It still sucks

Adventurous_Line_943 · 2021-06-27T22:08:05+00:00

I have cried my heart out. I have screamed the last of any romantic notion away. A loss for sure. But my sons, in this life and the next and the ones after, I will protect, I will train, I will build up, I will love. My sons.

ZarBandit · 2021-06-27T23:10:33+00:00

Know the financial obligations for when they turn 18. Are you obligated to pay alimony? How will the assets be split up?

Once child support is off the table, that may be the time to bail. Once you hit 50 the appeal of women starts to wane.

Mine cheated and I stayed for the kids. It was probably the wrong decision, I should have bailed asafp. But now the tables are turning. She worked out rich Chad isn’t in her future, so now she’s worried I’m biding my time and will just leave her when she’s old. She might be right. We’ll see.

Now the entire dynamic is I don’t give a flying fuck what she wants. If she says something I don’t like I tell her to shut up, including in front of her family. Also, and this is a big one for her, I don’t go down on her anymore. I still get her off with fingers but I’m not eating her out. Not to mention there’s a risk of throat cancer with HPV. So no. I like this because it’s a passive way of registering a long term objection. It doesn’t require me to get worked up or argue. It comes at no cost to me whatsoever. I also sleep in a different bed most nights. Partly for practical reasons but there is definitely an element of punishment there too. I prefer it.

If I even suspect she’s cheated again I will just live out the rest of my time as roommates and then be rid of her. She will never be given any benefit of doubt. I also had her take an HPV test where it lists the different strains she/we have. She will not be able to fuck around much before a future test rats her out. That is, if I choose to stay. A very very big IF.

So now it’s my way or the highway. If she doesn’t like it she can leave, and good riddance. Each year is one less year of child support. I’m staying only as long as it benefits me.

gxm492lor · 2021-06-27T23:14:59+00:00

Use your head or she will be able to make it difficult to see your sons. The mens divorce forums are a good start.

The courts do not give af about your sincerity. They care about what you can prove. Men's divorce can tell you what you need to do and document to win custody.

trump4president2024 · 2021-06-28T09:56:15+00:00

Glad I was never bitten by the "husband and father" bug.

Really bad time to desire the life of a traditional family man.

Radiant_Cup3809 · 2021-06-28T10:13:37+00:00

mgtow or not, your own children are and should be your purpose in life, supporting and leading them, it's on them if they still want and need you in their lives.

Unforsaken_Dick · 2021-06-28T02:51:16+00:00

I think you should talk to a lawyer. Ask them what your options are, and what you can do in your situation.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2021-06-28T12:31:48+00:00

Good for you but I'm far too proud to allow a cheating whore in my life. I have a slash and burn policy.

Frequentbadideas · 2021-06-28T13:11:44+00:00

Dude your kids are adults get the fuck out of there! You can do all that with your kids as a single man.

selfism_mike · 2021-06-28T01:19:57+00:00

The best thing you can do for your sons is to inform them about female nature. Having a cold hearted bitch as a mother should provide convincing study material.

Maybe have a family session with everyone around the table and invite your wife to openly share the ideas and deep insights which apparently blessed her during the time you both wanted to start to share your lifes together and which made her decide to cheat on you. The idea would be to educate your sons so that they don't end up with a whore like their mother. Should be therapeutical for everyone, I suspect.

weebs86 · 2021-06-28T12:18:50+00:00

"And a red pill suppository"

yeah, I bet it was not a small pill either.

Pale_Fly9405 · 2021-06-28T20:34:05+00:00

You are using your adult children as an excuse to being a grown CUCK OLD

Title	It still sucks
Author	Adventurous_Line_943
Upvotes	45
Comments	25
Date	June 27, 2021 9:28 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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