I’m a 30M bachelor who makes pretty good money for my age. Enjoying life with no commitments. In general I’m happy this way, but I get criticized by my family and even friends who are married.

My parents got divorced. My grandparents on both sides got divorced. And the great grandparents that I knew when I was younger also divorced. My college girlfriend who I thought I was going to marry didn’t work out. Is there anything wrong with marriage just not being for me? I’m not lonely or unhappy, but everyone feeds into this idea that you have to be with someone.

I go out, I bring girls home, I game, travel. And honestly it’s pretty great. The only difficult part is fighting off everyone’s judgement every time they see me. “Have a woman yet?”