I just wanted to thank you for being a strong independent woman deciding to be a single mother. Thanks for getting knocked up by a alcoholic drug addict. Thanks for deciding you didn't need any other man. It was great fun bouncing from daycare to family member never seeing my father or mother. It was nice seeing my dad maybe one or twice a year after you extorted money for my visitation. Telling me what a piece of shit my father is when in reality you're the monster. Control freak, narssasist, borderline personality, self entitled cunt.
I now don't compare myself and my station in life to those who had a stable, intact family envoirment. Why would I believe in love and marriage when clearly you showed its a scam. I'm now the statistic of men who grew up without fathers in the home. I'm hope you feel empowered when your all alone in the worst nursing home I can find for your kind. I could have used non neurotic, non hysterical, non abusive attention from time to time. You can't raise a man. Your a 60 year old teenager. All you ever cared about was yourself. Just like every fucking cunt I've ever met in this missable world.
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Real talk.
Every time I see or hear someone spew the "single moms are the real modern heroes" nonsense, I feel like kicking them in the shins.
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This hits close to home. I don't even know my father. I still believe that most of my misguided actions have their root on this, like my lack of ambition and direction in life. Luckily I have a big family (I'm Mexican) and had many role models, it's probably the reason why I didn't end up being a criminal. The lack of a real father really does influence your mental health.
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Guess I should've been more clear. I was talking about the consequences it had on me as a child. I was also talking about mental health, as far as I know being lazy is not a mental health issue. Now as an adult I can look back and realize it. Whether I'm lazy or not is no one's fault but my own.
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I'm happy to be able to share some of my story and point of view man, it's no problem. I'm not really bitter about it, I just feel it did have some effect on me.
My mother wasn't abusive or a bad provider. She worked hard and she wasn't there a lot of the time, but I understood and still understand why she wasn't there. There also was a period of about 3 years when I lived with my grandparents because she worked abroad.
My mom never told me if my father was a drunk or anything like that, I have no idea who he is. She told me once when I was about 9 or 10, (can't actually remember I'm just estimating) if I wanted to meet him, I blatantly said no. She never talked about it after that. Maybe I was too young to realize what that meant.
Then she got married and pregnant with my sister when I was about 12. I think I got jealous, I was also in a pretty bad school I started hanging out with shitty people and acting up, started doing graffity and stealing things when I was 13. My stepdad punished me by pushing me around, tearing my clothes and breaking everything in my room. I was also threatened with being sent to juvie.
I switched schools and stopped doing all that stuff, yet I was never the same after that. I had and still have many great role models in my life, they've given me great advice, but I was never truly guided by anyone.
As an adult, I can now look back on this and reflect upon my mistakes, and realize that some might've had their roots on everything that happened in my life.
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Not everyone grew up in a broken home. The human brain has a rational system which when employed allows one to review evidence & draw conclusions. Face the fact, a lot of women are taking advantage of men seeking to fulfil their sex drives and this is wrecking mens' lives.
"You mean I can just look pretty with makeup and/or use my sex appeal to get what I want, I'm not going to waste this" this thought has visited the minds of many women and evidently they couldn't resist.
Sex to most men is like a channel bag to the materialistic girl stereotype, it's is hard to say no to more.
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Notice my choice of words/phrases like "a lot of women" or "many" women. Did not say "all", didn't even say "most" (even though evidence suggests this to be the case).
You're in defence mode and trying to maintain the image that females are gentle, loving etc. Yes women get butterflies in their stomach and all the chemical reactions associated with their own version of love but it doesn't last, their instincts kick in, and boy can they be destructive. Women have been brought up to take more and give less (close to nothing) when it comes to heterosexual relationships.
So like you said women aren't necessarily out to get men initially, although some are conscious of the fact that they have everything to gain if things go astray if there is a child, a marriage contract or even longevity that warrants common law treatment. As you can see a hypergamous woman has the option to get the man when she wants, she doesn't have to at the onset.
Look at the "dead" bodies (divorce raped men, men stuck with unsustainable alimony payments, unfair child custody decisions etc). After such analysis if a person still can't see that "A LOT OF" women (with state backing) have partnered to destroy the lives of men then one must conclude that ........ The conclusion is below, but I must first make it clear that I am not attacking you or calling you any of the below:
One would be left with no choice but to conclude the person is evil, irrational or both. Which you hopefully aren't.
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