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[–]NOSFERATU_ZODDO 128 points129 points130 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Classic abusive ex
[–]antiSJW_Mongoose 67 points68 points69 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's like their "go-to"..... always an abusive ex. You'd think they'd realize that we've caught onto their garbage years ago, but they keep on using it.
[–]MuchIndependence 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
because there is always a naive white knight simp who believes it.
[–]Stahlboden 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She said she was in an abusive relationship. She didn't specify who was the abuser in it.
[–]Rhum-runner 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup all ex bf’s are all abusive. Gives em tingles. Removes women from responsibility.
[–]kashmokash 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She said abusive relationship not abusive ex, for all we know she was talking about herself.
[–]deepspace7 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He didn’t help out with chores. -> He’s abusive. He argued with me. -> He’s abusive. He raised his voice and swore. -> He’s abusive. He slammed the door. -> He’s abusive. He didn’t want to do something I like. -> He’s abusive.
[–]Allanlemos 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ikr, abusive ex=Alpha chad who used her until he got tired of her shit.
[–]felafelsmoke 75 points76 points77 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Make the most of it sweetie, you have maybe 5 years on the clock
[–]Chaos1990 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tick tock tick tock.
[–]Szaare 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
tick tock on the cock
[–]Third_Gray_Monkey 58 points59 points60 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She even has the guts to ask if she is an asshole. Of course she is not only an asshole but a big piece of shit.
I wonder how many girls dream or do things like this after their failed relationships... let me guess... every single of them.
[–]AccomplishedAndHappy 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She's asking, because deep down she knows she is, she's just hoping someone will say to her, "No, of course you're not the asshole".
It's like when a girls says, "I look so ugly", so that someone, usually a male, will say, "No you're not, you're beautiful".
[–]Third_Gray_Monkey 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A vicious circle, she gets external approval and he feels he is a good guy for it. She increases her ego, he dresses as clown.
[–]AccomplishedAndHappy 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
An observable metamorphosis.
[–]tfalschung 55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Looking for validation to be a whore. And her friend is wrong for not playing along. Unreal. And of course the ex was "very abusive".
[–]AccomplishedAndHappy 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
By abusive, what she really means is, "he did not approve of me going to the club with my friends and coming home drunk with sticky white stuff on my face".
[–]realChebz 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
absolutely. Never trust women when they say the were in "abusive relationship", 9/10 times they were the abuser.
[–]AccomplishedAndHappy 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
^ fact
[–]SilentQ2 40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Shaming is okay. It is a way for society to ostracize undesirable behaviour. Since the destruction of shaming this clown world has happened.
[–]Allanlemos 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. Western society started to fall apart when we stopped shaming women for their inappropriate behaviour.
[–]jhooperp 40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
It’s always “got out of an abusive relationship”.
Women don’t stay in abusive relationships, women are more likely the abuser because society turns a blind eye to it and plus there’s no help for males who are abused. Point is women use that line because they want sympathy.
Also her wanting a wild summer is just what she’s always done. She makes the excuse that she’s finally single which just means now she doesn’t have to hide the facts she’s fucking others.
Remember after these “wild summers” she’ll try to find a Simp who she’ll make sure not to be wild with because he has to earn her love. It’s sick and twisted. and once the wall hits her she’ll blame men and “patriarchy”.
She fits all the cliches.
[–]AccomplishedAndHappy 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I once dated a girl who lost her temper and punched me when I refused to give her sex (I was tired). After we broke up, she spread rumours that I was, "abusive", to her.
[–]Fuxorsion 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely nailed it 👍
[–]ThereIsAlwaysVanilla 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And I'm willing to bet her pussy is a blue-waffle cliché. (Don't google it).
BLEEEECHHH!
[–]Actavis_Prometh 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Just because I did all those crazy sex acts with Chad doesn’t mean you’re entitled to anything more than 30 seconds of missionary”
[–]Glittering-Meat3088 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She knows it's wrong, that's why she's using a throwaway account. She just needs to fulfill that black hole of needing to be right, like the junkie that she is. Not the only thing she's got a fixing for though.
[–]BF8211 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And she knows the geniuses of AITA are going to praise her and trash her friends/ex
[–]nplusultra 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I couldn't care less for 'women's first world problems'. I have real problems I need to solve ... ;-)
[–]azexdctvybhnkmll 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She can do what she wants but her friend is not wrong in slut shaming her. How about instead of a contest to see how many stds she can get, she focuses on making her life better and what attracted an ex like that(if he even was abusive to begin with)
[–]Marque01 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He wasn't abusive. She probably went to AITA about him with another account last year and they convinced her that he was abusive and she should dump him to go be a slut :)
[–]CA-GMOW 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In a couple of years...
*knock knock" she hears!
"Who's there?" She whisper in a seductive voice
The wall hits quietly
"Where are all the good men?" She moans
She turns around and looks, all the men that were invisible are with younger girls, all her ex's are at a better place in life, and every men has accomplished their goals making a difference in the world. Yet there were no men who qualified for her, where now she doesn't qualify for a glance from any guy.
[–]lookingforinsight2 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The reality is that the friend became upset because this is behavior consistent with the OP. That’s why she went back to the girls to emphasize how lucky they are they chose not to go; they are all used to making these observations about her.
[–]hockeyguy013 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What, she can't hold her legs together for a week>?
[–]sbp1991 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All of their exes were abusive. I finally understood that some years back, when an ex called me an abuser after I broke up with her.
[–]OriginalGreedy 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Abusive- Expecting loyalty and respect. Refusing to accept you fucking every cock you can.
Source-Feminist Dictionary.
[–]aknabi 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember a date where she said her fiancé abused her. Digging in the abuse was because when he broke off the engagement he didn’t give her his house and she had to move. Date ended about 5 min later… paid only for half… I’m sure later she told some other chump about the abusive first date she had with a guy that left and only put half the money in
[–]javerthugo 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What was the result ? I got banned from that sub awhile ago. Frankly that’s an ESH situation. She an ass for wanting to go on random hookups (that hurts everyone) and her “friend” is an ass for insulting her and gossiping about her. Seriously that’s some of the. Last childish shot I’ve seen in my life.
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
top comments are NTA, anyone saying yta/esh is getting downvoted pretty hard
[–]TheSmartTraeder 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely disgusting. It baffles my mind how a girl could have this mindset of going out with the sole purpose of getting fucked by as many strangers as possible.
How is that fulfilling?
[–]Marfi09 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
According to the upvote.
Boys: bros before hoes. Girls: dicks over girls.
[–]greencircle10 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
slut shaming needs to be normal again
[–]alienmuseum 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, well all it does is telling women to hide it better. Now it lays bear for everyone to see. To see their true nature. Let them do whatever the fuck they want. Just as long as we don't have to be captain-save-a-ho.
[–]Kushmon420 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not letting her have an open relationship =/= abuse
She just wants her hot girl summer.
[–]realChebz 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"got out of very abusive relationship" - you know what that means right? She was whoring around and the guy wasn't ok with that, so obviously in her mind it was a "very abusive relationship".
[–]MotorAggressive5115 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women used to have diaries. In fact that is how we know a lot about women in history from their diaries, educated upper class diaries. She processed her feelings to a freaking book and locked it up in a drawer.
Now she anonymously processes every light and dark shallow and deep thought through the internet because she is in bed probably drunk on her phone looking for someone to validate her thought.
[–]AccomplishedAndHappy 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I recently got out of a long and very abusive relationship" - i'd wager she was the one being abusive, he simply tolerated it for along time.
"girls just wanna have fun." Casually go dick hunting.
Any of you man enough to marry women such as these? Who's brave enough? Come now. Step up! Sign up! Sign your life, hope, dream, asset, soul, etc away!
[–]rusticoaf 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Abusive? meh...
I've also been called racist, homophobic, and toxic for no fucking reason, too. Words are losing meaning.
[–]Actavis_Prometh 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
People on that sub never understand that being within your rights to do something doesnt mean you SHOULD.
She has every right to bail on her friend to slut around. But yes, that does make you an asshole.
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