Been thinking about going MGTOW

SylvestorTalone · 2020-01-09T03:10:51+00:00

Benefits - You don't get eviscerated by a woman.

Drawbacks - You miss out on all the nice stuff that leads up to that.

TrueItUp · 2020-01-09T02:36:37+00:00

For me it was the combination of my last relationship in coming to the realization that I was blue pilled, how lucky I was that I didn't have to learn the hard way and then being single the last 2 years that majority of men are simps and just as fucked if not more so than the women cucking them because they'll stab their fellow man in the back with no hesitation in regards to impressing a female in any way. Read through the sub.

gantz_au · 2020-01-09T03:16:22+00:00

Do you want to get married?

Do you want to cohabitate with a woman?

Do you want to be in a long term relationship with a woman?

Why? Why not?

What do you want to do with your life?

Do you live for yourself or do you live to be a servant to others?

What path are you going to choose and why?

When a man chooses to go his own way, away from gynocentric narratives, away from societal narratives, away from cultural narratives and lives on his own terms, it's a path that he must choose for himself and figure out along the way.

What are the benefits to going your own way? That's for you to figure out as an individual because everyone has their own path.

What are the drawbacks? That's for you to figure out as an individual because everyone has their own path.

Will MGTOW grow in the future? That is irrelevant because it's about you and the path you're taking as an individual.

Is MGTOW useful to a mans health? That's for you to figure out as an individual because everyone has their own path.

Does MGTOW really save lives? That depends on each individual who goes their own way.

If you're asking, "Foes this really work for others, and if so, will it work for me?" I have no idea if it'll work for you or not.

The bitter truth is that some people want to be slaves while others want to be free.

It's up to you to figure out what you want to be now.

2020-01-09T03:07:37+00:00

MGTOW is not for everyone. It requires a lot of discipline and perseverance (e.g., delayed gratificaton). MGTOW will certainly affect your relationships with women and may even affect your relationships with friends and family. Despite that, I have found it to be profoundly rewarding in the long-term because it has enabled me to grow and develop as I never imaged. MGTOW usually starts with frustrations about women, but for me, the journey took me into becoming my own master, both mentally and financially. It's extremely liberating being so independent.

Why don't you research it more before taking the plunge? But be warned: once you've taken the MGTOW path, it's very difficult to go back. You may relapse into your old ways here and there, but it's mostly a one way street. Sooner or later, you'll journey into self-mastery will be completed.

2020-01-09T02:23:18+00:00

The information sources along the right side are your best bet for this kind of question.

DangZagnut · 2020-01-09T02:15:32+00:00

100% benefits. There’s no negative.

However here are some negatives.

you won’t be able to be married so you can spit that fact out to “prove” you’re not gay.

That’s about all marriage does as a positive, is allow plausible deniability if someone accuses you of being gay.

You will however, prematurely age and have crows feet because you’re smiling all the time,
and you’ll end up with callouses by high fiving all the time because your life is awesome.
it’s more fun to feel lament for being lonely when balls deep in an 18 year old Thai girl, than being alone next to a woman in a king sized bed who hates you.

pwnzusauce · 2020-01-09T02:41:37+00:00

Kinda hard to explain but I’ll give you the short version: mgtow is about men not dealing in relationships with women and going their own way to do their own thing.

However some people here do date or pump & dump, some are married and still shitpost or at least browse this sub. You decide what to do with the wisdom shared in this sub, which for many will cause red pill rage and may even reject the things said here... if you do persevere and get over the rage from finding out how we live in a lie then you will find wisdom and peace.

I recommend the stuff on the sidebar, browse this sub often for posts from other men’s experiences and wisdom, sandman and redonkulas in YouTube. Rollo Tomassi’s Rational Male is very good at explaining women’s behaviors, but if you decide to read his book then I’d like to add he makes excuses at the end about marriage because he is married himself.

Good luck.

Unexpecter · 2020-01-09T02:39:01+00:00

Well maybe tell us something about yourself first.

TheSilverShade · 2020-01-09T04:45:08+00:00

Chancellor Palpatine: "DEW IT"

ClintonKilldepstein · 2020-01-09T03:52:11+00:00

MGTOW is eternal. It does not matter if it grows in future. As long as humans have made use of the written word, the truth of MGTOW has been recorded and so cannot die. MGTOW is useful for a man's health if you assume that being alive is better than being dead. Yes, MGTOW does save lives, but it's not for everyone. Good luck.

2020-01-09T02:16:16+00:00

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Ben_Eszes · 2020-01-09T02:24:51+00:00

MGTOW isn't some definite thing like yoga is, so the benefits/drawbacks are variable depending on the person and how they choose to enact their idea of MGTOW.

But in general, best thing about MGTOW is the decrease in stress in your life. No worrying about having to please someone, no restrictions on what you can do (no asking your wife if you can go hang out with friends this weekend), and you have a lot more money to save.

You get to focus on being yourself and not degrading yourself just to get a woman. Look at Red Pill: a bunch of guys trying to act alpha to get girls, but in reality, they're a bunch of betas because they are focusing their lives around getting girls. With MGTOW, you don't have to worry about any of that! Just do whatever the hell you want to do.

Some downsides are that sometimes you might second-guess your decision and feel lonely. People might think you're gay or a loser because you don't have a girlfriend. You'll feel more and more disconnected with society over time.

That's all I can think of right now.

/u/scooby_snacks11 [since you were wanting answers too]

monkeestatuE · 2020-01-09T04:18:11+00:00

Once you bite that red pill you'll never look at that pussy as you was before.

ZoloftSanta · 2020-01-09T04:44:23+00:00

Don't overthink it. Just find a doctor who will do a vasectomy. Then in 10 or 15 years when all your friends are getting divorce raped and hit with massive CS orders, come back and thank us.

Channel_oreo · 2020-01-09T04:51:31+00:00

MGTOW is the best kind of cope. No one gets hurt and everyone benefits. Chads get all the women. Women gets the chads and beta bux. The MGTOW men lives happily ever after.

SawsRUs · 2020-01-09T07:19:29+00:00

To me, its simple. If you feel like something isnt working for you...stop doing it. Everything else grows from this simple concept.

andreas-mgtow · 2020-01-09T07:56:58+00:00

It's too late for you. The seed is planted.

Once MGTOW unveils the true nature of the game, it cannot be unseen.

GreetingsFromErf · 2020-01-09T08:50:59+00:00

Taking the red pill in this context is simply accepting the ugly truth about female nature and the gynocentric nature of the modern world. The truth is simply the truth.

You basically have three options.

The first is to try to be like cypher in the Matrix. He wanted back into the blue pill reality. It didn't end well for him did it?

The second is to embrace PUA culture or The Red Pill (TRP) guys like Rollo Tomassi. This is basically learning to play the game well in an effort to win it.

Last is MGTOW. This is simply choosing not to play a rigged game. Obviously, most of the people here have chosen this option.

The choice is yours.

Ocjab · 2020-01-09T02:29:07+00:00

The benefits is enlightenment. Actually experiencing freedom from a mental prison you have lived in, your entire life. The matrix is a good analogy for this. You will stop urging for that validation from others and you will on focus on your own validation. Start self improve, by focusing on for example, a good trade, hobby, gym, etc. I have never stepped in to a gym before until I became mgtow.

Mgtow is growing, it is actually quite huge already. Most men just don't know the term yet, but they will. The moment a man decides to never marry or cohabitation, they are mgtow already. But you can of course go further into it and become monk, like me. But no one is forced to do that, you still decide what you want to do.

why is it growing? Simple, because the juice ain't worth the squeeze. More and more men are realizing this every day. There is not benefit for a man being in a relationship, NONE. The only thing I could think of is kids, but women will weaponize your kids against you. Do you want to put your kids through that?

yes, it is good for your health, you will start focusing on your own validation. Which in turn makes you thrive for a better life, mentally and physically.

Indeed, mgtow saves men's lives. By showing these men the matrix. Men go crazy trying to get validation from others. They lose everything because of it and want to commit suicide. That fairy tale doesn't exist, stop chasing it, there is nothing there. Stop wasting time! Focus on yourself. Be the best you can be so you can be proud of yourself when you die!

Title	Been thinking about going MGTOW
Author	chessman6500
Upvotes	16
Comments	19
Date	January 9, 2020 2:12 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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