to my own pleasure. The problem is the more stoic you become the more women you attract and I've had to fend off more leeches than I ever did when I was in a relationship and open about my feelings. The benefit to MGTOW is that you can spot these kind of time rapists a mile away. Because that's the last bastion of any man, the amount of time he spends doing the things he loves. I don't hate any person who is married or has a relationship, if they are happy then kudos to them but it's definitley not for me. Cheers

Title	Are MGTOWs "coping celibates" ?
Author	NtsParadize
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	May 24, 2021 7:36 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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