I am a sucker

I00BABIES · 2018-02-20T23:25:49+00:00

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Mechnasty · 2018-02-20T23:26:33+00:00

Am I overthinking here guys?

Nope.

Ibanezguitarrocks · 2018-02-21T01:37:20+00:00

You're feeling insecure because your gut is telling you things aren't adding up.

I've seen women, first hand, use men to get ahead. Some of them laugh about it behind the men's backs because of how easy it is to pull off.

They can smell insecure men from a mile away and will usually avoid them unless there's some immediate benefit to be had.

Someone else mentioned that you should get your dick sucked before you continue helping this chick. I agree, she needs to "pay" for your services. I wouldn't ask her to be upfront, even when they genuinely like you they still play their silly games.

Put the moves on her and see how she responds. If she rejects your advances you're done. Don't get upset or emotional about it though. You remain the same friendly guy but you have no time to help her.

Kunachii · 2018-02-21T01:45:04+00:00

You're insecure, and she realizes it. There's no other reason. You're obviously a smart dude, focus on keeping your life intact. You can't deal with excess baggage on this one.

2018-02-21T02:12:51+00:00

Some of my comments are being deleted silently. Rip MGTOW. I hardly knew ye. I am leaving this subreddit, as I believe it is now compromised.

MemeConnoisseurYT · 2018-02-20T23:23:33+00:00

I guess some can't be helped..

Phantom_Spark · 2018-02-20T23:53:28+00:00

Focus on improving yourself and your own life goals. This girl clearly likes freebies from SIMPs. Start valuing yourself and your time and you won’t fall so easily. The biggest reason men fall so easily is because we’re used to being ignored by women that the slightest attention tends to make us weak. Know your worth and don’t give to someone who does not give back. That’s advice regarding me. And women. You might be a future tech pioneer. Achieve your success and stay the course!

PimpHandStrong

VlogIt · 2018-02-21T01:07:32+00:00

Tell her to suck your dick BEFORE you spend a dime on her. Before you even buy her a drink. $40 at most on dinner/drinks if you must. Sex first. Even better, if she wants dinner, tell her to buy herself some food first, then fucker her after. Skip the bullshit run-around, and get right to business.

Oh, and don't help her with her homework. Say you're way too busy, you have deadlines. This is the only thing she wants from you.

Don't be the cuck that helps her through college. She probably knows you're a nerd who is happy to help. When she's done with her degree, she disappears.

Never turn it into a relationship. She's already been banging some other dudes. Pump and dump. Otherwise, you're the cuck that works your ass off while she spends your money and going around banging other dudes.

Do not open your wallet. Do not brag how much money you've got, inherited, or can potentially earn. She is going to college. She can earn her own money. Equality.

based_meme · 2018-02-21T04:46:00+00:00

Just FUCKING ignore her, man. You're smart enough to realize that she's manipulating you for favors. Follow through and don't give her any more attention. Just act busy and say you can't help. Don't even explain yourself. Just say you're busy and pretend she's not in your proximity anymore.

Since you mentioned you're doing graduate studies in AI, I have to ask what school you're in. The reason is because this is exactly what I want to, but I haven't found the right school for a masters program. I have a very specific project that requires the best facilities, minds and resources.

kirenex · 2018-02-21T06:26:21+00:00

Shes probably just trying to use you to get ahead. Think about it

robob2700 · 2018-02-20T23:22:15+00:00

Wait so she asked if she can take you out to dinner, and you're trying to figure out if she's taking advantage of you? If you're interested, why not just go to dinner with her and see if it seems like a date?

ishyman · 2018-02-21T02:26:44+00:00

Try asking /r/asktrp

DagonNaxos · 2018-02-21T06:58:32+00:00

Sounds like a trap to me. She's using pussy power to get free work out of you.

JosephBancor · 2018-02-21T13:50:55+00:00

Stop simping for this woman. Stop helping her. Stop talking to her. If she asks why say you are too busy and then leave the convo.

She does not love you. She does not care about you. You do not make her pussy wet. She does not want you. She does not want to have sex with you.

You are being used like a fool chump and an idiot.

Listen to your gut instinct. Focus on graduating making money losing weight and eating healthy.

Not on women that are out smarting you and playing you like a fool.

Stop acting stupid with this woman. Do the right thing go your own way and save yourself.

RadicalAsceticMonk · 2018-02-21T14:21:24+00:00

Why would any fucking women want anything to do with me. There’s a hot stud hitting her non stop.

That's a very good question. She's getting her sexual satisfaction from Chad, so she feels like investing in you for freebies.

My advice would be: minimize your effort and maximize your gains. If she's willing, go out with her, have a dinner with her (ideally, split the tab), even have sex with her if that's where things go, but don't forget to:

protect yourself; not only by condoming it up, but also from sexual assault/rape bullshit claims. Ideally you want a body cam, but if that's not possible, take her only to public places with lots of witnesses, and if you have sex, make sure to take a couple of selfies before and after the deed, with you two cuddling or just generally being friendly. Backup the shit of those selfies/videos just in case; they may save your life down the road.
make sure that you minimize the amount of "help" she's getting from you in exchange for dating/sex. Put your priorities first and only help her if you can afford it, and if you feel like it. Don't do anything above the bare minimum, so you won't regret the time and effort you spent later.

As long as you understand the dynamic in place with your relationship with her (she wants to use you for freebies, you want to use her for sex), I think you both will be fine. Well, she won't, in the long run, but hey, that's her problem to solve. Perhaps Chad will be willing to help her with Math problems after he plows her raw and then jizz all over her face.

Personally, I wouldn't even bother. Women are what they are. If you (correctly) identified that she has better options, sexually speaking, you can be damn sure that she also identified that, and in fact is currently enjoying those options to their full extent. So many things could go wrong in this day and age, condom broke (STD, babies), rape charges, her going psycho over you, I don't think the juice is worth the squeeze. I'd focus on my priorities and, if I really needed sexual relief, I'd separate some money and hire an escort. You pay her to disappear after the sex, after all.

Now I understand that you long for something more than just sex, from what you posted in this thread. That's fair and square, but think - is a thot that is clearly trying to set you up for usage the best person you could establish an emotional connection with? Casting off that need would be very beneficial for you in the long run.

sidel3 · 2018-02-21T09:54:54+00:00

Most men just need to learn the hard way. Don't be most men.

appdater3000 · 2018-02-21T14:34:13+00:00

Dude, pussy is heroin and you got too big a whiff---but don't worry, you can be stronger than that. I say just go ice cold and drop her like a hat. She doesn't want you, just what you can provide. Good luck!

consios88 · 2018-02-21T15:02:14+00:00

man just use common sense. She is obviously using you. but use her back in a safe responsible way. Maybe just maybe like less than 5 percent chance she likes you for you but that is super super super rare. and if she is giving mixed signals yes be up front but make sure to protect yourself from metoo# accusations. If you are going to be upfront do it in a polite way away from work.

dont help her at your detriment if she is not paying you in some way or form.

I00BABIES · 2018-02-21T23:40:28+00:00

Thanks guys for the support. I finally had a courage to ditch her and become indifference. I actually felt pretty good about it lol.

Sometimes you’re just a fish and took right on the bait, it’s unreal.

RareForevernk · 2018-02-20T23:34:28+00:00

I'd get lunch with her. I might even pay too if, during conversation you discover that she might a valuable networking asset for your career or in your professional future. I wouldn't chump out though. I'd think of it more as business lunch than a romantic meal. Who knows. Some years down the line you guys might run into each other at a bar or for business and having had that friendly lunch with her may open more doors than if you decide to pass. Worst case scenario you have lunch with a beautiful girl.

Jonnehboi88 · 2018-02-21T04:32:13+00:00

Bro it’s just a dinner your all good go to it see if there’s a connection and try to enjoy it a lot of guys here will tell you “no fuck that bitch” but think about who you are asking. if it seems too good to be true you’ll never know, and if it turns out she’s just playing with you so be it, it would probably be more heartbreaking if you said no and realized she was actually into you later. And yes, You are overthinking it just go eat dinner she’s not asking much of you other than dinner.

Title	I am a sucker
Author	I00BABIES
Upvotes	44
Comments	46
Date	February 20, 2018 11:16 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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