How do I stop getting depressed over this degenerate society

ThaHentaiConnoisseur · 2020-07-25T19:37:38+00:00

"I just workout and work on my business"

There's your answer. Fuck everyone else. It's just you at the end of the day. Keep your head up young bro, you got this.

negressnig · 2020-07-25T19:04:26+00:00

I had a phase like you when I was about your age (almost 30 now). One thing I will say is that things can dramatically improve when you get out of high school and that's still true today. Right now you're forced to be around peers you hate, teachers you don't respect (and likely don't deserve any), family you may not like...etc. As soon as you get the green light to go, whether thats your 18th birthday or some other event, you can now get behind the wheel of your own life for real and remove all the toxic influences in your life. This will solve your immediate and most pressing issues.

Now, societies exist in cycles, they rise, plateau, and then fall. Just like biological organisms themselves, right? Rome did it, Athens did it, Persia did it, the British did it...see where I'm going here? The big picture is what you need to keep in mind here. Humanity will survive this cycle just like it always does but we are indeed in the "decline" stage in the west, but dont worry too much about the existential aspect because we'll be fine in the long run. Most people are in complete denial about that which actually puts you in a unique position to benefit from it as you have an advantage over them. Start thinking about how you can use that knowledge to your advantage over the masses. What kind of industries will grow during such a declining stage of a society? What kind of services are going to be in demand? Where are people going to be moving from, and moving to? How are people going to behave in such a scenerio and how can you use that knowledge to help you?

Those kinds of rhetorical questions will put you ahead of 99.99% of people. You're 17 so time is on your side, you're actually quite lucky. I suggest reading "fate of empires", it's short like 15 pages if i recall and it may alleviate some of your anxiety as it kind of lays out this natural cycle I'm talking about and is honestly interesting. You can find it with a Google search im sure.

Something_Chronical · 2020-07-25T19:03:20+00:00

Maybe delete social media from your life for a few months and work on your goals without distraction. See where that goes.

AzN1337c0d3r · 2020-07-25T19:59:01+00:00

You're 17 so you probably dont have a lot of money. Be frugal and work hard and when you are firmly established as a working adult you will reap the benefits.

I'm early 30s and I look around at my peer group and most of them are starting to get married. I interact with them and their spouses and I can tell they are just being used as providers.

I cant stop being happy inside that I dodged a bullet with women.

Don't be stupid and throw it all away on a woman when you get to that point, it's a bad bet. Hold them accountable for their choices.

Ricksanchez2278 · 2020-07-25T20:10:52+00:00

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Miggymoggy · 2020-07-25T20:04:17+00:00

I really do feel sorry for you young males as you're surrounded by this nonsense at such an early age, that is can be suffocating to you, which I'm glad that I grew up in an era where boys were boys instead of this bullshit generation that most boys are pansies, feminised and basically brainwashed to be outright slaves to girls......Its sickening to see and then those boys become men who become married slaves to women as to them that is perfect normal to put themselves last place in life.

Keep your chin up and always put yourself first despite what society tries to push onto boys.

JustPissYaself · 2020-07-25T21:55:56+00:00

All of us go through thay stage where we feel as if we're the only sane ones walking around a bunch of crazy people. Keep pushinh forward, learn to understand that you have no control over the simps, thots and whatnots. They will continue to simp and thot around like the animals that they are. You've broken out of that animalistic condintioning and now you can live for a higher purpose. Be thankful that you aren't one of them. You're more unique than they'll ever know, act like it and live like it, be proud that you have an IQ high enough to move past the animalistic tendencies of the mainstream simple human.

MrGordija · 2020-07-25T22:33:16+00:00

Im 28 now and sometimes this line of thinking still plague me to some degree, although I can help pointing out some coping mechanisms that I used to get to where I am today:

First, learn to literally give no fucks. Easier said than done, especially at a young age when you are still forging your identity in the world, but try your hardest. Only then you will be able to focus entirely on yourself. You may reside in the world, but it's not your task to catter to it. So fuck everyone else
Occupy your head. When you have a lot of free time, you may end up thinking about these negative traits of modern society. This will not help you. Get a hobby, lift, anything that improve you as a person while getting your mind off of all the bullshit.
Learn to manage your money. When you get older you will realise that, although money isn't everything, it sure as hell have a lot of power. Nothing feels better than to leave a shitty job, because you can. You restrict others capability of chaining you down by a ton, giving you a lot of freedom. So save up, learn investing (the sooner the better), manage your finances well. This itself goes well with the second point of occupying your head.
And last but not least, never cohabitate/marry.

JunhoSun · 2020-07-25T20:01:30+00:00

I think the most rational advice I could give is to "Not give a fuck" why burn your heart out on something you can't control? Just focus on what you CAN control and leave the rest unfold as long as it doesn't affect you.

joyhammerpants · 2020-07-25T20:59:32+00:00

You were redpilled pretty young, most guys don't take the redpil until they are 30's or 40's and have been thoroughly used up by women. So either try and make friends outside of our age group, or just try and work on yourself. Fuck what everyone else is doing, you have no control over that. You have control of your own life though, so just focus on that.

StingRayFins · 2020-07-25T22:52:32+00:00

create your own world. that's what i do. i reject and ignore anything and anyone not healthy and play my own game.

WhatMixedFeelings · 2020-07-25T20:03:45+00:00

We’ve all been there. What you’re feeling is nothing new and you learn to get over it with time. I don’t mean a month, I mean years.

Just don’t let it turn you into a cynical asshole. No one likes that.

yoitsdavid · 2020-07-26T00:07:42+00:00

As someone else said, go off social media for a while. It feeds negativity and the news only shows the bad things. Make a new hobby, watch a tv show etc. Something that I find calling is urban exploration. Fun, keeps you fit and can help improve your determination

2020-07-26T01:42:43+00:00

Dude wtf are you trying to save the world or something? Life is fun go experience it fuck the women fuck the people. WORK YOUR JOB WORKOUT AND DO WHAT THE FUCK MAKES YOU HAPPY. stop focusing on what other people are doing and do you.

ChivalricChuck · 2020-07-25T18:58:17+00:00

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someevilwhitemen · 2020-07-25T20:43:31+00:00

no its not !!! things are going to hit the fan hard at some point

but you can still have a good life

when i start getting interested in everything happening in society years ago , i had the same feeling as you its very demoralizing (its actually the point of all this insanity)

but keep working on yourself , and start looking for your own path in life

find many men with many different path to follow and find the one that seems the better for you

me i'm working to put some money aside to completely change my life and buy some land for getting away of the degeneracy outhere and start a simple minimalist life

still believe i could find a nice country girl to build a family but it might likely not happen but its no big deal to me nothing can get me away from my own path anymore and i already find peace with all of it

accept the things you cant change and make the best with what you have

tehpanda64 · 2020-07-25T21:33:30+00:00

Focus on your own goals and hobbies and making yourself happy. Find some friends who share your interest or who you enjoy. There's no reason to be depressed just because you choose to remain a bachelor. Women aren't what you should focus on because they will just betray you when it benefits them to do so. You are young so feel free to date so you learn that you aren't missing out on anything when you ignore a woman. Don't consider marriage unless she brings more to the table than you do. Which if you have your life together probably won't be the case so just don't consider marriage or cohabitation in general, the way the world works right now it isn't worth it.

SomethinLikDis · 2020-07-25T23:23:34+00:00

this will help

PrestigiousGreen3 · 2020-07-26T00:34:16+00:00

My favorite saying. When the world stampedes off a cliff and there's nothing you can do. Either look away or enjoy the show

Batman_MGTOW · 2020-07-26T03:15:27+00:00

Lift heavy at the gym and improve yourself so you can become Chad, then have sex with as many women as you want by using dating apps without having to commit to any of them. Later on, you can even keep some of them as fuck buddies. This is what I am working towards right now and I also go to college at the same time.

I want to use my 20s to have sex with as many women as I can because I know that when I will be 40 (I am 22 now) it will be much more difficult to attract young beautiful women in the 18 to 25 age range without being used for my money. I found mgtow in 2016 and agree with everything but I am not ready to go monk just yet, though I might to do it in my late 40s or early 50s when I no longer want sex as much.

Fuzi0z · 2020-07-26T03:26:00+00:00

I feel like you are hiding information. You know the truth and you feel weaker than chads and Tyrones. Dont feel thay way bro. Genetics are something you can't control. I wish i was born with god tier genes too but at the least you have the red pill truth. Embrace it and do what you love, fuck women and their validation. 17 is way to young for you too be already hopeless. Fight even tho this clown world is against you. Thats something people with everything facilitated will never be, strong!

Perseus_the_Bold · 2020-07-26T03:26:02+00:00

By literally learning the art of not giving a fuck. Learn to let go. Learn Apathy. Here's some pointers: Shrink your world, focus only on what is in your life and fuck everything else, adopt the "not my problem" attitude and walk on. Especially when it comes to females.

2020-07-26T05:13:51+00:00

Yeah, welcome to my club.

hunrein · 2020-07-26T05:14:49+00:00

It isn't just a red-pill/blue-pill thing. At the age of 17 many men start really, really wanting some independence, but you are still completely reliant on your parents for another year.

The black-pill comes from a place of feeling that you have no control over things which is 100% true at your age. I felt the same way and was itching to get out of my home by 16 or 17.

My advice to you is for your own mental wellbeing you should a post high school graduation path that leads to independence fast even if a slower path might make more money in the long term. Find some trade that does an apprenticeship so you can start making some money as soon as you finish your last year of high school and can make enough to be financially independent from your parents by the time you are 19.

Once you see that you are saving money and have numerous options available to you then most of the feelings of despair will fade.

Until you graduate from high school try lifting weights and reading like other people here have suggested and hang in there a bit longer. No matter how bad high school is just remember that at least you aren't in middle school anymore.

shindo_arata · 2020-07-26T08:37:52+00:00

Make your own little world. Your little kingdom where you're the king and no one can dethrone you.

MadaraUchiha1245 · 2020-07-26T08:39:53+00:00

Hey brother I know how you feel and completely understand you man. This society has truly failed us for as it’s clown world. The decline has begun not long ago and us MGTOW men are fully seeing it for what it is. Your fairly young as a 17 year old and have made a name for yourself by working on your business and keeping in shape. Don’t worry about this shithole society man, as I say fuck it all And let it burn, enjoy it’s decline as the reign and normalcy of sanity has gone out the window and has been fully replaced with degeneracy and filth. If you want someone to talk to bro, you can always talk with me or the other brothers. Well be glad to give you our insights regarding this world. As a 17 year old, your lucky to seen the light as others have seen it later on in their later life’s, for me as I hit 25 next month I was thankful to see this movement and the red pill at 19 years old. Cheers man and take care. 🙏🙏👍👍

2020-07-26T13:28:34+00:00

Don’t try to change them, just laugh at them while becoming the silent king of your own life

VentiPussyJuice2Go · 2020-07-26T14:27:21+00:00

You should be too busy to care about anything that isn’t in the few rooms you spend 90% of your time.

No matter how many times the trillion dollar Marketing and media machine tells you, our worlds are small, very manageable, and quite peaceful.... If you’re willing to take control and make it so.

Mind your own business and master the art of not giving a fuck.

2020-07-26T20:59:16+00:00

Focus on something in your life that you want to improve. And decide what you want for your future. Start making that future a reality. If you want to start growing your own vegetables for example, start it now. If you dont have the money to buy all of the supplies right now, buy some of them. Start on a goal, and move toward it. Working out is great for mental health, but make sure of your motives. Make sure that your motivation is for self improvement and health, and not admiration or approval from some outside entity. Find worth in yourself. Grow comfortable with loving yourself, and being in your own presence. Chances are you're a pretty fun dude, and you know how to entertain yourself the best.

RobACE88 · 2020-07-27T05:37:59+00:00

Don’t care about what happens remember Joker “you get what you fucking deserve”. Watch the decay just remember to stay far enough away from cities

Asperger_Mgtow · 2020-07-26T01:02:50+00:00

Please see this:

https://gazetawarszawska.com/index.php/historia-2/162-timothy-matthews-the-frankfurt-school-conspiracy-to-corrupt

It's not you, the social engineering we're undergoing now is just too monstruous to understand for any sane mind..

Title	How do I stop getting depressed over this degenerate society
Author	rangerdave12377
Upvotes	84
Comments	47
Date	July 25, 2020 6:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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