Many of you know what it's like to never live up to your wife or girlfriends expectations. It seems that a guy needs to be raised with a certain frame of mind(blue pill) to deal with women in relationships. I was not brought up with this mindset.

For example, I was taught to treat women as my equal. This is a relationship killer. If you don't treat her with benevolent sexism, she will NOT be happy and the relationship will not last.