How do I stop craving a relationship?

roxon89 · 2018-08-28T12:57:30+00:00

You can try this....

Have yourself a relationship. Then, after six months of paying for everything and dealing with soul sucking nagging, it will be out of your system. Just don’t get her pregnant!!

account4189 · 2018-08-28T13:21:39+00:00

You might not. You don't control your desires, you somewhat control your actions.

But you also don't have to punish yourself by pathologizing your instincts with thoughts like "how do I stop craving a relationship?" It's sorta like saying - how do I stop liking things I like?

You don't. Because you're dealing with the part of your brain that isn't driven by the consciousness - instead the conscious part of your brain just records that you want it.

So - forgive yourself, if you want, for having desires that cause you pain - and try to act in ways that minimize your pain, if you can.

But trying to forcibly change what you unconsciously desire is a fool's errand in my opinion.

marcopoloman · 2018-08-28T12:58:53+00:00

What do you want out of your life? Are you lonely or do you want a family? Make a list of what you need. And another of what you want. Always make sure you have what you need. Work on the needs list and knock them off one at a time. Be happy

If you want a family. Do it I wouldn't if I were you. But it's your life.

Ipride362 · 2018-08-28T15:27:49+00:00

Look at the girl you wanna date. Jerk off to her for hours on end until your dick is raw and you've been shooting blanks for an hour.

You there?

Ok, good.

Now, imagine she's probably talking to Chad on Tinder/PlentyOfFish/MeetMe.com/etc. She's bitching to you about Sandra at work. She just ate all of your potato chips. She takes your fries and doesn't pay for anything. And sex is "when I feel like it." or "when I am in the mood" and the only time she feels like being in the mood is after an expensive purchase that will not benefit you at all (shoes for her, purse, useless belt, dress, etc.)

And then remember that she'll trash your bathroom, make you paint your kitchen some fucking queer ass color, put up pictures of stupid ass shit and say it's cute or abstract, and will make you swap out your gaming hour for her soap opera about men and women who cheat on each other.

2MetresAbove · 2018-08-28T16:51:12+00:00

I think that all men deep within their heart crave a meaningful relationship that evolves into marriage and family. Yes, even MGTOW. BUT these days it is near impossible to become true. Sexual revolution has ruined everything. Traditional model of family is long gone. Women do not respect themselves. It is all human recycling now. My point is, you cannot just turn off your nature, but you can learn to hold the reigns and GYOW, for it makes no sense to let your nature get the better off you. Not nowadays. Not with wymyn of today. Not with the biased legal system there is.

2018-08-28T13:49:14+00:00

You are 50% better than many men. At least you see the ox.

randomusername_815 · 2018-08-28T14:58:54+00:00

Lets do some socratic questioning, Codrean...

When you say "if I think logically I don't want one", why not?

sandwich2000 · 2018-08-28T16:57:55+00:00

Society is setup to make you feel like this. You cannot go on social media, watch some TV, or go out in public without the constant stream of plantation beggers echoing their toxic projections onto you. You have to recognize this in all the movies and media (even music!!l) once you can see it, then you can laugh about how silly it all is. The relationship you were sold doesn't exist, but other types do..

ThePropaganda · 2018-08-29T00:02:19+00:00

You need a replacement. Find something to do with your time and energy that actually delivers gains.

Ask yourself "If money were no object what would I do with my life?"

Get passionate about that thing and start making plans to realize it in your life. Then take action, set goals, start building, fail and try again, learn from men you trust, etc.

Women will soon become just annoying distractions.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2018-08-29T02:32:43+00:00

I've been married twice, lived with other women. Had lots of girlfriends. Trust me it will never make you truly happy. It's like chasing the dragon. Happiness comes from within. Just wished I'd learned it earlier instead of pursuing a fantasy.

Bestoftherest222 · 2018-08-29T08:59:24+00:00

You want a relationship, or are you confusing sex with having a relationship?

Modern thots don't need relationships, they need a place to stay. Find some female that needs a bed, tell her a bed for some head. The minute she stops is the minute she is out.

Title	How do I stop craving a relationship?
Author	Codrean
Upvotes	10
Comments	25
Date	August 28, 2018 12:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9ayo0u/how_do_i_stop_craving_a_relationship/
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