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[–]jonathino001124 points125 points126 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
They like to think that virginity is "just a social construct". That it is not real. But there is a real tangible difference between a woman who saves herself, and one who whores around. And that difference is psychological.
If you're with a woman who has been with a thousand men, you can GUARANTEE she's been with a dude who has a bigger dick than you. She's been with a dude who fucks harder. A dude who's kinkier. A dude who's taller. A dude who's more muscular. A dude that makes more money than you. A dude who's funnier than you. And when she's been with that many dudes, she's going to be comparing them to you EVERY DAY. Resenting the fact that she hasn't found a guy who fills all of those criteria at the same time.
She's learned what it's like to be with the best. And once she's been there, she can't go back. Her ability to love is tainted by her expectations, and her expectations are informed by her experiences.
[–]MrMannheim57 points58 points59 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A woman with more sexual partners pair bonds less with every additional partner until she literally couldn't give a fuck about him. It literally destroys her ability to love a man with every single cock she takes.
Makes sense when you consider how little women care about men today.
[–]Careful_Description22 points23 points24 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
By default they actually cared for men very little unless it was conditionally. What you said amplifies the problem.
[–]Gmann1414 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This has actually been proven by that toxic masculine thing called science...There Was an article bout riding more cocks=unable to pair bond/alpha widow.
[–]BertTheWelder14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Men worry too much about dick size. Women are not as visual as men, and unless you’re truly small, you’ll be ok.
We don’t expect much more out of women than being an attractive sex partner. Women expect a LOT more out of us. Yeah, sex is part of it, but hardly all of it.
The way to sexually hook a woman forever isn’t to have a monster dick or to fuck like a jackhammer. It’s to build an emotionally intimate connection during sex and make the woman feel like the sex is bringing the two of you as close together as any two humans can be.
I had an ex who had been with a well known porn star whose dick is ridiculously enormous. She said the sex just wasn’t that good because he was a selfish lover and half the shit he did hurt anyway. She left him for a guy with an average dick, and sometime after that is when he got into porn.
This is not to say SOME women aren’t size queens who crave a footlong dick. Yeah, some are. But not even close to most. Dudes just obsess on this stuff needlessly.
One of my first girlfriends talked about how things ended with her previous BF. He stupidly asked her if he was the biggest dick she had ever been with. She truthfully told him that he wasn’t. That ruined their relationship because he obsessed over it. Always made comments about how he knows he can’t compare, etc. he started having problems getting it up. The mere notion that his girl had been with a bigger penis just tore him up and he stopped even wanting to have sex. The relationship ended soon after and they had been happy prior to that.
A friend of mine is a couples counselor. We talk about relationships and such. He tells me that in the vast majority of the cases, if a relationship ends due to sexual problems, it’s because the woman doesn’t want to have sex enough. The next common sexual cause is impotency. He also does individual counseling and he tells me that it’s very rare that a woman cites sexual incompatibility as a major problem.
The sex part of a relationship with a woman is the easy part. It’s everything else that’s so god damned impossible because men and women are so different in every other way.
[–]AvailableGuava6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm confused, if the vast number of sexual problems in relationships is women not wanting sex enough, but sexual incompatibility is not the problem, then what is the problem?
[–]BertTheWelder10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry if I wrote in a confusing way. He tells me that when relationships end due to sexual incompatibilities, it’s usually because the man isn’t getting enough sex to satisfy the man. He says it’s very rare that the sexual compatibility issue is that the man isn’t satisfying the woman in some way, unless the man has impotence issues.
But typically when women seek his services on their own or as part of a couple, it’s very rarely because “he isn’t meeting my needs sexually.” It’s usually OTHER needs of the woman he isn’t meeting, and as we all know, that’s an infinite list with most women.
[–]AvailableGuava0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yes it is!
[–]DogFashion3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I tend to agree with you. I have zero insecurities about my own size (well, when erect... I'm a 'grow-er' not a 'show-er'). I've seen the huge dicks in porn. I understand that is not the norm -- just like the women you see in porn don't represent your average woman.
I've been married, had girlfriends. It's never been an issue and I've never been dumped. My manhood? Probably average to a little above average.
If she can't enjoy it, her vagina may better serve as a garage.
[–]cfuse5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry, but evolution is real.
Human penis size is a sexually selected characteristic, much like the peacock's tail is. Human penises are grotesquely enormous by primate standards. There is clearly selective pressure beyond pure function occurring here. Dicks need to be about 3 inches to work functionally and everything after that is visual (again, as with the peacock's tail plenty of human penises are pushing the upper limits of functionality on both hydraulic ability to maintain an erection and the capacity of the corresponding female anatomy).
Now, whether or not you're Mandingo is nothing more than an intrinsic quality of your genes like any other physical attribute is. So you're about as likely to be Mr BBC as you are Brad Pitt. Welcome to life, where you, I, and the other 99% of men aren't donkey dicked models with billionaire parents.
Now, as a corollary to that: why would anyone give any kind of a damn about what women want? If you absolutely must screw women then pay for a professional that will not only actually be worth fucking, but can be paid to put on a show as convincing as any ordinary woman's about how much fun she's having. Don't bother playing life on hard mode.
[–]harmonic_blast 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it’s very rare that a woman cites sexual incompatibility as a major problem.
That's because she won't let it get to the relationship stage if the guy's dick is too small for her.
[–]Sir_manalot39 points40 points41 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Here is a warning, do not fall for the tradthot unicorn trap.
Men love sex and try to equate to something grander then it really is.
And even if you get the perfect nawalt unicorn you desire. You will die wishing that you remained single instead.
For women do not lose feminity when they gain experience, they just gain understanding of what they truly want.
Same thing with us men too, when we are young and inexperienced, we think we want to be beta bux. But in the end we realize that even being an alpha fux isn't beneficial for us.
Let me repeat myself, a relationship with a women has and always will be the equivalent of being a loser. Your will lose everything for the sake of your wife and kids, and never receive anything beyond thank you are best
[–]Nuketown20215 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yup. It’s still an extremely losing proposition with a virgin. I’d add it’s also a bad gamble for the girl to stay a virgin. You miss out on fun during the peak years of your life, then get into a relationship whose longevity is a total gamble. Even if youre a virgin girl, your boyfriend still is a favorite to leave you at some point. Game theory optimal for girl is the greedy algorithm: fuck around. Game theory optimal for man is GYOW
[–]Sir_manalot6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly.
Men only win when they do not play.
Because as much as pua/trp think they are winning by mastering the game, they are just ultimately becoming what women want for women's entertainment and pleasure at their expense.
If all men quit playing the game, high quality sex would be free and plentiful. But of course, men are to stupid, impatient and sacrifical to ever allow that to happen
[–]Teflon08198 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TRP - Becoming the best dancing circus monkey you can be.
[–]PorkBomber4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My friend Sir_manalot always giving the dope advice :D
[–]Belzebuthian24 points25 points26 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There might actually be scientific evidence that sexual intercourse is implanting male microchimerisms in women. More specifically in their brains. So every cumshot taken might actually be changing their brain. More research is needed for confirmation.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16084184/
[–]figyg15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I believe funding has been cut to those studies. We can all guess why
[–]FightTheWorm1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is crazy interesting. I’m not sure what it all means, but from what I pick up it’s interesting.
[–]MrMannheim16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Feminism is literally all about destroying femininity and turning women into men.
Unsurprisingly, it is working and women are more miserable than ever now.
[–]U-9411 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Do I get power with each woman I sleep with? I've always thought of it as absorbing a piece of their soul ala Shang Tsung in Mortal Kombat. Made sex worth chasing.
[–]-Fender-16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Na, you mostly just get potential false rape accusers if you ever become rich or run for office as a Republican.
[–]U-944 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So you're saying to just stay not rich and low key. I can do that.
[–]-Fender-1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or be rich without flaunting your money.
[–]Omnibrad8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are absorbing a piece of their soul. Too bad their soul is herpes.
[–]Gracket_Material3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
But what about muh Born Again Virgins?
[–]mrscissorhands41 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your comment reminded me of Saved
[–]sedstar2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
QUOTE
It’s to build an emotionally intimate connection during sex and make the woman feel like the sex is bringing the two of you as close together as any two humans can be.
uhmmm. "okay"... it seems more like its bringing her and my wallet closer together, but, okay...
lol
honest to god? no joke? its like trying to satisfy the demands of a goddamn 6 year old... I'm getting a new rifle this spring? me and my rifle? will get as intimately close as a man and his rifle can BE, trust me here...
I gotta "be more man"
I gotta be "more intimate"
i have to this, that...
*whatever*... look... women dont even know what women want... MEN sure as shit cant know... whos gonna be the counselor? a hamster?
"i think you should change the litter more often...
if most of the guys here have their way? ROME is gonna BURN baby... and i think a few guys will toss the match on it, giggling...
[–]NPC746562 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Smart guy. I bet the comments were brutal on him for mansplaing on how to be a good woman.
[–]cyndonn66 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A virgin is only pure as long as she is kept away from influences not virginal. In the West, good luck with that one.
[–]RevolutionaryGround7 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I really see why MGTOW would care whether women are promiscuous or not and I actually don't as long as they are honest about it and are careful and tested it doesn't worry me.
[–]Whirrlz1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even if she was a virgin..... she probably sucked more dicks than I have drank soda.
[–]Fantoche_Dreemurr1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I call that the Thousand Cock Stare
[–]nh_985 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Preach.
[–]rollyourcuzinablunt2 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
It's like spending your paycheck every month. You can either spend it and stay broke or save/invest it for something better.
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