I went from 260 lbs to 178 and all of a sudden I'm approachable. Women are constantly saying things like "We need to find you a girl", or "Did you find anyone at your brothers wedding" - or my favorite - guilt trip: "You need to find a girl, get married, and pass on your last name".

When yet 80 lbs ago I was not even being approached by women. I did not intend for this to happen! My main goal for losing weight was so I could stop getting out of breath when I reached the top of my stairs in my apartment complex, or to tie my shoes without feeling like I ran a marathon - I did not lose the weight to have sex or sex appeal!

It was flattering in the beginning, but the more weight I lose and the more muscle definition I get; the more women won't stop annoying me, I thought men were the shallow ones!

I am just a 30 year old guy trying to reverse some health choices I made in my 20's, leave me alone! I have zero interest in mind games, drama, or putting up with anyones bullshit. I hate relationships, I tried them in the past, and I always remember being happier single, and I have been for the last 5 years by choice. I work for my money! I Want it to go back to me, I do not want to make joint decisions with my cash, nor do I want the possibility of kids! I don't want to give up 75% of my bed away to a woman, and I enjoy my quiet and space!