How to avoid gold diggers?

360GnomeChild · 2016-10-19T03:37:51+00:00

You can avoid shallow people by looking average on the outside.

This means wear clothes and drive a car regular folks who make 50K per year would have.

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-10-19T04:34:20+00:00

Easy. All women who claim to love you are after your money. Problem solved.

Charles_Offdensen · 2016-10-19T03:37:25+00:00

Not getting married helps a ton and realize that the vast vast majority of women who show interest in you will only do so once they realize how much money you have and the easiest way to deal with it is to ignore them. Don't get married, don't cohabitate and don't blow money on any woman, if you want relationships fine but by taking these precautions you limit the damage they can do.

MaunaLoona · 2016-10-19T04:31:38+00:00

All women are gold diggers to some extent. Around rich and powerful men, women experience feelings that are the analogues of what men call "love".

Don't hide your wealth but don't spend a lot on the women either. Don't get married and make sure your house has cameras everyone (tell 'em they are for security and you've had break-ins) so that she can't falsely accuse you or steal your wealth in some other way. Get a vasectomy or find some other way to make sure she can't spermjack you.

Live the good life.

ShacklesBegone · 2016-10-19T05:55:37+00:00

$200k in a big city isn't a huge deal anymore, so you might be surprised at their tepid response. There's no reason you should ever need to divulge that information to a woman anyway. If you don't share a bank account, you can tell her you make $20k/yr and she'd have no idea. Now, if you're flaunting your wealth like a douche, she'll put two and two together, but then that's your fault.

baigish · 2016-10-19T06:02:06+00:00

All women love money. It's just like all men love a beautiful woman with a young feminine physique. We just can't help it. You can be married to a wonderful woman for 30 years and watch a pretty girl walk by and you'll find yourself starring at her ass. Don't ask why, just accept that we do it. So don't hate on women for being weak around money. They just can't can't help it.

Get married with a prenuptial. The prenuptial has a sunset clause. The prenuptial agreement goes away after she's lost her youth. Make sure she really is invested in the relationship.

The problem is marriage and agricultural society where people try to own things and other people..... but that's a conversation for another time.

hollybegin · 2016-10-19T06:09:13+00:00

How to avoid gold diggers?

"Act" & look poor.....Problem solved!

My-Name-Is-No-One · 2016-10-19T07:28:35+00:00

DONT PLAY THE GAME!!1

Campoloco · 2016-10-19T09:19:55+00:00

As others have pointed out, the emptiness you feel, that you believe, only a romantic relationship can fill is just waiting to be filled and exploited by a gold digger.

I believe emptiness is a symptom of being disconnected from ones essential self, reconnection is not dependent on anything external (including female validation) its an inward journey, let your intuition & gut feeling reconnect you to your intrinsic self.

Oversia · 2016-10-19T08:04:24+00:00

there is an emptiness in my life that it seems only a romantic relationship can fill

this is a huge problem. why do you think you feel this way? when did you start feeling this way? did you feel this way before marriage during or after marriage?

working on myself a lot recently and hoping to get to the point where I no longer need this from a woman to feel whole and complete

this is a nice solution. do what you want to do and never compromise on those wants. dont compromise your life. only you can be the most interested and protective of your money. no one else in this world or in this life will.

DigitalScetis · 2016-10-19T05:02:19+00:00

Do as Akeem in "Coming to America" and act as if you work at McDonald's...maybe even buy the uniform and all of that.

That will show you who is good and who isn't really quickly.

wildfireboat · 2016-10-19T13:27:36+00:00

Get a dog.

My-Name-Is-No-One · 2016-10-19T18:11:16+00:00

LOL - you used "pure of heart and women in the same sentence. Also - do you really think gold-digging is cultural? This is MGTOW. Haven't you learned anything? The answer is in the acronym. We go our own way and leave the plantation behind. If you're asking advice on women and dating, you're fucked, and you're probably better off asking these questions on PUA or TRP forums.

But to answer your question - avoid women completely, or buy a whore for a few hours. Problem solved, but it doesn't sound like you're there yet. Sounds like you have some reservations, and you might as well be asking this question on r-relationship because MGTOW aint about "settling down," now, later, or ever. It's also about over coming your addiction to push and female validation. You can't fill that void, and women will only rip it further open for you - and this is why MGTOW is about men being happy and driven for and with themselves, and no one else. Other people, especially women, are a crutch who will only further cripple you.

carjackerwilly · 2016-10-19T03:32:24+00:00

Why do you seek validation from women ? That is the essence of what you are saying and also the problem. A "romantic relationship" as you call it is only a grooming phase by a woman to get you exactly where she wants you and then she will take the mask off. By then it is too late and you realize that it was all a lie. What is missing in your life that you feel compelled to risk your future, your identity, your state of mind and possibly even your life ?

feedmecarrots · 2016-10-19T07:48:44+00:00

That you know that you are vulnerable is most of it. Aside from that, I would say to not live ostentatiously.

kempff · 2016-10-19T08:56:04+00:00

Dear r/MGTOW,

How do I not be stupid?

Signed, /u/letsdothis2day

Dear /u/letsdothis2day,

Stop being stupid.

Signed, /u/kempff

brilliantsleek · 2016-10-19T19:00:42+00:00

Pick decent but not stunning looking women. A lot of time they don't have the scheming shallow manners the 11/10's have. Often they look quite cute. Look at the countryside. Decent looking girls with a girl-next-door feeling to them are quite enjoyable to have sex with, and girls on the countryside still think it's fun to cook.

If you're going to a city, then good luck to you. Absolutely avoid the ones who look too hot, cause they get offers and attention from men on a fucking hourly basis, which saturates their entitlement. You're not gonna be able to keep up with that. If you go in the inner cities I think it's gonna be hard to find anyone not very entitled.

Get into the hitchhiking/vagabond scene. The girls there are not material at all. Of course, you have to be "exciting".

frtalavera91 · 2016-10-19T17:39:42+00:00

I don't pay attention to women (unless it's to directly instigate them) and naturally assume everything they say is either an outright lie or backwards talk. When she says "I love you" what she really means is "you love me." Watch an ear for men on youtube, nothing but gold upon gold upon gold.

Title	How to avoid gold diggers?
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Date	October 19, 2016 3:22 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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