Enough is enough

1-800-CALL-MGTOW · 2019-05-03T04:28:09+00:00

Most women aren't worth the time money and energy for the headaches and few seconds of orgasm. This one sounds like she isn't worth it. You're probably just lonely and thinking with your dick or are addicted to the oxytocin and vasopressin. Go do some shit that is consistent and meaningful so you can stay away from inconsistent meaningless affection

VanIsleR · 2019-05-03T04:49:33+00:00

I think you need to hear something because I know this is hard to believe right now but I've felt that level of heartbreak, more than once, and I can tell you I've held onto the worst one for multiple years before but the truth will set you free. Understand your value, focus on your self be on your purpose and I PROMISE one day you won't feel strongly about a woman or an ex or relationship of any kind. I can't even remember what heart break feels like anymore except that I know it was such a strong feeling at the time.

I think you're living with a scarcity mindset, they are telling the truth when people say there are a lot of fish in the sea. Don't talk to your exes, you'll forget them.

Im_Talking · 2019-05-03T04:30:19+00:00

She isn't for you, mate. Be strong. Realise that you are the prize.

We've all had these type of corrosive relationships. Learn to always be aware of the red-flags.

HarringtonHouseGuy · 2019-05-03T05:16:50+00:00

Find a good, fatherly bro to talk your shit out with man. You’ve really been through a lot.

Vaxel00 · 2019-05-03T08:10:30+00:00

my old man was hard as fuck and would always just tell me to get over it, but that’s not what I wanted to hear

That's what you needed to hear, you didn't listen , what's it like to lay on a bed you made?

GrisBosque · 2019-05-03T08:32:32+00:00

You have to change your own paradigm. And quit cycling back into the moras....

Relationships are like marching into a swamp now.

Its just not gonna work. and no such thing as a good one.

Mediocre is the new great relationship.

You have to focus on other things, get some good hobbies going. Preferrably stuff related to skills and subsistence.

Guys are literally being farmed for divorce and child support and prisons for profit.

You are basically on the Veldt alone, and nothing but herd animals and predators on all sides. You will need a mercenary like mindset to survive.

We are going into what Chief Seattle described; "the beginning of survival."

The good news is this will also pass... The bad news is things are gonna get alot worse before they get better.

Dont waste your time being depressed. Use it wisely and get knowledge and skills for whats coming. Also slant your life towards mobility and even the stuff you buy should all be a harmonious collection of minimalistic gear and tools all related to staying alive.

Youre lucky you are in the military. It seriously sucks, (I know.) But there is a siver lining: that same getting your shit together training can be reapplied in your life. From keeping yourself and clothing ship shape, to keeping your materialism down to sea bag and foot locker, to staying in physical shape.

Self disapline with an eye to reality and watching the storm clouds on the horizon.

Only about 1% of the population is in the military at any given time.

So even the lowest grunt is learning important skills for whats coming, and will likely be needed by everyone else.

Basically what happens in collapses is society reverts and simplifys.. Usually theres chaos, and the result is a new society forms around small local defense forces. Its a Martial society based on merit.

And in any crisis the best prepared becomes leader automatically.

Embrace the martial aspects of your life. go the extra mile. Be Gung Ho on things that will be of benefit in times of turmoil.

Women? Pffftt! Theyre just an ambient critter and you need situational awareness about them.

Life is like a war zone now, and going to get alot more so.

You gotta let go of the emotions... Women come and go... its a fact of life.

Dont waste your life on women. There are ten thousand better things to do with your time, money, and heart.

Women are like "Cat Shit Land Mines"...

Dont step in it. Learn to detect and defuse. realize its better to go around them.

And red pills are like marking land mines.... Keeps your buddies from getting blown up too.

Be as wary as a deer around women.

If humans were two species divided by gender, women would be considered predatory parasites that lay their eggs on you.

And always remember; the truth is invariably liberating.

"Beautiful words are never true. The truth is never beautiful." (Tao)

And thanks for coming here and asking. that earns respect.

Its not easy to humble. But here is where the guys in beat up armor hang out.

Theyre going to tell you the truth as they see it. Opinions will vary. Cherry pick for what really works.

You gotta be tough man... these ARE:

"INTERESTING TIMES."

(good luck!)

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2019-05-03T07:51:04+00:00

Getting the blue pill out of your system can be traumatic enough on its own. But, add it onto the loss of a caring parent? Holy shit. Please don’t be so hard on yourself. You don’t need to be treated like you have to be some kind of hard guy like your dad. Your mom sounds like she was cool.

Truth is, guys can feel emotion much more deeply than most women. The pain can be excruciating. You don’t just “get over it”. That’s like saying “Frodo and Sam has many adventures on the way to Mt. Doom.”

Pain is worked through a little bit at a time and eventually, it dissipates and becomes easier. Find a private place to cry when it gets to be too much. Allow the feeling to flow through and pass. You’ve got this.

You’re not the only one who has gone through this kind of loss. The song “Not Even The Trees” by Hootie and the Blowfish was the first thing I thought of when I read your post. If you haven’t heard it before, go find that private place first.

SuperSaiyanBroly737 · 2019-05-03T08:23:46+00:00

This is a textbook example of Oneitis. The cure is GYOW (what your father said) but that takes time and it seems you have an emergency.

The quick fix is to rent a hooker right now. Make sure the hooker is more attractive than your ex. And then your next hooker should be different from the previous, never repeat.

And when all is said and done, you should realize that wahmen are easily replaceable and readily available to you on your terms.

Malverde116 · 2019-05-03T08:44:20+00:00

Bro your in the fucking military! You're going to have the time of your life shooting shit most people dream of.. you'll be deployed to different parts of the world... get out there & meet women... It'll only get better if you allow it to... Just move on with your life & think of your ex as a chapter in your life that's done... was fun for the tine being & thank her for it. Move on bro!

2019-05-03T09:59:16+00:00

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deepspace7 · 2019-05-03T15:40:11+00:00

It's understandable you're thinking with your emotions after the passing of your mom. The army's rigid structure and discipline will hopefully get your thinking to switch away from emotions to reason and logic.

Title	Enough is enough
Author	jahndolf
Upvotes	27
Comments	18
Date	May 3, 2019 4:21 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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