I was GMOW for a while until I reluctantly started dating again. Need advice on how to get out of dating a girl who has recently developed strong feelings for me.

DangZagnut · 2018-10-06T02:01:13+00:00

Ghost and move.

I have a situation like this with a FWB, she has more feels for a deeper thing than I do, but then I was clear that it was going to be about what it is, fun and casual. But we all know how women are, what they always want is more. Your job is to never give it to them.

It doesn't matter what she wants, only what you want, and what you're willing to compromise on. What's important is you honestly communicate that through word or action.

FennelMGTOW · 2018-10-06T03:45:22+00:00

Try being clingy.

Nothing dries that hot pocket faster than that.

iseehot · 2018-10-06T02:43:44+00:00

She asked you out. You went out with her.

You have had sex with her. Possibility of pregnancy, made up sexual charges. For the possibility of this. let me repeat,

She asked you out.

You have mentioned that you think she might react strongly. Let me repeat,

She asked you out, You have had sex with her.

You had better hope she hasn't gotten wind of this, because the only thing you have told us about her is:

She asked you out, You have had sex with her. you think she might react strongly

Do not do this at your place. Record, video if possible. Because the other thing you have told us about her is not true:

She's a good person. Not after you tell her you want to break up.

This is not a question for MGTOW, this is a question for AskLegal.

project_mayhem_ · 2018-10-06T02:08:31+00:00

ask her to marry you. then actually marry her and have two or three kids.

50% chance she will leave you and only 38% chance of false rape allegations. not bad as far as women go.

Three-Legged-Fox · 2018-10-06T02:10:20+00:00

Are you going to marry her? Commit to her in any way? If the answer is no to either of those questions then you know what you need to do.

Ending it will suck for her and maybe for you. In the long run you’ll be happier and so will she.

Im_Talking · 2018-10-06T02:10:42+00:00

You can't care whether she over-reacts or not. You have no fault in any of this. You are leaving her because of your own values, not because anything she did. You have to be honest and tell her.

And how do you know what will make her understand? You have to go into this thinking that she won't because obviously she has feelings for you. Women hate rejection.

Just be honest. That's all you can do.

Pk_s_to_the_yizzle · 2018-10-06T05:05:45+00:00

You are being too emotional, and not preparing enough.

You are worried about her feelings and your feelings. The time for feelings has gone. Why?

SHE AIN'T GOT NO FEELINGS FOR YOU. SHE LYING.

She old, shriveled up, and need to get married. And you know what? YOU'LL DO.

She apparently has no problem PUSHING HER FEELINGS ONTO YOU and endangering your life and peace of mind. HOWS THAT AS AN EXAMPLE OF HER LOVE FOR YOU?

You want some of that for the rest of your life? Run Luke, RUN!

So stop fucking worrying about her, and stop feeling like a heel.

AND START FEELING LIKE A SUCKER. CAUSE THAT'S WHAT YOU ARE.

She Targeted YOU. Walked up to you. Offered Free pussy. You took it.

DO YOU REALLY THINK SHE'S THIS ALTRUISTIC?

Or is she setting you up for a marriage and divorce?

Did she or did she not (in finding you)

See a SUCKER coming that WAS SO WORRIED ABOUT FEELINGS THAT HE WOULDN"T BOTHER TO SAVE HIMSELF AND STAND HIS GROUND NO MATTER HOW RUDE HE HAD TO BE?

Look at you, pacing, worrying.

She's only worried about missing her LUNCH (that's you). See? Give you some pussy on credit and THEN THE REAL BILL COMES DUE. You gimme a Relationship Mr. or there will be trouble!

If you didn't Order the lifetime supply of old clam. YOU NEED TO GTFO NOW.

Meet up with her, get your phone out. FILM THAT SHIT, AND SAY

I'M DONE WITH YOU.

-or-

Just ghost. Let her knock on the door. Let her break the windows.

FILM THAT SHIT TOO AND SEND HER THE BILL.

BUT GET GONE. STOP FUCKING WORRYING ABOUT PEOPLES FEELINGS. INCLUDING YOURS.

Your life is a WAR ZONE and you worried that people might not like the way you tie your shoes.

Or if people like butter on both sides of their bread.

WHILE BULLETS ARE FLYING PAST YOUR HEAD.

You focused on the wrong shit.

GET TO WORK FINDING AN EFFECTIVE WAY TO GET RIDE OF HER AND GET BACK TO LIVING!

And stop worrying about safety, there is no SAFE way.

Only some that are safer than most. Those usually include:

Ghosting.

Crowds and Cameras.

Rdrums31 · 2018-10-06T07:11:46+00:00

All you need to do is open up to her about some recent emotions you had. Also start texting her a lot and acting desperate. She will be gone within the week.

TheYekke · 2018-10-06T02:22:16+00:00

You’re a walking wallet... SHE approached YOU. The media IS the message! Didn’t you get the memo? No provisioning. Just tell her it’s not going to work out because you’re going to have a sex change operation soon and were only using her to act feminine better. If she sputters, tell her she’s trans phobic and to check her privilege #boom

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coinstash · 2018-10-06T03:40:47+00:00

"It's not you, it's me." That's what every woman who ever broke up with a guy would have said.

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2018-10-06T05:14:29+00:00

Save all texts and proof that she wants you. Then ghost her.

lastlaugh100 · 2018-10-06T17:00:53+00:00

She wants access to more of your resources- your money and time. This comes natural for a woman so they can build a nest for their offspring.

Most women aren't used to being told no.

Problem is mgtow men don't give a fuck.

"I want to get married". No.

"I want kids". No.

"We need to go out on more dates". No.

I want you to buy me an an expensive gift". No.

Women will always want more. Don't cave because she will find a reason to become unhappy even if you gave her the moon. Just keep doing what you're doing, if she wants to leave then let her find someone she can control easier.

vikrant1993 · 2018-10-06T02:11:07+00:00

How long have you been dating? And also does she wnat to get married,if so acknowledge that you don't want to EVER get married. That'll slowly drive her away and on top of that, just tell her you need work on yourself but I an end badly at some cases based on her maturity level.

champagne-n-pompano · 2018-10-06T02:20:03+00:00

Hey buddy, just tell her you are never getting married or having kids, and if she wants to hang out that's cool, but that's it and that you love her, etc. I did this with every LTR (albeit it was when we were all younger 20-30s). It tempers the stupid 'wedding bells' talk or the constant cackle from her frienemies about "When is he gonna put a ring on it!!", etc, blah blah.

It's: Either hang out and get pounded, or go find your betabux.

To be honest, it hurt a bit when the first long term "true love" GF from HS and college basically dumped me in the stairwell of my fraternity house. That hurt for a year or two at least. BUT, I was mgtow then (and now). She was a 9.5 imo no shit, varsity volleyball 5-7 125, tight as fuck, looked like chrissy teigen.

Didn't matter tho. I wouldn't do it, and so she found her beta and settled down and had kids. I don't regret any of it in the least. I miss that feeling a bit as a younger dude, which was basically wicked hormones and a barn fire sex drive. That goes away and you go free. Unless you marry and have kids.

devok1 · 2018-10-06T04:12:26+00:00

say that youre broke and ghost

donallanod · 2018-10-06T04:17:04+00:00

Help ! I've painted myself into a corner, how do i get out ?

Don't paint yourself into a corner.

lulz3r · 2018-10-06T05:49:44+00:00

Ghost and move.

lonewolfsigma8917 · 2018-10-06T07:11:06+00:00

Juice is not worth the squeeze, do you know what her feeling would be in the coming 20 years ??

Type0x · 2018-10-06T12:49:59+00:00

Tell her you love her, be as clingy as possible she'll get bored, see there's no challenge and leave

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