Help me understand MGTOW better

Professor_Pussypenis · 2017-05-17T16:34:37+00:00

You must squander the desire for female companionship. Realize that it is impossible under today's circumstances. You can get companionship from male friends. Learn to enjoy being alone, it doesnt mean you have to be lonely

jblack94 · 2017-05-17T17:20:17+00:00

Get a dog, make friends, be active on social media. Do the things you love. If you have a strong sex drive buy a vr headset and toys for vr porn . You can't even imagine how much happier and simpler your life will be.

lostapwbm · 2017-05-17T18:45:56+00:00

"I need at least 146 night/yr with them"

And people in Hell need ice water. Good luck with that, cupcake. DO NOT GIVE HER A FUCKING THING THAT THE COURT DOES NOT ORDER. Don't try to be nice, don't try to be a good guy, because nobody in the family courts gives a fuck about how nice you were, or how compliant you were, or how generous you were, their purpose is to grind you into hamburger and serve you up to the ex-wife.

Your job is to end it as fast as possible while paying as little as possible and get a final order settling all rights and claims.

Maybe i'm jaded from it being 100% online dating, but women are just flat out using me for nights out or whatever and then toss me aside because they get bombarded with new offers on their app.

Let the great Patrice O'Neal (RIP) explain your problem and solution to you: Don't Be Her Time Ho. If her pussy is valuable to her, then your time/money should be valuable to you. Tattoo this lesson on your brain.

HandyManDan90 · 2017-05-17T21:08:04+00:00

The reason they treat you poorly is because:

"You desire women terribly and need human companionship".

This false belief is the cause of all of your problems. You don't need anything from anyone. It's just been pounced into your head since you were born that you need womens approval, their company and their love. You don't need any of it.

When you finally give it up, you can't be controlled anymore.

Mac290 · 2017-05-17T17:45:51+00:00

What's to understand? You live for yourself and those you choose to allow into your life. You never put yourself in a position that you can be boxed in and taken advantage of.

SamCasey98 · 2017-05-17T16:52:53+00:00

How much human companionship do you receive from your ex-wife and dates? Why would you think doing more of that would change the amount of human companionship?

Get a dog. Likely your level of human companionship will skyrocket.

mercwithamagicsword · 2017-05-17T17:37:33+00:00

First off welcome to our Motley Crew of divorced Dads. Hang in there it will get better I promise. I don't "date" but I do have FWB relationships, but I'm also attractive and have a high sex drive so YMMV. Personally I don't want the companionship aspect of relationships but I have a sex drive that needs to be addressed or I'm angry/moody all the time. Every guy has their own path here, some go full monk/celibacy and others go on dates still, most all refrain from relationships and everyone says no to marriage.

Omnibrad · 2017-05-17T17:38:05+00:00

Are you choosing to go solo 100%? If so, how on earth do you cope with the human companionship desires that plague us?

Do you not have friends in your life? Companions do not need to be a certain gender. Or even human. Get a dog and you will experience the unconditional love you crave - something no woman can give to you.

ZeroBlink · 2017-05-17T19:45:25+00:00

Generally the idea is that , yes you are meant to learn to "love yourself". I guess best thing for you is to simply learn to recognize their tricks , learn to read them and bail if you see any sign of it.

Slaide · 2017-05-17T20:17:49+00:00

How do you get rid of the desire for companionship?

I'll ask you a simple question: exactly how much happiness are you currently feeling thanks to your need of companionship back then? You have your answer.

Investing my time and my money in myself will never be a waste in the long run. Investing my time and money into a self-entitled cunt, that has a 50%+ chance of divorcing whenever she feels like it + paying for her the rest of my life + taking a 60%+ chance she'll just cheat because her friends do?

No thanks. I'll find "companionship" elsewhere. An animal will cost you far less, will probably last longer than she will, and won't betray you because it's windy outside.

serpent_of_paradise · 2017-05-17T17:18:49+00:00

It's so obvious that op is a woman in disguise, or just the biggest pussy ever.

HidingInPlainSight73 · 2017-05-17T18:29:03+00:00

Firstly how on earth do you earn six figures working from home? Computer Science? Business?

Secondly... How much companionship do you have when a women leaves you? Zero is the correct answer. MGTOW realise that and learn to find happiness in life in other areas.

BukM1 · 2017-05-17T21:30:58+00:00

I don't date in any way shape or form pretty much all women have pursued me (mostly) and have never ever been on a Date with a stranger (i.e someone i didnt know already through work or a club/activity)

I have zero social media presence, no facebook (never had one) and i am basically a living ghost where i go out of my way to avoid most people.

the desire for companionship completely goes after a while, when you live to start satisfying your mind you see other people as a bit of as drain, e.g if a beautiful women asked me out for a date tomorrow night and she would pick me up and pay for everything etc, I still wouldn't go because the thought of formally making small talk in an unnatural setting with someone i dont know seems like work.

I have traded companionship for lethargy and instant gratification, and i cant say i regret my decision.

screwaroundaccount · 2017-05-17T21:43:31+00:00

I can only speak for myself. This shouldn't be a movement, because it's men go THEIR OWN WAY. Not OUR own way. That isn't the point. We're individuals, not a collective.

So, personally, I am 25 years old, have had several LTR in my short life, and am currently actively opposed to getting involved with women in general or the dating scene whatsoever.

I am training to be an EMT, and hope to one day end up as a firefighter with a respectable salary and great benefits. My passion is to be a writer, and I've been working towards that (very slowly) for about seven years now. In the meantime, I'm driving full time with Uber to make some quick short term cash until I finish my EMT training.

Between work, writing, keeping myself healthy, and spending time on my personal interests (Vidya, movies, television, reading) and socializing with friends and family, I fill my calendar out and then some. I never feel like there's enough hours in the day.

I don't MAKE time for dating apps EVER at this point. I recently spent a good month and a half doing the dating app thing, and went on three dates and they all were clearly not gonna work out. Since then, I haven't spent a single minute holding a one way conversation with a woman, convincing them to give me the time of day, none of it.

I'm a lot happier and I have a lot more time for all of that stuff I mentioned earlier, i.e. The shit I actually care about.

If you really feel like you need MORE human connection in your life (companionship) get closer with your kids, reconnect with your friends, make new ones. I don't see what a woman can offer in that vein (aside from my penis in her vagina) that I can't get from my family and friends.

And even if I were to admit that there is some value to female companionship (which I will only do for the sake of argument), it simply can't be worth the investment or the cost/benefit ratio.

But that's just me, and I hope you figure out what your best path is, brother. Much love and good luck.

BooDoug · 2017-05-17T22:31:30+00:00

Want or need?

iAmTheMaster0fMetal · 2017-05-18T01:57:20+00:00

I am 100% solo and the human companionship issue is the hardest problem - no question. In fact, a MGTOW who plays his cards right won't have ANY other problem especially if they live in a first world country. How do you replace women? Basically by hanging out with friends and socializing more at bars. Human interaction, even with total strangers, helps fill that void. In any case, a LTR with a woman is never the answer for me - the risks are too high and I'm looking forward to a happy life and early retirement. A woman would have to be from another dimension in order for me to consider a LTR, and even the best of them doesn't offer enough to offset the massive financial risk.

cashmoney_x · 2017-05-19T06:24:18+00:00

Online dating is skewed too far to the females. It's a shit deal for a guy unless you're top 5%.

livinginhell101 · 2017-05-19T15:31:27+00:00

Ugh, god damn, thats some fucked up shit bro. I can't believe men put up with this kind of shit at all. She is going to try to money vampire you for years upon years. If I was ever facing shit like that I would just leave the country and start over. I could in no way be an ATM for some ungrateful cunt. As for my kids? Hell, its a welfare state, they will survive. Sad but only way to beat toxic/cancerous people is to be even more toxic and cancerous than them.

Are you choosing to go solo 100%? If so, how on earth do you cope with the human companionship desires that plague us? If that's not the case, then what is the approach to women in the dating sense?

I don't know how these other MGTOW do it. I guess lots of porn and denial. Cuddles/sex/love is awesome and no human should have to do without. As for me I'm months into a gender transition and its fantastic. My whole body is like a penis and I can cum 40-60 times in 40 mins. Kept seeing trans women in the news and online. Did a bunch of research and turns out a lot of them flip their sexual orientation after being on hormones for a while. So I'm betting on that and already got more benefits than I thought.

Can't believe more young guys aren't doing it tbh. Especially the shorter and cute ones like me. Earlier transitions almost always look better too. I'm already passable with a wig. Can't wait for my hair to fully grow out so I can live life on easy mode.

Title	Help me understand MGTOW better
Author	HidingInPlainSight73
Upvotes	10
Comments	43
Date	May 17, 2017 4:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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