I've been dating a girl for a long time. The only reason we aren't married is she has an anger problem.

I was sick the previous two days. So I didn't really want to talk. I had a migraine and a pretty nasty cold.

Anyway she went off on me for not talking to her, while I was on the phone asking about her day.

She's right, I wasn't being very interactive. When she started going off on me. I hung up. I definitely didn't feel like dealing with all of that.

Then she went off on me for hanging up on her. How dare I hang up on her, right after she just told me I'm not communicating well enough.

God forbid I have a fucking sick day. This happened another time in the past. I had a really bad day at work. We had a date planned, and I was like I'm not really feeling well and just want to take the night off to recoup. Before I told her that was the best I felt that whole night.

She's not worth the fucking stress. She hasn't messaged me all day. Yesterday, I told her I went home early from work because I was feeling sick. I messaged her last night saying sorry I hung up on you. I really wasn't feeling well.

No forgiveness, unless it's on her terms. When she says sorry, I say I forgive you and I move on. When I say sorry, she holds it over me for as long as she can.

Hopefully I'll be a full member of this community soon.