Because "effort"= more expensive.

GuianaSurvivor · 2020-08-21T17:04:54+00:00

"No problem, if you like making efforts we can go on a hike or cycling around the hills on the outskirts of the city."

And she never called back.

Such a nice day.

gantz_au · 2020-08-21T17:21:21+00:00

"How do I communicate to this guy that I'm a prostitute without saying that I'm a prostitute but won't get any sex out of me?"

KneeDeepThought · 2020-08-21T17:48:06+00:00

"I don't care that literally everything is closed and public parks are basically the only option, I demand that he move heaven and earth and immediately open all entertainment venues and take me there! And I want a pony! And ice cream!"

Dunkman83 · 2020-08-21T17:19:08+00:00

Isnt a trip to the deli and a walk around the park on a nice day, seem like the kind of thing a woman would ask for?

And its not a cheap deli so whats the issue

simpleguychilling · 2020-08-21T17:35:15+00:00

She was unable to walk around the park the fat fck.

SomeSqueakyCleanButt · 2020-08-21T17:54:25+00:00

If a female tells you that you need to spend more money on her (notedly for a first date), she's not worth your money, time or effort. They never are, but these ones bear special notice.

Wide-Brick · 2020-08-21T17:06:41+00:00

not only more expensive, but WHY should he put in ANY extra effort - especially when you currently have your FWB that takes you absolutely no where (except to physically-pleasure-heaven).

Ladies....you did this to yourselves.

ZarBandit · 2020-08-21T21:31:23+00:00

It’s a shit test. For women.

She fails. Next.

hulkasauruswrex · 2020-08-21T19:06:28+00:00

She is from fds so she has a mental disorder already and they pretty much just promote legal prostitution. Who gives a fuck what a retarded hooker thinks.

riitguy · 2020-08-21T18:28:11+00:00

She got offered more than I would have given.. I'd offer a 20 min coffee meetup for a first date. Dating is dead.

Anatol_Felsen · 2020-08-21T19:13:43+00:00

If I was taken to a deli and the walk in the park I would love it. Bet the bitch didn’t even pay for her own meal. She’s an actual prostitute and whines when she doesn’t get enough free shit.

TigPlaze · 2020-08-21T18:56:05+00:00

She could always say, "I'm a golddigging whore who expects you to spend a shit ton of money on me on the first date. I'm totally entitled to everything in your bank account. Spend spend spend and then I MIGHT let you fuck me. You'll only be my 4,387th dick."

2020-08-21T20:39:22+00:00

What do you want the guy to do? Cure covid? FFS

CognPsycNeurScie · 2020-08-21T17:24:59+00:00

she should be grateful that he did not offer to go swimming or visiting a sauna

ckitano88 · 2020-08-21T22:09:59+00:00

Imagine if a man said: Yeah dinner sounds good but im looking for a more high effort date.

So if dinner doesnt include a dessert of me throat fucking you in the bathroom, a sex swing when i drop you off and you swallowing... then youre not putting in enough effort.

Wtf caddy ass bitch

Toasty_Nuggetz · 2020-08-21T22:20:56+00:00

Back when i was dating a lot, i would just offer to take them to a dive bar. If they didn't like my idea, i ghosted them. Simple. If they really were interested they wouldn't give you shit about your date idea to begin with, they would just say yes. Any woman who behaves this way is not even a little interested in you.

Women want the guy to do everything; approach her, start a conversation, keep her entertained, come up with a date idea, ask her out, and pay for everything. It's literally zero effort. If they want to start making some effort and paying their way, maybe they can decide where to go. Otherwise, i would not tolerate this bullshit from any woman, no matter how hot she is.

rayedward363 · 2020-08-21T20:11:24+00:00

The first "date" should be getting a feel for each other, learning the basics and seeing if further dates are possible. They do not "set the tone for the relationship" as all the romcoms say.

pangolin001 · 2020-08-22T00:14:18+00:00

Women don't understand that more money does not always equal better. They're always using money to determine the status/quality of the product.

A deli is going to have fresh bakery bread choices, high end top quality meats from around the world, top quality produce and a large selection of quality cheeses all hand crafted into a sandwich plus a home-made scratch soup or salad and it will all cost more than any McDonalds.

This woman, like most, really don't understand what makes good culture/art/food/music.... it's only limited to "what other people are doing and how much did it cost" so if it's popular it's deemed 'good' because she doesn't have to risk being 'outside' of the trend and thinking for herself.

Phantom_Spark · 2020-08-21T20:19:33+00:00

If you want to indicate you want a better date... she has to pull out her wallet and pay for it herself! LOL

Whirrlz · 2020-08-22T00:50:35+00:00

Dumb unappreciative thot.

TXJohn83 · 2020-08-22T02:47:27+00:00

lol, the sad thing is she has been on real low effort dates like sucking dick in a car...

Hopefulwaters · 2020-08-21T22:49:59+00:00

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Shimakaze4 · 2020-08-22T01:31:50+00:00

LOL, how to tell her she just failed a shit test.

MrRadDad · 2020-08-22T03:06:46+00:00

The Deli I really love is actually really expensive. And most of the Deli's I've been too tend to always be a bit pricey, because they are small businesses.

Man these hoes are picky! Fuck em.

NickTesla2018 · 2020-08-22T04:00:17+00:00

Poor dumb bastard. Better to just step in front of a bus than date one of those bridge trolls.

Gehrman_The_Hunter · 2020-08-22T04:12:11+00:00

"How do I tell him that I'm a shameless leech that's only after his money?"

solitarybeast · 2020-08-22T04:23:44+00:00

I fucked 27 yo yoga instructors for a few samples at a local brewery. I'm 37 and ripped with 6 pack abs. I don't even own a car.

Women are dumb for muscles.

rocko20002 · 2020-08-21T20:45:31+00:00

Keep going at it and the only deli you'll be going to is Subway.

simplystimpy · 2020-08-21T22:34:08+00:00

XD

like omg why can't he treat me well like he does with his videogames? sheepish shrug OH WELL XD_XD_XD

21354641654684 · 2020-08-22T04:21:07+00:00

This would make great content for the 'choosing beggars' sub..

VampireGhoul · 2020-08-22T10:56:22+00:00

I am old enough to remember when a walk around a park was a proper first date. It was a classy and fair way to find out if there would be any point in further interaction.

Spending any money on a woman when you don't have any sexual chemistry is a fools game.

throwaway2233432 · 2020-08-22T17:11:00+00:00

Oh my the irony - a higher effort date requires you to expand more calories.

tsundokume · 2020-08-22T18:11:42+00:00

The instant she says anything remotely resembling this, I’ll block her and remove her contact from my phone. I don’t have the time, patience, or lack of respect for myself to deal with someone like this. Women ain’t shit.

MGTOWalwa · 2020-08-25T00:40:00+00:00

Only one coffee/ tea for first date. You know NOTHING about her. Better if she pays also - equality/ strong & independent etc.

just-a-dude001 · 2020-08-22T00:36:12+00:00

every HWI I know does this on at least the first 3 dates. she will post later about how she found out this guy is loaded and crying about how she ruined her life by blowing off this date.

ronoda12 · 2020-08-22T04:11:36+00:00

😂

Silverblade5 · 2020-08-22T15:52:42+00:00

That comment section.

Title	Because "effort"= more expensive.
Author	Dunkman83
Upvotes	236
Comments	57
Date	August 21, 2020 5:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/ie0n8y/because_effort_more_expensive/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/because-effort-more-expensive.168158 https://theredarchive.com/post/168158

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