I Reset The Process...

penisassociate · 2017-01-17T23:30:45+00:00

You might have started over again, but the other guy is retreading your footsteps. She didn't love you and she won't love him.

Brokemgtow · 2017-01-17T22:53:52+00:00

Dont be hard on yourself.

Women are in the receiving end of relationships. That means as a relationship ends for a woman, is more of a new adventure for her than anything else.

For men relationships feel more like a sandcastle that took months and years to built, that is destroyed from one day to the next.

Dont be hard on yourself youre human.

Remember shes in the receiving end this is easier for her. Im sorry bruh, but if i was able to withstand the storm i am sure you can as well

Assassintraining7 · 2017-01-18T00:09:00+00:00

That uncomfortable feeling, that anxiety, the ruminating thoughts - I've been there. You need to start taking care of yourself brother. If you haven't already - remove her from your life, social media and all.

As men, I believe we're hardwired to feel that pain once a relationship ends. Many of the men on this sub have gone through that pain and made it out. There's no sense in harming yourself, that won't accomplish anything. Take that pain and that energy and invest it into shit that interests you. That pain is a seed for growth. I can't tell you how many times I was in your shoes when I was younger. If I wasn't for those shitty experiences I would of never have found my passion(s) which have taken me places I never imagined.

The best way to get back at anyone (if that's the frame of mind) is work on you. The one thing many men seem to forget is that they're the prize. You OP are the prize. You're a winner. You may not feel like it now, but one day it'll hit you.

I want you to drop and give me 20 push ups (I'm not joking) I want you to feel your heart beat! You're alive brother! You can build anything you want to, and become anything you desire.

Never lose sleep if someone decides to remove themselves from your life, they're doing you a favour.

You're good brother. You Got this.

LetsGoAllTheWhey · 2017-01-18T00:44:07+00:00

Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom before you work your way back up. It sounds like you hit it last night. We're all here pulling for you, bro.

Zombocom1911 · 2017-01-18T00:57:24+00:00

Fuck lots of women (whores if you can't do it for free) until pussy really is just not that special anymore. You have the deadly one-itis disease, and that is the only cure I know.

-Luthe- · 2017-01-18T01:17:35+00:00

Time for Monk Mode:

Meditation (look up Sam Harris Guided Meditation on YouTube and read The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle for starters)

Nofap (don't jerk off for one week and you'll feel completely different)

Clean up your diet (cut out sugar/soda)

Lift weights

AND FORGET WOMEN. For at least one month. Don't even check them out in public. You need to focus on yourself and yourself only right now. Godspeed.

gods_bones · 2017-01-18T02:58:13+00:00

Maybe it would be easier for you to start off with /r/TheRedPill and learn their pickup artist stuff to get over your girlfriend. People often say MGTOW is the ultimate form of red-pilling. Its sometimes called "Monk Mode". It might be a bit too much if your mindset isn't there yet. You could benefit from a smaller stepping stone before going full MGTOW.

hosteluser · 2017-01-18T04:54:58+00:00

You should do the gftog thing first

SorrowStyles · 2017-01-18T06:00:03+00:00

I'm not going to sugarcoat this.

Well, aren't you a fucking retard? A grown fucking man, attempted to kill himself over a piece of ass that'll never amount to anything important.

You're not a man, you're a chump, and your action disgust me.

letsriseup · 2017-01-18T03:27:10+00:00

(1) You still haven't found a passion or something that keeps you excited about life OUTSIDE of girls

For example, I really enjoy videogames and when I'm playing...I'm not thinking about how this will impress girls (it doesn't except for a few gamer girls)...I'm PLAYING for the ENJOYMENT of it

(2) Whatever you end up enjoying, go BIG...meaning set a huge ass goal and go after it

This will auto-correct any whiny weaknesses you have and you will end up in a position where YOU are advising future generations with your knowledge

willpersist · 2017-01-18T14:11:28+00:00

Regard starting over as a good thing. Imagine all the possibilities and challenges that await to be conquered by you.

We learn from failure and past experience. We grow even when we've been downed. Fall enough times in life, and you'll soon learn to run through it, head first through the success.

GL on your journey and stay strong mate!

Spondaios · 2017-01-18T14:22:59+00:00

Sounds like you had shit day yesterday. But you survived. Pick yourself up, put your shoes on and go get an ice cream.

Forget that bitch.

nigelh · 2017-01-18T15:14:12+00:00

You need to get some OW going in your MGTOW. Without something worth doing in your life you will cycle back through this again. I don't really care what it is but find something you want to do. It might be sporting, reading, crafting or anything but damn well do something with your life.

wildfireboat · 2017-01-18T15:44:23+00:00

I thought about her and her boyfriend and how he was fucking MY woman.

She's not your woman, it was just your turn.

Title	I Reset The Process...
Author	Assassintraining7
Upvotes	24
Comments	33
Date	January 17, 2017 10:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/5ol9p8/i_reset_the_process/
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