I’m raging..

eduardkoopman · 2019-09-13T19:09:52+00:00

Why the fuck am I so mad if I know this is female behavior? The headaches for the pussy sleeve. Wtf.

You must be young. And so must she be.You just experienced: how high her sexual/dating market value is; compared to your low your sexual/dating market value is. In this moment.It was the same for me, when I was younger. Teens and 20's. I come from pre dating apps time. I had to chat up at least 300+ women for sure, before I got my fist lay. From women where I got phonenumbers or emailadresses from, many flakes always. That's how it was/is.While women at that age (teens 20's); got dick, dates, etc.. offered to them on a daily basis. It's so skewed at that age.
I quickly always had the numbersgame concept in my head though, in that time. I never tried to one-itis as it was called back then. But still, the shit treated I got back then when trying to date, did get to me as well from time to time. The disrespect is real. They shouldn't be this comfortable to be disrespecting someone that is physically so much stronger, but they are.

I'm 35 now. The tables totally changed imo when it comes to women with serious baguage (children, etc.). And I'm for sure at even level now, with women my own age without serious baguage (no kids, debts, etc..).

It's just the way it is bro.

striving2bgr8 · 2019-09-13T19:05:59+00:00

Shit man...

Ever hear of playing hard to get? Try it. It works.

MenGoingTOWin · 2019-09-13T19:15:19+00:00

You say you know her nature, and yet you continue to act as if you don't.

If you knew the nature of a 500ft cliff, would you walk off it?

Sounds to me like you're still hoping "gravity" doesn't exist.

Krucester · 2019-09-13T19:07:52+00:00

Forget her mate. At the end of the day you'll never know why she cut it off. Don't dwell on it It could be you, it could be 1000 other things that have absolutely nothing to do with you. Either way people lack the respect and communication skills these days to come straight out and say "I'm not really into this for x y or z reason". So instead you're left wondering and guessing what could have happened to make her ghost out.

Fuck that, don't give it the time of day bud. Don't keep messaging her on different platforms, it probably just validates herself in her own head anyway. Be better than that. If she so doesn't have time for you then why the fuck should you make time her?

It sucks when this happens man, sorry that it did. You're better off without it.

QuickDrawDinoHunter · 2019-09-13T19:15:40+00:00

You're mad because you grew up being conditioned to believe women were these majestical creatures. And that they were good, and true, and loyal and all that jargon. But in reality, they're just whores. You're just mad because you were lied to. We all are.

NietzscheExplosion · 2019-09-13T19:16:59+00:00

You are a mess.

Skytoad · 2019-09-13T19:07:24+00:00

Because you are allowing your knowledge of female behavioral characteristics to fuel your imagination that until she started ignoring you was busy on your impending date. Take deep breaths, relax and do something else to occupy your mind. It does not help that you are probably still young with your peak supply of hormones.

Gamer4life94 · 2019-09-13T19:03:23+00:00

Your still partially in the blue pill phase learn to control your emotions and your urges and fully embrace the red pill because everyone on this sub was blue pill once

Uttfttufftcytfcctf · 2019-09-13T21:21:17+00:00

You should just walk away, but if you insist on chasing women, at least use their own game on them. Start talking to several of them. Set up a date with about 5 of them, for the same day. Go with the hottest one that actually shows up, ghost the others.

Fhaze1117 · 2019-09-13T23:07:51+00:00

I find this helps. Try and set up a fake OLD profile of a 7/10 chick less than 25yrs like her on tinder,bumble or POF and see how many messages she gets. It's overwhelming!!! Now that you've seen what it's like for them, its liberating, makes it easier to detach and not take shit too serious. It's just the way dating is now man.

betterforitall · 2019-09-13T19:01:13+00:00

Go read r/niceguy for your next move.

Docbear64 · 2019-09-13T19:19:18+00:00

You worked way too hard and already invested too much time and energy into this cunt who you've never met before .

I get it she should have more respect and the convo was going good so it's disappointing that she was just using you for the validation . You lost nothing and learned a valuable lesson , these women and their attention is for everybody . You liked her WAYYYY more than she liked you and you can bet she knew that. She knew if she told you to wait for her to text you later you'd keep looking at the phone like a sad puppy .

Women are a bonus... that's it if you make them the goal or your focus then you will be dissappointed EVERY TIME.

CuntMonteCristo · 2019-09-13T19:24:50+00:00

Never value a woman more than she values you, not even the same, always at the very least value her a bit less than she does whatever level that is...

krugerand9 · 2019-09-13T19:34:34+00:00

Shes a 7/10 and most women think they are 3 or 4 places higher (according to research by Coltaine). So if

you're not a 10/10, you're wasting your time.

[deleted] · 2019-09-13T22:30:55+00:00

Get off dating apps. Waste of time, unless you are top 20% of men and standout, you will have a hard time getting attractive women. Look at the marathon, not the sprint. She's in the sprint, you're in the marathon.

She can't truly compete with a strong thinking man's potential. You two are on two totally different levels, yours is way higher. Never truly level yourself to her level. You can make a small roundabout, but that's it. All she can do is hop on your ride, or get left in the dust. She's got to come to your level, always.

Chuchomucho · 2019-09-14T00:03:29+00:00

poor guy... desperation is like a rotting fish in the trash... everyone can smell it miles away. get off these stupid dating apps that play into the narcissistic female narrative. focus on yourself and dont chase after women. it takes time and effort but worth it in the end.

jackalhead · 2019-09-14T00:59:49+00:00

This is a group for men going their own way. Not angry dudes getting rejected and played.

markhamONT · 2019-09-14T13:28:16+00:00

You are blue pilled. Lol

Keep coming here.

DangZagnut · 2019-09-13T20:11:26+00:00

Started talking to someone from dating app.

You are 100% the cause of your own problems. She never was interested in you, you're an orbiter, and that's how your feeling. Meanwhile she's getting all the validation and if her plans with 700 other guys fall apart, she'll text you for a free meal.

[deleted] · 2019-09-13T20:44:44+00:00

Why the fuck am I so mad if I know this is female behavior?

Ego

throwawaymgtower · 2019-09-13T23:21:56+00:00

You're way to invested in this. Take some time away and reevaluate, then come back to the field with a level head and realistic expectations.

xboxnl · 2019-09-14T00:30:14+00:00

Being on a dating app is like being a product in W-mart. You are one out of a million and you want to be selected. That's a bad position to be in. It's frustrating.

Delete the dating app(s). Go outside and talk with women. If works better, for sex or a LTR. Be a social person and become the top 5% of men. Workout, work, study, read. You have to do that. A bird won't get the female if he quits singing.

Whatever you do, don't be mad. And don't adopt a 28+ y.o former CC-rider when you are at your best and she has 100.000 miles on the odometer.

BallsPalsy · 2019-09-14T13:38:28+00:00

Get off dating apps, meet someone in person. If you aren't a very social person, it will force you to work on speaking & approaching. It will do wonders for your confidence & generally how you carry yourself.

I had some similarities to you as far as being a clinger. As much as you may want to, dont put all your eggs in one basket. Create an image of yourself that you are the man & you are the prize & anybody would be privileged to be with you/ dating you.

Most importantly, work on yourself 1st. Women will fuck you over & it wont be the last time. Focus on you.

Krazyrobus · 2019-09-13T19:23:56+00:00

So you know they are up to shit and still encourage them? This one is on you, brother.

Title	I’m raging..
Author	0neManWonder
Upvotes	4
Comments	41
Date	September 13, 2019 6:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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