i hate virgin shamers

Salvador66 · 2017-10-09T22:00:27+00:00

Welcome to 2017, where women are celebrated for being themselves, and men being shamed for being themselves and not looking like Chad. Screw Society!!!

JStheHammer · 2017-10-09T22:33:52+00:00

Jerk off. There you had sex. You aren't a Virgin. Move on.

Why do you care what others think.

TheRealBuddhabrot · 2017-10-09T22:11:56+00:00

Man, you are awesome! Wish I had that mindset of yours when I was a 22 y.o. virgin. You're on the right track. Be yourself! Go your own way!

sonic1101 · 2017-10-10T00:27:12+00:00

Ask your dad how often he has sex with mom. Too personal? Then tell him to not ask you about your sex life.

scooter_1975 · 2017-10-09T22:42:04+00:00

That's the blue pill talking: you're only value as a man is whether or not women will have sex with you. Fuck that shit. Fuck that shit all day.

Mr-5-5 · 2017-10-10T00:55:16+00:00

Men have built wooden ships to discover the Americas

Men have built railways and steam engines.

Men have built airplanes to fly around the world.

Men have built rockets to go to the moon !

Men have built electrical systems and water and sewage systems.

That is a lot more important than ejaculating in a vagina.

BrianW1983 · 2017-10-10T02:06:14+00:00

Bottom line: Sex doesn't bring happiness, regardless of what our hedonistic culture promotes.

n0vvv · 2017-10-09T22:35:28+00:00

there is now a lot of sex shaming too. see weinstein. stay safe. stay mgtow.

shaggyo22 · 2017-10-09T22:31:53+00:00

Gentlemen, In our Matrix, try to avoid the lady in red as she may morph in a glimpse into a vile John Doe with a trigger ready to dispatch you to the fiendish hereafter. In other words, breaking your virginity is not the key to blissfulness as it might lead you to a dingy abyss shackled with false allegations of rape, stealthing, STDs, and so forth. Today’s society is gynocentric to the core, and therefore it is accompanied with high-level risks in any form of relationships. Any ‘faux pas’ might ruin your life and therefore you ought to focus on educating yourselves, honing your talents and exploring new horizons through critical thinking.

master_haku91 · 2017-10-09T23:35:08+00:00

The idea that sex with women is the pinnacle of what is achievable for a man is nonsense! Sure it used to be an achievement to deflower a woman on your wedding day but sex today does not have the same significance...

mthrowaway52 · 2017-10-10T00:59:39+00:00

My n count is high. No point in comparing with giving an exact number.

Honestly if I can take it all back, along with all the time and money I spent doing so, without hesitation. In a heartbeat. Even if I only got 50% of it back and it was somehow wiped from my system forever.

Monk mode always

game_r · 2017-10-09T23:52:57+00:00

Tell your dumbass dad that men don't have a freaking hymen.

RedPilledANCAP · 2017-10-10T02:12:29+00:00

Don't let the cucks of society shame you bro. Nothing is wrong with being a virgin.

I always say that the cost/benefit of trying to have sex is so high, it isn't even worth the hassle. Stay MGTOW my brother.

Setari · 2017-10-09T23:28:29+00:00

Yeah I really wish I didn't think sex was the end-all in my teens. God sex sucked so much, just drains so much time out of my day for 2 seconds of pleasure I coulda have gotten fapping. Shit.

I know the whole " whines but it's about being close to your PARTNER" but shit, I only got 48 hours off work, and minus sleep time, I have less than that, I don't wanna spend 2-3 hours wrasslin' in bed when I could be doing something that I enjoy. I dunno, sex just isn't for me.

And I mean, what's stopping you from just lying about having sex? The only person who would actually "know" you had sex was you, so...

EndlessPontification · 2017-10-10T02:30:30+00:00

Sex is actually a really dull low IQ activity, which is dumb people have so many kids. Jerking off feels better.

5foot2introvert · 2017-10-10T02:34:38+00:00

I'm a "virgin" as well (got a blow job by some random thot when I was 18, don't know if that counts, don't care honestly lol) and 26, you see when people shame male virgins these people just can't fathom the simple fact that men can live without pussy, they're pretty much putting pussy on such a pedestal that shaming is their only way of coming to an understanding.

I don't even tell people I'm a virgin, it's none of their fucking business how I live my sex life, gonna invest in a fleshlight sooner than later to give society an even bigger middle finger. (and erection)

Edit: Of all the accomplishments that men make on a daily basis, the only one society gives a fuck about is how much pussy we can slay lmao

DWShimoda · 2017-10-10T01:36:51+00:00

even my own father has belittled me for still being a virgin at 22.

-- Tell him to go for a dive & swim... in a septic tank, or one of those large shit-&-piss-filled pools at the local sewage treatment plant (same thing).

-- Because that's essentially what he's trying to "shame" you into doing.

tribalbandit · 2017-10-09T22:56:21+00:00

Of course, the only way anyone would know is if you made it a point to discuss it. Maybe learn not to reveal everything about yourself to people (honestly, most people could care less what you are talking about and are waiting for you to take a breath so they can blurt out the shit that they are thinking about). Keep your own counsel and stop seeking the validation to discuss it with others.

AR96 · 2017-10-10T01:56:00+00:00

As somebody who lost it to a "curvy" chick from craigslist, i just want to let you know that my hand feels way better

2017-10-09T22:46:10+00:00

Do what you got to do. Or don't.

Oumou_ · 2017-10-10T02:41:25+00:00

I know a lot of people who regret the way that they lost their virginity. Don't give in to the shame. When people try to shame you for your lifestyle choices, they only expose themselves for the hollow and weak-minded slaves that they are.

zombiecmh · 2017-10-09T23:00:53+00:00

When I was an orbiter, the 2 that I thought was a 10 wouldn't date me bc I was a virgin. In retrospect, I dodged a huge bullet there.
Have you tried deflecting or laughing it off? If it's brought up, that's what I do, and it seems to end the conversation.
just keep at it, definitely not worth the risks these days. Plus if you start having discharge, you can eliminate and entire range of possibilities and tests

38SPL · 2017-10-10T05:47:34+00:00

Virgin shamers are admitting that all that women have to offer is sex.

givecake · 2017-10-10T00:41:32+00:00

Man, you're doing it right.

johnnyblorf · 2017-10-10T02:23:09+00:00

I'm thankful I didn't have sex until I was 26. At the time I was bummed out about it. But if I'd had sex in my teens or early twenties when my brain was still growing, the chances of me getting addicted to pussy would have been so much higher.

Belrick_NZ · 2017-10-10T05:15:52+00:00

The woman i lost my virginity to destroyed my youth utterly. Would rather have remained a virgin

DangZagnut · 2017-10-10T03:28:05+00:00

So tell people you aren’t a virgin. Problem solved.

LooksAtDogs · 2017-10-10T12:28:33+00:00

This society is a degenerate shithole where a virgin is one of the commonest insults tossed around but where being banged by 20 men in one night is celebrated. Just throw this god damn society in the incinerator: it's done!

justareflektorr · 2017-10-10T05:18:22+00:00

I was ashamed of this myself, thought Im a loser only when I realized the true nature of women and now I think of the shamers as losers.

DonaldTrumpsWaifu · 2017-10-10T11:27:21+00:00

I'm 24. Haven't lost it, probably won't. Can't have a discussion about the state of marriage and relationships without it being thrown back in my face. "LOL you're a virgin what would you know?" Enough.

delta9mm · 2017-10-10T12:38:40+00:00

BUT BUT but OP, you aren't a man until you lose your "v-Card" LUL LUL LUL

I'm 26 and I'm still a virgin. LUL

deathmetalfan6 · 2017-10-10T02:44:36+00:00

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Futureman999 · 2017-10-10T03:05:32+00:00

It's no big thing OP. Especially nowadays with hookup culture taking over everything. You get liquored up, pick a (more than likely fat) chick to go home with, make out with her liquor and cigarette mouth for a few minutes, put a thick rubber cover on your dick to make sure you can't feel anything, then try to cum while sawing in and out for a few minutes. Fake your cum if you can't actually do it. Then put on your pants and leave. Declare victory. You got laid!

Everybody knows women are full of shit when they use the loophole. So if you get tired of being a virgin, use that to your advantage. Get over to The Erotic Review, pick a provider with good reviews, and call her up. Tell her you like to masturbate while groping her tits and ass. Sometimes you cum and sometimes not. Then go for it. (That may not even be illegal depending on where you live.) No pressure and you definitely got girl cooties on you. Not a virgin.

Harzul · 2017-10-10T04:14:06+00:00

meh...you aren't missin much tbh. I've had sex quite a few times, late teens and early 20s mainly but thats it. Not with too many girls. just the girlfriends and some milf stuff, but I settled down around 24 or so. I just didnt care anymore. I started really awakening to the bullshit when I was younger and dont really fall victim to it.

It's really not worth it to get social status to "omg he gets soo much pussy" like who fucking cares...what's the big deal anyway? Why would you brag about being able fuck a whore or a slut that will open her legs to anything?

Sex is overrated anyway.

NotMyWomen · 2017-10-10T07:29:37+00:00

Hire a prostitue if it bothers you that much. Tell your dad the same thing. Its not that great.

Ever jerked off?

Imagine that, with the added bonus of incessant phone calls, texts, and stupid shit.

Blogginginvicecity · 2017-10-10T15:37:29+00:00

For real, man. Virgin shaming is an asshole thing to do, as with shaming anyone else on superficial bullshit that doesn't relate to you being a nice and respectful person.

Dude, my dad was actually like the opposite! He saw the bitch, 2-faced nature of his alpha female, 80s cheerleader sisters growing up, and now that I'm older I realize he hella judged me for being so pussy whipped when I was younger.

sec-1x · 2017-10-10T03:22:33+00:00

Save yourself for a committed relationship because the women who do the same don't mess with the players who caught HPV and Herpes 2.

Takakazu_Kinashi · 2017-10-10T06:28:37+00:00

Go to a prossy then continue with your life.

2017-10-10T07:18:06+00:00

Didn't lose my virginity until I was 24. I didn't give a fuck what anyone thought about me.

The only people who tried to shame me was my mother, as she believed the fact I had not had a girlfiend meant I was somehow gay.

Corrolection does not equal causation.

st00dup · 2017-10-10T16:28:59+00:00

Boris Becker (just declared bankrupt) had sex in a cupboard in 1999. The woman fell pregnant and sued for child support. His wife left him and the whole thing cost about 20 million pounds (at that time about USD30 million).

Dude. OK, so 30 million for 20 minutes of sex is at the expensive end of the spectrum, but it just shows how far the odds are stacked against men.

Go see a hooker once a week or once a fortnight and you'll be waaaaaay ahead.

westinghau5 · 2017-10-10T17:16:48+00:00

Biggest regret I have in life now is losing my virginity to some slut who stole 5 years of my life.

1v1crown · 2017-10-10T17:20:41+00:00

HAHA VIRGIN!

companyfry · 2017-10-10T18:52:27+00:00

For the sake of argument, can you really say you know enough about women to go MGTOW if you've never even been close enough to one to fuck it? I sympathize that virgin shaming makes no sense but I think there is something of a "rite of passage" to fucking women. Then once you realize all the work it entails and how not worth it it is then you're free to experience the onset of MGTOW mindset.

Don't take what I say at face value though. I understand you don't NEED to have had sex with women to agree with the MGTOW school of thought but if I hadn't I would definitely still believe there's potential in women.

sukhoi_tractor · 2017-10-11T02:48:05+00:00

It's not all it's cracked up to be. You can lie or just not bring it up, it's not like a light comes on and everything suddenly becomes clear and all your anxieties and fears just melt away. It's usually pretty awkward and disappointing and usually not worth it-you migh even enjoy your hand more. My $0.02.

s0ma_ · 2017-10-11T04:06:18+00:00

rich men dont complain about much. less so the opinions of others

disregard; acquire

csehszlovakze · 2017-10-10T06:07:18+00:00

don't let yourself be pressured into a relationshit and early sex because you will regret it! I know I have.

I also dig your username. \m/

Banner248 · 2017-10-10T02:02:15+00:00

If you do ever have an interest in the future of having sex/gf/wife, it will be much more difficult as you get older as a virgin. Not impossible but just difficult. Women generally don't want to take a guys virginity unless the girl is a virgin herself.

I agree with everything you said OP. I'm just letting you know the longer you wait, the more difficult it will be in the future to obtain sex.

karzin · 2017-10-10T02:01:04+00:00

dude, if you're a virgin at 22 you deserve to be shamed. Don't try to put some bullshit about peer pressure and other stuff like that, the truth is that you have 0 social skill and you're a little crybaby sissybitch.

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Title	i hate virgin shamers
Author	deathmetalfan6
Upvotes	195
Comments	100
Date	October 9, 2017 9:48 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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