I hate my self for having an average dick

slappydapussy · 2016-10-20T16:09:15+00:00

Um dude why would you ever reduced yourself down from a human being? You are not a muscle size or a cock. You are a human with those attributes among many other attributes. Stop watching porn. You're seeing all these dicks on there big as boats and now can't figure out why you're obsessing over your Willy. You're going to have a freak out if you continue like this and what quality of life are you living? Women and manginas want you to think you aren't worthy of their time and a lesser human being. Do not buy in to what they are selling.

If you really start to obsess over this take some time out and regroup yourself in reality. Also try some meditation and deep breathing. The more emotional one gets the less rational thought they are capable of at that time. This is why you can take something of no importance and blow it out of proportion.

Zombocom1911 · 2016-10-20T15:31:09+00:00

Pretty much every man who's woman is a total slut and a whore or has been in the past will have the knowledge/experience of knowing his woman has been fucked by much, much larger dicks than his, and she loved every minute of it, in the modern western world. It is just a brutal fact of life. If you want a girl who truly worship your dick and be impressed with it , find a virgin. Too late, you live in the USA. But in the old days, that is how everyone did it.

dominotw · 2016-10-20T15:17:45+00:00

You are young? Under 25? Body issues among young men are not that uncommon.

Skinny is better than grossly obese. You may still have some filling out to do. Continue going to the gym and maybe consult a personal trainer about building mass.

As far as your average dick goes, again, body issues. I'm sure you have a lovely cock. Stop worrying about it. My dick curves a little, I used to think I was a freak but turns out pricks come in all shapes and sizes. None of the women I've been with have complained, quite the opposite.

Do you have an older man in your life that you trust? Your dad, an older brother, a favorite uncle? Someone positive who cares about you? Talk to this person about your worries. If you can't find this person maybe seek out a therapist.

And don't be ashamed of yourself. Again, body issues among young men are not all that uncommon.

toxicgreencapsules · 2016-10-20T16:51:51+00:00

Stop projecting onto yourself, what you imagine what people may think of you, before they even get to know you, as a form of self-loathing and growing in anxiety.

Never judge a man on his appearances, but on the actions that he takes:

How do you behave?
What do you do?

If you cannot gain weight, please audit your diet, to ensure proper nutrition, and consume little excess on top of that, in order to gain weight. Drink some milk, instead of water at times, just to get the calories in.

If you want muscles, then start lifting weights. Try the 5x5 Stronglifts program, as a beginner.

There is no shame in starting with low weights, because you will progressively get stronger very quickly.
Don't worry about the gym bros.
Most of them are supportive and are extremely cool with the fact that you are taking action, when most people won't.
Even fat people get mad respect for turning up to the gym, because they have displayed courage.

Ignore the women though. They call unattractive men "creeps", anyways. Don't give them any validation.
Heck, pretend that you were injured and lost a lot of weight, and now trying to regain strength, if anyone asks.
The gym bros may even give you some training advice, and can be good to talk to.

Work on having a stronger body first, then you can consider looking good later.
A strong body nurtures a strong attitude.
Do this, and you will develop self-confidence, where you will turn your back away from the feelings that you having right now.

Penis size is irrelevant. The guys in porn have mutant-sized dicks for the camera anyways.

Be a doer for yourself, and give no fucks to what others may think of you. This is how you can proudly judge yourself as a man.

My question to you is:
Do you want to become a better version of yourself, who is able to not give a fuck about such matters, for your own sake?
If yes, then start taking little steps, to gradually make an attitude adjustment.

Don't worry about the women for now. Go ahead and tackle your insecurities first. Make no excuses for yourself.

Theccpalestine · 2016-10-20T20:00:22+00:00

I once dated a girl whose mom rode the CC long and hard. When drunk she confided in me that her first lover had recently come back into her life and his penis was a lot smaller than it used to be. I didn't have the heart to tell her that penises don't shrink, vaginas get blown out.

reptilianoverlord94 · 2016-10-20T19:54:48+00:00

Dont worry dude go mgtow. Only cucks care about that shit.

realpra · 2016-10-20T16:42:06+00:00

Just look up the Korean average - boom confidence restored.

Besides the clitoris is on the outside so if you fuck hard and grind your size doesn't matter.

Endurance is also important, I can't believe it, but I read the average sex lasts 5 minutes. By pacing yourself reaching 20 minutes or even 1 hour should be possible which can give the girl like 10 or more orgasms.

Being rough and dominating is also a turn on to them. (87% of women climax during rape I have heard)

All that said and done she will still not appreciate you or be loyal. Women in today's society are a waste of time unfortunately.

Wallstreet3 · 2016-10-20T16:49:29+00:00

Average and made my plate squirt.

sadbasturd99 · 2016-10-20T15:14:05+00:00

What is PE and how do you get it ? I need it !

But I think I see what you are doing here haha. You are oh so cleverly saying that MGTOW men have small dicks ! In my case it is true but we have already established many times that a lot of guys here are studs.

squidracer · 2016-10-20T16:33:06+00:00

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justj6sh · 2016-10-20T17:19:54+00:00

Don't feel back about your dick. Most men only ever seen porn/movie dicks. So that can really alter your esteem. Just remember those guys are packing their best dicks (sometimes even fake) for the camera. You've got what you're born with. All you can do is own it.

andreas-mgtow · 2016-10-20T21:49:49+00:00

"One's true worth becomes self evident once one stops thinking with one's vagina."

-Confucius.

sangenjaya · 2016-10-21T03:51:18+00:00

Mindfulness meditation - it's all about letting go. Google it and find a tutorial via YouTube or some other free venue that resonates with you.

lonewolf-chicago · 2016-10-20T16:27:40+00:00

I've an average dude with a huge ego. If I had 10 inches, it would still not be enough.

I had a buddy that was HUGE!! He would wear bicycle shorts to the mall and just walk around and get an ego boost by everyone looking at his junk and EVERYONE would stop and stare. He still looked for PE products and would read articles like crazy on how to increase his size... I would ask him, Dude, you're huge, WTF. He would always reply, "no such thing as too big." So the size has nothing to do with a person's perception.

Next Point: Women are different sizes too. Seriously! Women have different sizes and elasticity. I've had sex with women who had baby's come out of their vaginas and their shit was "perfect." Women resize after giving birth. Finding compatibility It's about having a match, not always being huge. I remember sitting in the break room at work when I was in college and a chick was talking about only liking average size because anything too big would probably hurt and she didn't want anything to do with something huge going inside her. She was being very sincere and she was very down to earth.

When I got divorced, some women would inquire about my size and I always told them the same thing: "It's small enough so it won't hurt and its big enough to make you choke." - Then with my ex-girlfirend, every once in a while, I would push her head down just a little bit, gently to make sure she knew that my cock would make her choke... Challenge them to take it all the way down. If they don't... you proved your point. If they do, then tell them, "good girl."

Any chicks that make penis size a priority is a chick you only want to fuck once anyway. I tell chicks, My dick is bigger than your tits - they shut up. Can't help penis size anymore than they can help their breast size. If they have big tits then I tell them dick size is genetic, but "your ass is about lifestyle" - they shut up.

My ex-wife had a Huge Pussy. It was completely ridiculous. When she went off the pill, it tightened up. But the back of her legs and ass looked like a old sea of cottage cheese wrapped in cellophane.

Guys like us have an advantage. This has worked on 4 chicks when discussing anal sex. I just flat out tell them, "I don't have a huge cock, so it won't hurt, I promise... I'll go slow." Boom - they cum like crazy, I'm pounding their ass, pulling their hair, smacking those butt cheeks, then blow a load in them or on them. I leave them satisfied.

That's it. Chicks like to fuck and when you fuck them good and you know how to lick pussy well... they will fall in line. I have seriously never heard of a marriage ending due to penis size.

Chicks care about the $$$. As long as your dick is bigger than your finger, you're good to go.

theeverywhereman · 2016-10-20T16:51:02+00:00

Go to doctor. Eliminate possible health reasons for your skinny state. Low T, genetic issues etc. If all clear: go to a gym, get on a heavy diet and just keep going. If you're worrying about the size of your dick I'd assess your mental state too. You clearly need help... there is tons of advice on the red pill and fitness. look up charisma on command on youtube. And stop worrying about your dick size seriously...

its_meKnightSwolaire · 2016-10-20T16:17:30+00:00

Quit watching porn as that will definitely skew your opinions on size. Not all women want huge cocks. I can't even fuck my gf doggy style because it hurts her too much and I'm only above average not Ron Jeremy

Thevoiceofreason420 · 2016-10-20T17:22:55+00:00

Yeah its hard I feel you there, been a skinny dude my entire life. But if you work out and stick to it you can bulk up some and get toned. Plus doing any kind of workout or anything gives you so much more energy and you feel good almost all the time, if I dont workout for a few days I feel like shit.

Dick size dont mean shit dog. Dont judge your self worth based on physical appearance. If you want to fuck women get good with your hands and mouth, they love that shit. Other then that you can always use escorts, they aint going to make fun of you, most are pretty chill and understanding and know how fucked the game has become against us average fellows.

Work out do some type of physical activity, get some hobbies, and enjoy life. Miserable people focus on the things in their life they hate, happy people focus on the things in their life that well make them happy.

Talkytalktalk · 2016-10-20T17:37:12+00:00

Work on inexplicable confidence. That's what really drives them wild, If you want to mess around with one of them.

bahdoinks · 2016-10-20T19:27:12+00:00

Did you watch a lot of porn? I'm very happy with my dick. If I compared myself to male porn stars, id be unhappy

2016-10-20T20:50:35+00:00

foreskin restoration will make your dick thicker and longer because the foreskin actually adds girth

Cunt_Robber · 2016-10-20T20:57:19+00:00

My physique was how you described it. And my dick was average. One day I got sick of it and started lifting and stuffing my face. I gained 10 pounds over the course of a month. I realized it was much better being skinny than being fat, if I wanted to aim for a good-looking body. You're the same way, you just haven't gotten disgusted enough with yourself to motivate you to change. Otherwise you'd have done it by now.

As for your dick, you're downplaying yourself too much, and needlessly. Dicks are dicks, and the length is a bell curve like anything else. Women's vaginas are also different lengths, with different crevices. Nature made us evolve such that the keys fit the locks just right to succeed in pleasuring our partners and reproducing. YOU'RE FINE. Stop worrying like a little bitch about your penis and start worrying about your other atrophied muscles. Do you want to look like that when you're old? If not, start lifting now and put effort into making improvements in your life. Make goals for yourself, like "this month I'll eat healthier and gain 5 lbs" and every day when you wake up know why you're stepping out of bed and what you have to do. Small goals, and consistent progress. Lifting would be great for you.

squidracer · 2016-10-20T21:09:33+00:00

Work out and eat more.. Everything grows a little

misterbadattitude · 2016-10-20T23:01:22+00:00

Consider yourself lucky that you were not born as a Chinese.

s0ma_ · 2016-10-20T23:46:20+00:00

i suffered from this... then i started bathing in money and freetime and forgot pretty much everything else.

RafaVillaDominico · 2016-10-21T02:21:06+00:00

Dude. I will make it simple. You can satisfy a woman with your finger. That says it all. Now go out there and enjoy. Cheers!

jebthereb · 2016-10-21T16:07:18+00:00

How old are you?

Title	I hate my self for having an average dick
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Upvotes	16
Comments	68
Date	October 20, 2016 3:03 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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