Finally had enough

MadPreacher1AD · 2018-07-10T12:17:09+00:00

Welcome to the club. Drinks are at the bar and male friendship is all around.

silive · 2018-07-10T12:50:02+00:00

Don't even bother to "officially" end it. Just ghost her, block and delete all her contacts. Looks like she's was asking for it and one should be careful what they ask for because the may just get it. Looks like it's her turn now...

magx01 · 2018-07-10T13:33:08+00:00

I'm you six years later. If you stick to it through the early tough periods you wanna know what you end up like? Here's a few bulletpoints:

Even. Like Jerry in that one episode of Seinfeld. No ups, no downs, no rollercoaster, drama, fighting, dealing with tantrums or navigating the waters of ever changing emotions. Just stress free drama free even keeled peace and quiet. FOREVER. I could stop here and that should be enough for ya but let's keep going shall we?
More money. You know why.
Best physical shape of my life. I have dedicated myself to a health/fitness program which I tried many times in the past while dating/married but never stuck to. Now? Three years solid of working out and eating well and I swear I am in better shape at 36 than I was at 20.
Hobbies. Oh how glorious it is to rediscover the joy of uninterrupted, unquestioned hobbies. My drums get played more now than they ever have. Not a speck of dust to be found. I get high and play drums for hours and now one is here to say shit about it. It's so freeing it's unbelievable. And that extra money I mentioned above? Well I bought myself a $300 double bass pedal that plays like butter. It's heaven.
I actually enjoy chores now. I do them when and how I want and I listen to podcasts while doing them and just lose myself in them. No one watching over y shoulder, nagging, criticizing, etc.

You just took the first step to heaven.

lunatictothecore · 2018-07-10T13:13:45+00:00

Welcome to the club! Welcome to Men Grabbing Their Own Wallet!

WolfgangBreitweit · 2018-07-10T12:22:22+00:00

Listen bro. If she treats you like trash, she wants to be treated like trash. Women are getting wet when treated like trash. Do you understand? Your education and reflexes "to do something for her" are understandable for men. For this you should buy a dog. A woman doesn't deserve your care, she deserves an iron fist. If you understand women, you know what I'm talking about.

So. Don't end it before making this little experiment.

Be cold. If she asks for something, tell her you've got no time for that shit. If she ghosts you, ignore her. Dont approach her! Just be yourself as if you would be alone. Treat her more like a deception. Don't be welcoming in any way. If she asks you if you love her, tello her "maybe".

All that a man is doing for a woman, is making her dry and believe he's a jerk. She only asks officially for that BEFORE relationships. In the relationship cold-shoulder her. If she threatens you with leaving you, tell her it's okay.

BTW: You can be MGTOW also with this little parasite on your neck. Just don't do what it's asking for and don't pay for it.

nhendren23 · 2018-07-10T12:43:11+00:00

Welcome to sanity, friend.

mgtowrp · 2018-07-10T13:24:28+00:00

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TXRudeboy · 2018-07-10T14:20:44+00:00

You k ow it to be true, you have discovered true male wisdom, “nothing is ever enough” for women. Now, what are you going to do with that wisdom?

If you date, if you get into a relationship, you must control everything. Women are insolent children, the more you give in and give them the more they want and they are never ever happy. How would you treat an insolent child? By giving into their whims or being strict and doling our treats as rewards for good behavior?

If it’s too much trouble for you to train a woman then don’t get a woman. They’re like children or puppies. If you aren’t going to train them up well then don’t bother having them.

SmigSays · 2018-07-10T14:28:54+00:00

Welcome, friend.

Enjoy the journey without a greedy, manipulative, deceitful animal emptying your wallet and your mind.

Think about how much money you can save and invest now that you're not going to be buying trinkets and shiny shit for someone that doesn't care about you!

Get the pain out, and get busy living YOUR life, with YOUR rules.

Its surprising how life improves once a man becomes indifferent to women's conceited, selfserving behaviour and drama.

ATB fella.

cycloneous · 2018-07-10T13:59:55+00:00

For some odd reason, women like to be treated like sh-t. Society says, they are looking for Prince Charming, but that is a lie, they're look for some one to be that guy who treats them like sh-t. Do not do things on her terms, but yours. She probably shit tested you, and you failed miserably and that is why she is doing what she is doing. Do not fall for their shit tests(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YqRgphBA3WA).

Crisgocentipede · 2018-07-10T18:32:47+00:00

It's not a movement, it is a lifestyle choice. Welcome. You're free to form your own destiny for you and you only

coldire101 · 2018-07-10T19:02:38+00:00

Welcome to your new life

mgtowrp · 2018-07-12T01:18:03+00:00

When I first read you say

Knock one out I took it the wrong way haha

Best of luck brother

Hwga_lurker_tw · 2018-07-10T16:50:58+00:00

Call her a 'starfish' on your way out.

MgtowisDaWey · 2018-07-10T18:19:15+00:00

To avoid conflict with women when you break up with them, put all the blame on yourself. Tell her you’re not good enough for her and that she can do better and you want what’s best for her. This is tapping into her hypergamy and she will also feel sympathy for you. I’ve read some comments telling you to ghost her. This can cause an emotional outburst from her as she will feel abandoned like a little girl who’s father has left her. She will act irrationally and unpredictably.

Do not become distant and drag it out with her hoping that she breaks up with you, she will only like you even more if you start pulling away and she will throw herself at you sexually. Women want what they can’t have. If anything you would want to be extremely clingy and desperate by asking how she’s doing all the time, what can I do for you? Also saying that you might lose your job and showing weakness anyway you can.

If you feel ok with just ripping the band aid off and think that she won’t react violently then by all means go ahead. I’m just giving you other options to pursue in order to protect yourself. If she thinks less of you as a man it will also prevent her from trying to get back together with you.

Yashugan00 · 2018-07-10T19:16:31+00:00

They always want more. It's the only rule to live by. Doesn't matter what you have done for them

cobaltcolander · 2018-07-10T21:26:19+00:00

Congratulations, this may just be the most important decision of your life. But remember: never again.

mgtowrp · 2018-07-10T22:23:03+00:00

Watch out for that female validation need creeping back in.

tw1nm3t30r · 2018-07-11T01:32:56+00:00

Welcome to the brotherhood o7

MrMagtow · 2018-07-10T13:09:38+00:00

“today I’m officially MGTOW” (read: until the next BJ)

One does not become MGTOW in a day. Have you studied everything on the sidebar? Can you pass the “MGTOW Examination”? (quick, someone make a surveymonkey questionnaire!)

Title	Finally had enough
Author	mgtowrp
Upvotes	143
Comments	133
Date	July 10, 2018 12:13 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8xohqw/finally_had_enough/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/finally-had-enough.528275 https://theredarchive.com/post/528275

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