Delete your Tinder. Bumble, Match.com, OkCupid, Happn, eHarmony, Plenty of Fish, Coffee Meets Bagel, and ditch the bitches you orbit on Facebook / Instagram

bitter_samsara · 2018-02-11T00:37:26+00:00

Get off those fucking sites.

Sage advice. Now I'm curious, are there regulars on this sub who still visit these places?

based_meme · 2018-02-11T01:06:47+00:00

Delete all social media.

--Guardian-- · 2018-02-11T02:03:04+00:00

This was the best, most freeing moment when i got into mgtow. The power you get when you deny your life to everyone else and claim it for yourself is priceless.

HomoheroBishii · 2018-02-11T01:51:24+00:00

Deleted all these profiles in my late teens. That shit is like steroids for attention whores and their orbiters.

bingobongo991 · 2018-02-11T02:37:04+00:00

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JosephBancor · 2018-02-11T02:12:36+00:00

I agree unless you are making monthly profit from it in some way whether through ads or direct sales.

Using it for personal use is fucking retarded

TheToadShroom · 2018-02-11T03:03:13+00:00

You can get so much more enjoyment from life than random messages to random images who barely have an intelligent thought to contribute.

The best advice I heard on here was "if this person was a guy, would you still be talking to them?"

RadikalesRadiergummi · 2018-02-11T02:15:09+00:00

Those posts seem to come from lots of newcomers on this subreddit who are still deep in redpill rage phase & and still have the urge to get pussy.

They’ll learn it over time tho, we all did. At least i hope so.

SovereignSoul76 · 2018-02-11T04:54:29+00:00

Tinder and bumble were both verifiable gold mines for finding tail for me. Having said that, I spent far too many hours working through all of the flaking, all of the girls who show up looking 40 lbs heavier than their pics, and dealing with clearly damaged women. No free lunches, unfortunately.

But the best part is knowing that I voluntarily removed myself from the entire scene. Having the self-respect to know you deserve better is the first step toward realizing it.

WhackingPsychopomp · 2018-02-11T04:32:28+00:00

Used to go to some of those sites and did a fair amount of orbiting myself. Certainly not now. Counterproductive in the extreme. Oh and won't be any gifting to gold diggers this year for sure. Chicks come with DEBT. You may be one of a group of men being evaluated for your ability to help her retire debt quickly and secondly, give her the tingles and thirdly, be her slave. That's your reward for the arm candy in your bed. Added bonus, you get to watch her 2 kids while she's at work. And you get to pay for her second engagement ring and second wedding and her second honeymoon, just for openers.

Plus fix her car when she tears it up. Plus fix all the shit she breaks. Plus be 24/7 tech support. Plus get drug over to in-laws on weekends. Plus the periods, the tantrums, the demands, the need for constant entertainment and attention, the expectation that all her needs will be met all of the time, by you, and you better have the exact same libido at the exact same time, and buy her lots of gifts, and take her on vacations to Hawaii, and...

MonMag · 2018-02-11T05:59:28+00:00

I even got rid of LinkedIn. I'm only willing to use social media I can remain completely anonymous on. It's the best feeling ever not feeling beholden to people you don't care about.

Sumo94 · 2018-02-11T02:48:43+00:00

Yes sir. I just deleted mine like 2 days ago.

ccc45p · 2018-02-11T04:26:45+00:00

I deleted all social media with my name on it a long time ago, but I own Match.com stock because I'm pretty sure most humans are dumbfucks who are too stupid to look past their biological urge to spend arbitrary amounts of money to get their genitals wet.

rahl_r · 2018-02-11T05:06:22+00:00

I didn't use FB to chase females, but I can confirm I became much happier once getting rid of Facebook.. it's amazing how unhappy it made me .. which is weird because things usually don't upset me that much. But when it was on FB all rational logic went out the window and my feelings took over.. no idea why

mgtau · 2018-02-11T03:08:30+00:00

Did you know that some of these sites will never let you permanently delete your profile? You can deactivate it, but if you ever log in again (or someone logs in for you), bam, there it is again. Wish I would have noticed that little bit in their terms before creating the account.

Helikzhan · 2018-02-11T07:23:37+00:00

Orbit? I've been a distant star for many years. I fell out of orbit in my 20s. Since I've been alone, free and happy.

Rimefang · 2018-02-11T08:51:40+00:00

Those sites are scams anyways. They offer "premium" services for people, usually males, for unlimited mail slots, skip ahead of the line, etc etc. I wonder if it ever crosses the mind of those betas that perhaps she is just not into you because female culture is built on selectivity. Don't believe me? Let me know if you've heard this before:

"You can only be a real man if:

you are 6+ft tall/ cut/ handsome
Genius/ funny
rich/owns a high end car
Mysterious/ Open with his feelings
DEMANDS respect/ treated like a lady yet wants to be submissive

Mostly these. I've seen this laundry list of impossible standards on women's profiles, yet they seem to be okay to claim this as a form of discrimination TO THIS DAMN DAY! Talk about hypocritical.

mgtowchad · 2018-02-11T06:05:21+00:00

Done and done. So peaceful and I'm saving 60% of my income vs spending 120% as before where i felt pressured to have 'an interesting life'. I dont have to buy or do shit now. I go to work i go home, i chill and save money. Ill retire in no time at this rate while women bleed money out of other men :D

Jonlife · 2018-02-11T07:25:55+00:00

Sadly, some men on here still think dealing with that drama is worth it. They still love the danger in dealing with these psychotic cunts.

Fellas, and lurkers... any female you meet in those apps is literally a narcissistic cunt riding the cock carousel. If you still choose to deal with that knowing the facts, then the problem lies with you alone. Not them

ageontargaryarn · 2018-02-11T05:35:47+00:00

Thanks to this sub, I quit most of social media platforms and ALL dating websites. Never felt happier and more in control of my life than now. Thank you MGTOW!

kayfab · 2018-02-11T06:48:06+00:00

That's what i have been saying all along, who likes rejection, who as the energy to go online send messages chat i hate chatting, waste of time, and you get rejected by below average ugly fat whores with kids.

I still have a facebook account but i use it as a cloud for my pictures and i talk to some of my friends on it, i don't have any friends on my facebook, i removed them all and no one can send me a friend request, if they want to talk to me i have to accept.

I been off online dating for a very long time. I don't have a smart phone most people i know who use tinder get screwed anyways, the rest i have no idea what they are.

I had plenty of fat fish, never went on match.com.... badoo is deleted, that pretty much it....

lolklolkgf · 2018-02-11T11:37:44+00:00

Have none of these. Privacy is my number one concern.

faggatron0 · 2018-02-11T05:09:37+00:00

I unfollowed all chicks on faecesbook and twatter

Removes them from chat too. It's a lot less chatty lol

kiwi_like_me · 2018-02-11T06:35:21+00:00

I'm on Tinder, works for me. Certainly don't spend money on women and manage to get laid.

Aaaaaaand fuck Valentine's Day!

dawgsen · 2018-02-11T06:54:07+00:00

If you don't use social media as a marketing tool, then it's just a waste of time.

Flugzeug113 · 2018-02-11T08:55:09+00:00

I deleted all of mine before last September and with my newfound free time I just read lots of books and try to soak up as much knowledge as possible. I'll go to school 2 hours before my next class and I'll sit and read a damn book (or finish some homework) instead of staying glued to that garbage on my phone or computer.

The only downside to reading a book is the occasional woman sitting near me and trying to strike up some sort of conversation. I'll typically look at them once to see who it is, and just answer them while keeping my eyes on my book. They usually take the hint to just fuck off

MatthewsIsGod · 2018-02-11T14:47:22+00:00

lol the only women I have on my shitbook is my mom, sister and aunts. FB orbiting is the definition of pathetic

fenriswolff · 2018-02-11T15:06:27+00:00

I am coming more and more to this way of thinking. Thanks for this sub

playfromgnuhurd · 2018-02-11T16:40:56+00:00

Never any of those to begin with. My Facebook is deleted since 2015.

rahl_r · 2018-02-11T03:14:13+00:00

It is time for a different kind of social media. Namely, I'm looking for:

A secure, encrypted instant messenger I'd be able to use to message other recreational criminals (doing some not quite legal deals, and stuff)
A platform for artistic stuff - to promote my works, to showcase some as a portfolio; and I can't stand that facebook shit -- those mediocre leftists are out of control there

superfjant · 2018-02-11T08:39:03+00:00

I do not orbit and do not have facebook. But I need Badoo in order to do pump and dump.

MrRodje · 2018-02-11T09:12:37+00:00

Never had an account on any of those, except facebook, which i use for memes

shockinghillaryquote · 2018-02-11T09:55:23+00:00

Just deleted POF. Two dates... last girl was nice but extremely obese.

TheSilverShade · 2018-02-11T17:07:19+00:00

You're right but this is why I partly disagree when people say to delete Facebook and Instagram:

Without Facebook, I wouldn't have discovered MGTOW and this sub. I remember I saw a post done by a woman bitching about men who wants to pay 50/50 on a date. A guy commented "awalt mgtow" which prompted me to google MGTOW and I joined this sub when it was about 15k-20k subscribers.
Since I joined the sub, Facebook and Instagram are real eye openers and reminders of how shallow and how attention hungry most women are. The thing I hate the most about it is when they screenshot a text or a DM they received from a man. "oh look at this creepy guy giving me attention". And then they wonder why they can't find a man.
Most of my friend list on Facebook are men in entertainment industry (music production, singers, actors) and software/ web developers for contacts since I aspire to work in both environments.

I do understand some might get carried away by social media but for me it's real eye opening and I would still be living a lie. Plus with this #metoo fiasco redpilling men by droves I see a lot of comments on facebook and even on YouTube videos that are not related to MGTOW.

Loverofalifetime · 2018-04-30T05:20:22+00:00

I agree there with you OP. I invited some bitch out with my BMW and she turned me down flat and that shit fucked me up for months...Yeah shit is fucked up after that!

XRBislife · 2018-02-11T15:18:44+00:00

Already have 2 years ago.

awkwardio · 2018-02-11T17:32:17+00:00

Delete your Facebook period.

fcb98292 · 2018-02-11T15:38:33+00:00

Dude, it's easier to just say NO all forms of social media. If anyone STILL needs proof that such posts and records are permanent and public, I have no sympathy for them. The evidence is right in front of them. If a man is prone to gambling with his privacy and future peace, then sure, indulge in any or all of those sites, with no expectation that the info will not be made public at some point in his life. I, for one, do not need such interruptions in my plans.

DrRedPaint · 2018-02-11T07:31:22+00:00

don't delete it. Do what you want, I say.

your_inner_asshole · 2018-02-11T14:14:50+00:00

Awwww, do I have to get off my Filipina dating sites? But there are so many young hotties willing to fuck old men for cheap money!

Oto-bahn · 2018-02-11T14:20:58+00:00

I came across this sub by accident, while coming across a list of possibly hostile subs.

Regardless.. Even if I see myself 'going my own way', I don't need these anti-fem or male-only subs to post/boast about going my way. Seems like everyone here talks about 'doing what you want' but that would imply not giving a shit, but so many fucks are given here. That means you all actually give a big shit about women, since you need to talk about it, though it is fair to have a place to go for support to grow a backbone and stand up for oneself.

Title	Delete your Tinder. Bumble, Match.com, OkCupid, Happn, eHarmony, Plenty of Fish, Coffee Meets Bagel, and ditch the bitches you orbit on Facebook / Instagram
Author	infinitemgtow
Upvotes	374
Comments	98
Date	February 11, 2018 12:20 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/7wpef0/delete_your_tinder_bumble_matchcom_okcupid_happn/
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