Ex admits she wants sex and threesomes with other women. I oblige, cause yeah that sounds great I just don't ever cohabitate with women. After getting into it, I grab a hint she's wanting to control me in subtle ways.

I'm a bit of a tricky sonofabitch, so when I detected her deception, a strategy was devised to intercept some of her secrets with a fake lesbian profile.

Her:

"Not trying for side action - not worth my time. I was actually feeling quite satisfied with our sex life. And no follow through? Geezus. You have no idea how much effort I have been putting into this. Clearly I'm heading down the wrong path though. I have been 100% open with you about this."

Her to secret profile:

"Just as you said there are things you would never tell your girlfriend, that is something I'd never tell my man friend. Even though we technically aren't "a couple" I know it would upset him if he knew I was sleeping with other men. So I just don't tell him. I also have had my fair share of one night stands, although lately I've had a thing for younger men (early to mid 20's) and have a couple that come over when I want some company. I think younger men are incredible in bed."

Her: Told me she met two women for the past two fridays in a row in person to set up threesomes with us.

Her to secret profile: "All is fine but have yet to find someone who seems to be ready to fully commit to something - anything, even just grabbing a drink or coffee."

Her to secret profile:

"I highly doubt he is sleeping with anyone else or has for a long time. He's very introverted, and although incredibly sexy, I always joke that he "has no game" - because it's true - he has absolutely no idea how to pick up women."

When I picked up a woman for a threesome:

"Ohhhh, wow. I had no idea you were out there lining this stuff up without my input. I thought it was something we were doing together. Whatever. I'm not interested in doing this with you if you're going to hide stuff. That's just weird as fuck and only creates problems. You have some serious insecurity issues if that's the case. I don't think you get this at all. What I want, I mean."

It was nice to be able to back up my gut instinct with verifiable info. Of course she still has no idea I gamed her like this, and still thinks she's really smart. Stay MGTOW my brothers.