Do you envy Chad?

Phantom_Spark · 2020-03-17T14:38:22+00:00

You couldn’t pay me $10 million to be Chad. It sounds like a miserable life. Just the aggravation of dealing with women to game them... that sounds annoying. Women don’t even like each other. One is already enough. Why would you want to take on multiple or dozens of women and be a super chad?

Plus all that focus on women likely means you’re sacrificing other areas of your life.

DavidLoPan13 · 2020-03-17T15:31:58+00:00

Chads get more pussy. But I have some Chad friends and they still get cheated on and fucked over all the time also. They are just more shocked when it happens to them. And with some of them, their whole life is pussy. That’s not a life I would ever choose I don’t think. Dealing with more than one woman at a time has always been more of a hassle to me rather than enjoyment.

cant-stand_ya · 2020-03-17T16:21:08+00:00

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gormagion · 2020-03-17T15:05:31+00:00

I don't.

I think sex is overrated and nothing special, really.
Haven't had it in 12-13 years.

Iqbal40862715 · 2020-03-17T15:14:18+00:00

Good question. Let's bring this up any time we are tempted to go back to the plantation

In a sane world I understand the envy, but things are so fucked up they don't have it any discernibly better than us.

the chances of getting a false rape beef are just as high
the chances of divorce rape are just as high
the chances of mental terrorism are just as high
unless you control dominate and discipline at all times you're just as likely to get nagged and shit tested
odds of sperm jacking are high
odds of paternity fraud are high

LockeLamoraLies · 2020-03-17T18:27:04+00:00

Son, the problem when you get a lot of women is then you have them.

Fucking women all the time is time consuming, expensive even if you're not buying them stuff and exhausting.

No matter how "alpha" or "chad" you are you're going to catch feelings every once in a while because that's human biology and every time you're going to be disappointed when she's AWALT. Every woman lies, plays games, cheats, uses you, creates drama when bored, craves whatever she doesn't have like it's vital. You could give a women 1000/1000 thing she asks for and she'll cheat on you for being too perfect

My N count is in the 60's and that's with my being in a relationship from 17-21 and 26-32 and I'm telling you that going to the gym and then eating a good meal by yourself is the happiest I've ever been. I've had fuck buddies and I've been engaged. It's not worth the hassle.

DangZagnut · 2020-03-17T16:21:46+00:00

Envy? What I envy is those Chads who really aren’t Chad, but someone with far more discipline and ability than I to hit the gym.

The ability to get those kind of fucking and is painful and the expletive is miserable to maintain that cut. I used to try but damn man.

The sex part isn’t very important. But someone that can at least maintain some abdominals? Mad respect.

BroscienceGuy · 2020-03-17T14:48:11+00:00

They keep all the women away from me so I can be busy with my skills in Music Programming electric stuff and be happy and content.

I don't envy him but I support him. Now imagine there were no chads in this world.. Women would be constantly irritate everyone like in elementary

Funkydirigidoo · 2020-03-17T17:48:32+00:00

Being a Chad is like being a dope addict with an endless stash. You'll never get the cravings, but you're still a junkie.

CognPsycNeurScie · 2020-03-17T15:40:43+00:00

I am indifferent. It does not affect me anyway and I prefer to think about stuff that matters to me. Anyhow: Hate, anger, envy are just emotions. Let them come and let them go.

graydoggames · 2020-03-17T15:59:50+00:00

Chads are not falsely accused of rape. Only ugly men are. It's the same as attractive doctors, they never get sued even when they mess up. That's statistically how it is.

STD, I can't tell. Child, I can't tell either, but probably low.

DeakinFrost · 2020-03-17T21:14:42+00:00

I know a Chad - to the tenth degree

Was in the Military with him

Absolutely fucking ripped, most shredded dude I've seen outside the octagon and ring and even then he measured up

I watched women do outrageous shit around this guy, countless times. From arriving at a bar, being maybe a 30 second wait upon arrival to get a drink and on first site bitches notice him and say to his face "your fucking hot" as an introductory opener (hot bitches too) to then being on a club a dance floor - him cock-eyed drunk and slurring his words to such an extent that you can't understand him, not a word - and 10 seconds of convo without an introduction and macking-on with their friends watching all turned the fuck on by it all. It used to make my blood boil.

He also used to attend the gay clubs to pick up women, which worked for him.

He was also a raging alcoholic, had a gambling problem, huge discipline issues, and ego that revolved around his abs. His solution to everything was "but I've got abs".

Showed another buddy of mine the head of his cock concerned cos of a giant wart on it (on the mushroom head FFS). Threw his career down the toilet in a the space of about a year - DWI's, driving charges, public intoxication etc etc

Punched one of his ex's in the face in front of a club.

Fell on a glass bottle in his own hand and nearly cut his jugular clean open, has a scar from it.

Fell off the roof of a gay club and broke his ankle after being kicked out and wanted to get back in, through the roof.

There is more but you get the point, here is the climax:

Got this 9/10 THOT pregnant, her second kid, and she instantly broke up, cut him off, got the AVO, then another. He kept breaching, saw his daughter twice by the time she was three.

She had done this before, it's how her first child came into the world. She does it on a schedule to avoid getting a job.

By this time he had been kicked out of the military.

Last communication with him he just did two years in the slammer. I didn't even bother finding out the charge. I cut him off last time cos he is a giant fucking problem.

Was shredded and in chad status the whole time.

See I was out of shape for a lot of that, but now, now I'M SHREDDED, SOBER, SELF-EMPLOYED, RED PILLED, NO MARRIAGES, NO KIDS, NO DEBT, ROLEX ON MY WRIST AND IN MY PRIME. I caps locked that because of how damn proud I am of myself.

Now I'm a chad (I'm 5'7 but thats the only detraction from my SMV which I'm cool with) and cautious as fuck. Red Pill lens changes everything.

I promise you, if you get Chad power like that too early, too young, too reckless, it fucks your life up. Power corrupts. Pleasure ins't happiness. Too much pleasure causes pain.

If I was over 6 Foot now I'd still be at risk of fucking my life up because the attention goes to your head and we as men have weak moments, the gym floor is filled with yoga pants camel toes and bit titty cleavage and they literally parade themselves like a fashion show catwalk for validation and the diiiaaaack *paul rudd voice* - and I wanna turkey slap and mushroom stamp them all.

We really are fine wine, let your vintage come into its year - don't be handle of Jack Daniels like this fuck up I described.

If you come into your Chaddy-ness and Tyrone-i-ness (and Chang-i-ness for my asian brothers) in your late 20's early 30's with the red pill optic T-800 operating visual screen you are absolutely in the best possible position to win at the game of life. Don't regret your path, remember, if you got it too early you'd of fumbled it.

Stay strong my MGTOW Brothers! AAAAAHHHH HOOOOOOOOOO

Sorikaner · 2020-03-17T16:55:19+00:00

No, while I did wish I've gotten some "nightly attention" by some hot thot (especially in my teenage years), I am not envious og jealous of Chads and Tyrones, but mainly due to getting "addicted" to my freedom and impulsivity (doing what I want, when I will with under a days planning)

RuzzeII · 2020-03-17T19:30:34+00:00

No. Men have feelings too. Chad's get attached and used for sex and that makes them depressed too.

AlphaOmegaIXXI · 2020-03-17T15:54:06+00:00

If you could get all the tail you wanted, would that change your view? If yes, you are incel, not MGTOW. Red pilled Chad knows that even with everything he brings to the table, he will not be appreciated, valued, or immune to hypergamy. Chad doesn't get NAWALT, NAWALTs don't exist.

WholeWheel · 2020-03-17T17:47:38+00:00

A lot of people are misunderstanding what Chad is.

I'm 6'4", good enough job in sales/tech, ride motorcycles, have a cool truck, and have been TRP aware since the early ladder theory joke site. I have been with about 45 women. Im 35.

Yet I am not Chad at all. A gf can bring me to my knees by not answering her phone on a Friday night. The only girl I can get to invite me over directly for sex is a 5 or a 6 if Im lucky. Most 6s and 7s I have to date into sex. Second date if a 6, probably 3rd if a 7. I end up dating them for a few weeks, months, or years even if I didn't REALLY want to at the start but eventually they get my ego invested in their approval. I dont throw huge amounts of money at them, but I pay for cheap regular type meals. I do date girls 7-10 years younger than me though.

Compare that to me having 55 yr old married friends, or 25 year old broke friends, that can bang attractive women they met while driving through a parking lot and saying something clever to them out their window. Women will spend money on them. Women will put up with whatever it takes. They would never ever out them for cheating because theyd be scared or feel like shit for losing what they have, or not show appreciation for what they were given earlier.

THOSE men are chads. A Chad is not just a good looking PUA dude, at all.

Chads are the men that get sex and attention from women without anything in exchange for it. The simple act with them is enough.

faltHes · 2020-03-17T18:07:33+00:00

The grass is almost never greener on the other side.

I'm content being a "LVM", as FDS would put it. Aka, average looking guy with no desire to date or be involved with perpetually unhappy harpies (read, awalt). I get to do what I want with my time and money.

Upper echelon of the best looking men that rub shoulders with women have to deal with far worse.

pkarlmann · 2020-03-17T18:40:28+00:00

Chad is stupid. Chad is a drug addict. Chad is poor.

So: No.

This sketch from SNL highlights the problem: Bachelor Auction

Whirrlz · 2020-03-17T21:21:00+00:00

I don't envy but it would be nice. I could get away with a lot more.

civcinco · 2020-03-17T21:21:11+00:00

Chads comment on here routinely. Even they say the juice is not worth the squeeze. Usually its because they catch feelings or the girl goes crazy on them and involves cops or a campaign against them.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-03-17T22:08:28+00:00

Chad/ Tyrone are men who we should cherish. They are the heroes taking the STD's, unwanted crotch cancer metastases, #metoo extortion for us. Those heroes are still willing to sacrifice everything for their 30 seconds of pleasure. My advice: just be smart and let C/T be proudly saying "YES!!! I have AIDS!!!!" or "Hell yeah!!! I shook hands with Weinstein on my 1 hour per 23 being out of jail!!" ACT as much of an omega simp loser around women: protect your sanity, your wallet and your health and let those lowlives meet each other.

ikhwan_arif · 2020-03-17T22:13:08+00:00

Oh god no.

These chads don't realize what they're getting into. Game and Frame is exhausting. I promise these guys are tired from the pretense all the time but they can't quit or their house of cards will fall.

Killerbee499 · 2020-03-17T22:29:45+00:00

Nope, I know an ultra chad and he’s always asking me how I’m constantly focused on myself and not caring about relationships.

undeadxchi · 2020-03-17T17:18:59+00:00

Chad is a state of being it can be as long lasting as a few years or as brief as one day.

Vidar34 · 2020-03-17T17:31:37+00:00

And inevitably having to deal with some vindictive thot trying to ruin my life? Heck no.

clayticus · 2020-03-17T17:37:07+00:00

All the time wasted is what's fuck up. Yeah, I want to have sex and some quality time, but to constantly chase women is giving too much of your valuable time up.

wishiwasthruhikin117 · 2020-03-17T17:43:56+00:00

I’m a Chad and I still to my own way. People forget that there are millions of Chads competing with each other.

2020-03-17T20:14:15+00:00

No. But I consider them important because they keep women occupied and away from me.

Soldierbosh · 2020-03-17T20:21:59+00:00

Nope. I'm fairly sure Chad ends up just avoiding women. And it must be hard work in the gym.

I'd like his abs though. But lazy.

R3dH4zm47 · 2020-03-18T01:49:26+00:00

Even without those risks in this crazy world, Chad's life is nothing to envy. A woman is a black hole that takes everything you value: your energy, time and money go first, but she'll try to control every aspect of your life if you let her.

That's what one woman does. Now why would I want to get involved with multiple?! Sex is fine and all, but only worth the trouble if you're never going to see her again.

Since16 · 2020-03-18T02:18:57+00:00

Honestly it seems glamorous but every chad i knew had EXtremely low self-esteem. They needed a mountain of valadation to function and adpoted feminine mindsets. They are hard to talk to. Looking back on my 20s it may have been work getting laid but if i had talked to women differently i would have got way more action and i got enough. I dated attractive girls while chads banging 100s but then the guys trying to bang the one chick ive got! I always was the most physically dominant of the group but not chad. The guys who are not i can see how you could get jealous i always was a little but saw his game as lying and just not something i wanted for myself.

For instance i stop dating a girl and see her years later she tells me after us she slept with chad who was my good friend. Im like really here i am not sleeping with his ex cause hes my boy and hes taking my exs number from my phone. Dude lived with me for years. Worth nothing to him. She must have tipped him off " hes coming for ya " cause our relationship ended with him just never returning a call from that day.

I see his sister one day and she asks what the hell happened we miss you -we all grew up together and were like family. I tell her well hes fucking one of my exes and never returned any more calls. She says he said im having sex with his ex and then wont talk to him. So he exactly reversed the situation to cover his tracks just like a woman! So no definitely not jealous of these peacocking effeminate pussies.

And dont kid yourself the right chads get sex from different women every week the same women who are ready to settle down in their 30s. Ive personally known every guy i consider a chad to bang 4 attractive women in 1 day. I was scratching out 5 or 6 a year. These women are disgusting whores for fucking these dudes none of these women are marriage material because of it. The longer being mgtow and aging seeing what happens to these guys i cant even call them men. Cunts maybe.

silly_birb · 2020-03-17T17:09:56+00:00

The mistake is playing the game with women's rules. The beauty of being a bachelor is that you live with rules that favors you.

Steaknkidney45 · 2020-03-17T20:31:10+00:00

I don't. You never know what goes on behind the scenes. I just worry about my own life.

Alpha999red · 2020-03-18T01:00:11+00:00

Of the two I personaly know the lifestory: both are permanently broke and with delusions of grandeur, both are the type that you dont find a single person in town that doesnt think they are assholes. It is similar to the hot THOTs, up to the 30s life is a walk in the park, all the attention and rewards for no effort, so you think its becouse you are clearly superior person and so you dont have to do anything but breathe the air. After 30s then usualy comes the downride, maybe because you cant write "screwing thots" on your CV?

Anyway you have nothing to envy, because even Mgtow chads here comment its not worth it. Beware, anything you get easy and free immediatly loses any value it has.

Sexy_McHandsome · 2020-03-18T01:03:47+00:00

Chad is just a blue piller that happened to be naturally sexy enough to attract women. They dance like clowns and revolve their entire life around getting laid. Not to mention the fact that Chad's have probably been the biggest victims of some of the conduct we discuss on here. While the bottom 80 percent feel sad and left out, Chad is directly in the blast zone getting cheated on, sperm jacked, cucked, you name it.

EqoRoulette · 2020-03-18T01:51:59+00:00

I prefer not being targeted by the relationship mafia TYVM.

coolerdeath · 2020-03-18T11:04:54+00:00

What about the mgtow chad?

imazed54 · 2020-03-21T01:26:45+00:00

I'm pretty much a Chad (more like ex-Chad), and even I dgaf about the cunts anymore. Rich, handsome, 140 IQ. Getting laid has been pretty easy for me since I was 15. Still not really worth the effort or risk.

Title	Do you envy Chad?
Author	ghostcel2018
Upvotes	47
Comments	60
Date	March 17, 2020 2:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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