Most upvoted posts in this subreddit do no favors for men who wish to go their own way.

I joined because the description of the subreddit sounds great. I think its healthy to strive for independence and to be proud of what you are and to support eachother in that. Most of the upvoted posts in this subreddit however are incredibly negative and guilty of the same problems and nonsense and usvsthem fallacies of the sjw and ultafeminist crowd. Instead of focusing on ways to support eachother and strengthen ourselves, we choose to focus in on ways people have been wronged.

Its dumb and does nothing for anyone. The best way to go your own way is to not give a shit about it. Don't become bitter. Its not worth it.