How do i move on from this?

eczemasucksass · 2019-08-05T14:17:16+00:00

Are your friends 16?

Sex with a condom is sex. You’re not missing out on much except STDs of course.

Vaxel00 · 2019-08-05T14:32:35+00:00

Stop feeling and start thinking.

operationdragoon · 2019-08-05T14:46:13+00:00

lol.

bunch of fucking idiots - sex without a condom isn't that much better. sex is overrated in general.

nopersonbestpal · 2019-08-05T14:43:19+00:00

How to move on from it is to say fuck it and don't care. Don't care what people say and what they think you should do

Goaliej · 2019-08-05T14:43:36+00:00

There are much more important things to focus on in life other than the feeling of having sex without a condom. In the future you could get a Fleshlight or a sex doll and you can enjoy this feeling without using a condom. How is your career coming along? And your investing? Your workout routine or your diet? A wise man will not risk a life-long future of slavery, to a baby-mama and the corrupt family court system, by pursuing 20 minutes of raw sex with a woman. Never let your little head overrule the thinking with your big head!

ransay3277 · 2019-08-05T15:05:34+00:00

The one thing you want to be missing is future child support payments.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2019-08-05T16:03:32+00:00

I've had sex. It's nice. Would I take 20 minutes of sex over a day of skiing? Nope.

TigPlaze · 2019-08-05T14:50:51+00:00

Your sex life is no one else's business. Plus, your value as a human being is independent of whatever sex you have or don't have. Fuck the assholes who judge you over sex.

originaldutchcow · 2019-08-05T14:48:40+00:00

Let me tell you something bro...

I have had pussies so tight, it hurts when you stick your dick in. But most of them were just gaping holes where i had a hard time getting an orgasm. Nothing beats a good pocket pussy with some lube.

[deleted] · 2019-08-05T14:57:14+00:00

Look, you're going nuts over nothing. Yeah, bare-back sex does feel a lot better... so what? I like steak, and I'm sure that a $600 Kobe ribeye cooked by Bobby Flay is better than the $16 cut I just grilled myself. Does that mean I am unhappy? Should I throw away my dinner and cry because it's not the best dinner in the world? Of course not!

There is always something better in life than what you have. Being happy means you learn to appreciate what you have. You can still aspire to more, but let that be inspiration to plan and work towards goals. Don't sit around crying about what you don't have because you always won't have something.

dvbtupanit · 2019-08-05T15:21:00+00:00

According to World Health Organisation for 2016 there are 376 million new cases of STDs

The figures suggest that among people aged 15-49 in 2016 there were:

156 million new cases of trichomoniasis
127 million new cases of chlamydia
87 million new cases of gonorrhea
6.3 million new cases of syphilis

Obviously they did not include all 30 different STDs. Consider also that condoms doesn't prevent 100%, some of these diseases are spread through kissing or oral sex.

Good luck!

misanthr0pe666 · 2019-08-05T14:46:55+00:00

I haven't ever even done it WITH a rubber. It's not important. Don't listen to them.

MGTOW-Mando · 2019-08-05T15:13:57+00:00

Dude you want STD's? Sex with a condom is real sex.

BiffBiffBiff27 · 2019-08-05T16:29:28+00:00

Either you take a gamble on a raw experience, get into a relationship (no need to make it long), or you just drop your obsession.

Sex without a condom feels nicer on your dick for sure, that's just how it is. A snappin' pussy is a higher priority though, one where your first thought is 'wow, that's tight!'.

All of that can be ruined by a woman who is lame at sex anyway. And even when she's good, it's tight, and raw, which I have had.. its still just a fleeting experience.

If you want to keep your friends then just lie next time. Who cares? Or be honest and don't give a fuck. Again, who cares?.. You do. So let it go.

Harlen21 · 2019-08-05T16:33:46+00:00

Dude why do you even care about what they think

neverfalter88 · 2019-08-05T16:44:39+00:00

Find some hobbies to live for. Sex is great but over rated. You will get more satisfaction out of a hobby you live for then sticking ur dick in a wet hole.

Shipbldr2000 · 2019-08-05T17:56:24+00:00

Slap yourself in the face.

Good. Now that you have come back to your senses, go your own way and stop comparing yourself to other people. It is a losing game.

You are missing out on far far less than your bragging buddies, soon to be sporting STD's and child support payments, are telling you.

Lorenz99 · 2019-08-05T17:56:51+00:00

Get a flesh light. Feels better than a pussy with no risk of stds or a anchor baby.

Patricijaobjectdude · 2019-08-05T19:22:39+00:00

Why do you give a fuck?

I've never had sushi, nor do I have the option to have sushi around my area. I am denied sushi. If people ridiculed me and shamed me for "missing out" on sushi, I wouldn't really give a fuck, because I have more important life goals to achieve than to invest my time, attention and resources into a slight chance of feeling a momentary sense of pleasure.

You can replace my sushi argument with any other thing and it would make the exact same sense... until it comes to pussy. So I ask you, what is it so important about it? Do you legitimately feel like your life has no meaning unless you can feel a texture around your dick for a few minutes? Or do you perhaps want validation from your 'friends' or the woman you'd be with? If so, why? You are perfectly capable of validating yourself, so why not just skip the whole redundant process and do it yourself?

This is often times a theme with guys as they grow older, their bodies get older but their emotional minds don't, they still crave that security and validation they got from 'mommy', the craving of being told you're a good boy.

As you grow older, society starts treating you like shit, you need to learn that society doesn't love or care about you, they only want you to be a working machine. And unless you know better, you're 100% willing to do this even if it hurts, because you're hoping that someone out there will come to you and give you that 'mommy' love and call you a good boy.

Men never find it. Those who give up either kill themselves or convert to mgtow. The ones who remain are miserable and in denial unfortunately.

Instead of hoping for the impossible, just skip the whole "I miss mommy, I'll try and get a random girl to give me the same love mommy used to give me" process. You were a boy, you were loved unconditionally, now you're a man and society will shit all over you without explaining anything to you.

Learn to validate yourself by yourself. Because no one else is going to do it for you. Online guys can only give you the answers or solutions, but it's up to you to let go of your blue pill thinking.

What helped me personally was coming up with activities I could do for myself and not tell anyone, sort of rewired my brain to think only about me being the only one worth pleasing in life. Friends and family are just a bonus, not a means to an end. At least that's what I go with.

Apologies for the random stream of consciousness, it's very late here and I'm literally going to bed as I post this.

peguy2000 · 2019-08-05T14:22:36+00:00

I mean they are right, condoms take away anything that make sex worth it, but i wouldnt have sex without a condom with random people, only ltrs you trust

Title	How do i move on from this?
Author	Sad7747
Upvotes	6
Comments	23
Date	August 5, 2019 2:15 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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