My friend still uses tinder and he showed me the women he’d match with and whenever he’d message them saying, “hey how’s it going” or anything along those lines of “normal conversation”, he’d get a one word answer or unmatched.

Whenever I go out in public and see a guy with his girlfriend, I can just sense the attitude and entitlement she has. Their body language and the way they talk to their boyfriends as if he’s not shit, all while being on her phone the whole time and the guy just puts up with it.

To me, it’s such a massive turn off and torture to be around.

How do men rationalize being treated like shit & disposable by someone while at the same time having to be an ATM & entertain them? Why throw away your self respect for someone who sees you and treats you as disposable?

Because of fucking validation. We don’t get validated as men for merely existing like women do. We have to earn it through things that are external to who we are on the inside which in turn leaves us never truly satisfied and desperate.

And even if you start to validate yourself, value your self respect and time over pussy/validation in this society, you’re seen as the crazy one.

They want us to be nothing more then useful tools to dispose of.