Dating is such a scam.

TigPlaze · 2017-02-12T00:38:19+00:00

Yup, and complain about the imbalance of power and you're branded a misogynist.

uttftytfuyt · 2017-02-12T00:45:39+00:00

This is true.

Mgtow is about brutal truths.

Zombocom1911 · 2017-02-12T02:24:11+00:00

Chad doesn't date. Chad fucks her within hours of meeting her. Dating is for beta bucks

LibraryGuyMGTOW · 2017-02-12T01:13:08+00:00

Remove sex from the equation: What value is there to dating for men? NONE.

This! Imagine that women were non sexual would you treat them like they are treated now? We don't kiss their ass because they are simply awesome human beings, we want to fuck them.
I think to a certain extent men are to blame for that. You tell someone how amazing they are for simply breathing they will believe it after a while.
Men need to stop the pussy thirst because it is feeding an already over inflated narcissistic gender to bizarre ends.

thefifthestateusa · 2017-02-12T00:53:46+00:00

Proud misogynist HERE!

Helikzhan · 2017-02-12T01:09:08+00:00

Fuck toys/dolls and disregard women. Unless of course she's a paid professional in the sex industry.

Decouple your need of female validation from your sexual desires. Desire only the flesh as is your nature. Undo the social programming.

Paladin2903 · 2017-02-12T04:35:23+00:00

Dating is nothing more than acting. You're playing a game (because you have no choice but to), she's playing a game, and the only one getting played is you (the man). It's a rigged game. You only have the illusion of control. You have NO control.

I mean, what's the reward? To eventually sign the most one-sided, anti-male contract in human history. To allow half of your assets to instantly become hers.

To watch her quickly age, get ugly, fat, become a nagging bitch, and to enslave you. To watch her withhold sex because she never "feels like it." Yea, no fucking thanks.

For men, they're trying to get to know the girl and genuinely fall in love with the person. For women, they're trying to get to know how much money you have and form a business. That's all you need to know about dating. It's a fucking scam, and genuine love from a female does NOT exist.

Oh sure, they might like you a lot. Hell, they might even "love" you -- whatever the fuck love is. To me, it's nothing more than a trick, created by a chemical intoxication in the brain. However, even if she does "love" you, there are many conditions to that "love." Sorry, but anything conditional isn't "love."

I don't know who -- or what -- created these creatures we call "women," but they were created simply to breed and seek out men with the most resources/status. That is IT. Forget the Disney love fairytale bullshit. It's an illusion.

Marriage is a social construct created by we humans, and ironically, it goes against human nature.

Marque01 · 2017-02-12T01:04:04+00:00

You're under the assumption that sex was ever on the table. Nope. This is about getting attention on a Friday night and doing you a favor by letting you pay for her supper + drinks

owq · 2017-02-12T01:37:51+00:00

Exactly. Equality is touted but men take all the risks. Dating, relationships, marriage. All scams.

jmurphy1983 · 2017-02-12T02:11:22+00:00

As someone who really didn't spend a ton of time looking into how to attract women and other dating crap, I still regret every second of it.

I'm completely unattached from women- I feel nothing and at the same time it feels awesome- it's weird

Morb357 · 2017-02-12T03:38:56+00:00

Red Pillers will eventually become MGTOW once all the frame holding and such have failed. It's a multi-step process.

Fictitiousfallacy · 2017-02-12T02:53:12+00:00

The reality of relationships; women bring nothing to the table besides sex. Don't agree to a one sided deal.

MyHearse · 2017-02-12T01:13:33+00:00

Dating and relationships are cancer for men.

Opt out and do whatever you want.

Not go with it and do what she wants.

Raiden627 · 2017-02-12T03:01:20+00:00

You're the one who does all the work - you're the one who asks her out, plans it, pays for it meanwhile she's just texting Chad when she goes to the bathroom or blatantly during the date.

soullessgeth · 2017-02-12T08:30:43+00:00

our whole society is based around breeding mindlessly obedient consumers.

women consume much more than men and are more valuable in that sense...not to mention more obedient

themachiavelliprince · 2017-02-12T08:56:53+00:00

A few dinners and party tickets is one thing, but the psycholigical and emasculating psy op shit tests and manipulation is another thing.

gods_bones · 2017-02-12T02:57:51+00:00

Take a bitch out on a date. Dont give her your real name. Drive yourself. Meet her there. Order a nice big meal for both of you. Excuse yourself midway through to freshen up. Suggest that she order both of you a couple of drinks while you are in the bathroom. Walk out the door pretending you are on the phone. Drive off.

yellow_black · 2017-02-12T11:25:22+00:00

Great point, OP! That's why we should push for prostitution. Men should be absolutely unashamed in expressing what they really want and note that we are not getting it.

The tacit game that bluepillers play of "courting" and "wooing" a woman without acknowledging (even to themselves!) that they just need sex is not only ridiculous, but hypocritical.

Anyone who gets regular sex can tell you that once you have had sex, you do NOT desire the presence of a woman at all! It's the most natural reaction. In fact, you even feel cheated and ashamed at the entire dance you did to get to that point.

That's why I unabashedly suggest legalizing prostitution. People who have moral qualms about this have no idea exactly how many women are A-OK with prostitution as a way of making money. Women secretly know the Deal: men do the hard work and dirty jobs, and get sex in return.

StillSingleTho · 2017-02-12T01:46:16+00:00

I'd rather just spend that time and money on riding my bicycle over to my mate's house with a pack of beers, where he's going to spark up the BBQ.

In fact, that's precisely what I will be doing next week!

thingseverybodylove · 2017-02-12T00:43:11+00:00

Well, you get love, or so they said, which is intangible. What I don't understand is that why would men trade what they earn with their sweat and time for something that couldn't be seen, measure and retain itself after a while

Raiden627 · 2017-02-12T02:59:34+00:00

You wouldn't do the same shit for a woman that you're doing now. You think a woman is going to put out even if you're spending $100-200 on a date?

mittrinilli · 2017-02-12T03:08:14+00:00

So tired of dating and women in general, I'm only 21 and believe me I've been out with many girls, and I've come to the conclusion it's just not worth the effort. All women have to do is exist in this gynocentric world. Omg I have a pussy! It's my trump card I can play so no matter how much you have to offer me it will pale in comparison to my smelly used up sexual organ...Yawn

comptejete · 2017-02-12T12:43:16+00:00

hold frame, be confident, lift weights

You should be doing this for yourself. Having women interested in the better you is a consequence but it should not be the goal. You are the prize.

Arzu1982 · 2017-02-12T14:21:11+00:00

Simply just get a hooker, at least you are guaranteed sex

nazi_ovipositor · 2017-02-12T12:00:48+00:00

that's not the problem. if you want to ask a girl out, then you got to do the legwork. the problem is that the entire interaction, literally starting with the first look (hers) is initiated and controlled by the woman. if you approach, it's because she signaled you to. if you ask her out, it's because she suggested it. if you fuck her, same.

the entire interaction is controlled and escalated top to bottom because it was her idea and she wanted to and I have to do all the legwork, pay all the money, and take all the responsibility for what happens? fuck that noise.

fleshnbones · 2017-02-12T13:00:05+00:00

Yes sir, boy I can't fucking wait until Tuesday, while all the cucks are out bleeding their wallets dry just to get their dick wet, I'm gonna be putting bullets through heads on Sniper Elite 4, and it releases on Valentine's day lol.

enlightenedmgtow · 2017-02-12T04:14:26+00:00

Dating is a scam. Even when an escort offers GFE, I'm usually like "Nah fam, I don't want to listen to your BS. I just wanna fuck and leave."

espresso85 · 2017-02-12T11:05:13+00:00

The concept of charm, attraction, spark, chemistry, soul-mate et al are all spoon-fed to us from the childhood via movies, tv, magazines and literature: we bought it happily. Her coyness is a deception.

What matters is just the orgasm. If you can attract woman to help with it without much drama, go for it, else, help yourself. No shame in it. No oneitis. No putting her in a pedestal. No paying more than what she is worth.

letsriseup · 2017-02-13T06:24:57+00:00

But Red Pill, how do we solve the following?

Monkey branching

Cheating

Hypergamy

STDs

False Rape Allegations

Divorce Rape

Predominant Female Child Custody

Spermjacking

JUST HOLD FRAME BRO

OH AND LIFT PHAGGOT

...Right.

MGTOW_Monger · 2017-02-12T02:29:17+00:00

s0ma_ · 2017-02-12T02:54:43+00:00

Peacock ...

destroying with brutality. legit.

lollipoopex · 2017-02-12T20:38:02+00:00

meh...

it is worse then that. Looking for a job is like dating. Looking for a flat is like dating.

On every market you will experience your value.

jKoperH · 2017-02-12T23:35:39+00:00

But dont you feel like such an "alpha Chad" when you do???????

AUTISTIC_YELLING · 2017-02-13T01:27:38+00:00

BITCHES AINT SHIT, MY RIGHT HAND WILL ALWAYS BE LOYAL!

geocitiesuser · 2017-02-12T09:27:23+00:00

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Title	Dating is such a scam.
Author	geocitiesuser
Upvotes	249
Comments	104
Date	February 12, 2017 12:29 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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