Just failed the biggest shit test ever.

OzSleeperCell · 2019-01-09T00:30:29+00:00

We all make mistakes. When my ex texted me, I responded with “Who is this?” Worked like a charm.

back2dahfuture · 2019-01-09T00:29:29+00:00

you got got.

you just lost 6 months of dignity to validate her.

you need to rub one out before you take action on a move like that!

flee_market · 2019-01-09T00:50:18+00:00

You need to get into the mindset that people have to EARN your free time.

TruthSeekingPerson · 2019-01-09T02:01:21+00:00

You deserved it. She needed the ego boost and you were too happy to oblige.

ikhwan_arif · 2019-01-09T00:29:45+00:00

Mistakes were made and you owned up to them. That's important

Now is the time to move forward. Keep moving forward.

Older_Miggy · 2019-01-09T01:10:09+00:00

You learned, now let it go.

Im_Talking · 2019-01-09T01:09:06+00:00

No, she didn't use your shoulder to cry on. She wanting to give you one last 'fuck you' before she ghosts you. Women always want the last word. Bad mistake on your part.

ThePlague · 2019-01-09T01:57:20+00:00

Once it's done, it's done. Further contact at best would be a pointless waste of time, and more likely it will be negative for you in some fashion. Your experience adds evidence to this conclusion, and I do thank you for sharing it as a warning to other MGTOWs.

Ghost. Ghost completely, and without exception. It's the only way.

KneeDeepThought · 2019-01-09T05:17:41+00:00

You weren't a shoulder to cry on homey, more like an emotional punching bag. She had a lot of horrible shit bottled up and you presented yourself in front of the firing squad and let her spew shit all over you.

Lesson learned I'm sure, but try not to take anything she said to heart. It was all the stuff she thought of in the shower for the last six months and thought she'd never get to say to your face, I bet she even had a script. Point is it's bullshit hyperbole (likely) designed to make her feel good and you feel bad, and truth is totally optional.

3rd_viewpoint · 2019-01-09T05:45:22+00:00

Mistakes are ok if you don't repeat them. It's better to make more advanced mistakes on higher levels than repeat the same old ones ;)

AndreyD95 · 2019-01-09T02:44:50+00:00

Shouldve agreed to meet her, then stood her ass up.

justicecantakeanap · 2019-01-09T06:41:08+00:00

You learned.

Ignore next time.

sovad · 2019-01-09T02:54:44+00:00

we are not emotional tampons!

cyborg_type_darkness · 2019-01-09T03:04:13+00:00

It's okay.

nidham21 · 2019-01-09T04:55:20+00:00

Maybe u both needed a closer and that was your

verynormalsimple · 2019-01-09T06:48:05+00:00

If you accept her "friendship" she will probably just use you as a handyman or as an occasional ticket for a free meal.

I remember this girl that once blatantly told me: "Having sex with a guy means losing a potential ride to the airport when I need it".

rooster-one4 · 2019-01-09T07:16:05+00:00

You'll live. Don't do it again, that's all

Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits · 2019-01-09T07:16:13+00:00

For anyone else: a proper response to her invitation would have been "suck dick first, talk after"

FlourishedCass · 2019-01-09T10:05:23+00:00

I ain't gonna lecture you. You seem like you already know where you went wrong, why it was a bad idea, and what to do next time. You're a MGTOW and you seem pretty rational so you're already lightyears ahead.

Put it this way. You've just learned more from one small mistake than most people learn from the dating scene in years of failed relationships, money spent and dignity lost. That's a win in my eyes.

ILoveJuices · 2019-01-09T11:19:54+00:00

If you're going into a closure meeting, make sure you're carrying the bigger gun.

Tsukikoselenia · 2019-01-09T12:46:23+00:00

This is a common mistake people do though; this isn't about your ex. Your ex isn't any better or worse than any other woman, just more open about it since she "knows you so she has the right to say [x]". Saying that it's related to it being an ex is the kind of stupid excuses women usually use to justify being a hoe that stops caring after one week because you're "not compatible" (despite the fact that any relationship is supposed to exist only by working around this, among other things) ...

It's a thing with women. All of them. Exes are just more upfront about it because they know that usually, men still care about them even after a while, resulting in entitlement, and more direct because they think they know you and therefore "have a right to judge because they know", but strangers aren't any better, they just don't say anything because they don't care/are scared.

That's how it is for every single female. If you give them even a little bit of your time, they'll end up the same as your ex., and they ultimaly don't care, you're just a dancing monkey. Guaranteed.

True female loyalty and devotion belongs, sadly, to the realm of fiction. Your past with someone doesn't matter when the game is rigged to begin with. My exes were terrible too, but, looking back at it, it wasn't shocking in any way and if I had been more honest I probably would've been able to see it even before being with them. It's just like being blind and suddenly seeing the light for the first time; it is so intense that we think it is something special. It isn't, it's just hat your eyes are open now.

joehenrey · 2019-01-09T14:28:27+00:00

Never let an old flame burn you twice.

Neem3r29 · 2019-01-09T17:07:37+00:00

This is how Jodi Arias murdered Travis Alexander. They broke up and she called him back a while later for a meet up. He thought she would be an easy lay and she ended up stabbing him 37 times, shooting him, etc.

NEVER go back to an ex.

Quarryvillain · 2019-01-09T01:35:56+00:00

Get up and walk out of those situations.

LabTech41 · 2019-01-09T07:49:55+00:00

Don't expect it to be just that one time; every time a girl falls on hard times, they go through the list of former partners seeing which ones will simp up and provide for them again until they can once again find someone better.

I've got an ex that STILL occasionally tries to hit me up on social media, and we broke up well over a decade ago.

TuhTodayJr · 2019-01-09T08:04:00+00:00

Made this same mistakes on New Year’s Day. Opened up like a little bitch expecting her to be impressed. Hahaha I’ll always now forever realize that I’ll be alone and I don’t need anyone’s approval with anything I do.

VenetianCares · 2019-01-09T08:45:27+00:00

sad part is you could've dicked her. her complaining and whining was yet just another shit test. she wanted to see if you were still the spineless loser who would put up with that (guess you are?), or if you've become a man who will tell her to shut the fuck up and fuck her hard against a wall. personally I prefer neither, once the love is gone, its gone and even revenge sex becomes a temporary pleasure and means nothing. but yeah, should've just pulled your dick out mid conversation and said, how about you be my cum rag. i bet she would've hopped on so quick. but not worth it. just ignore next time.

Thotsithinknots · 2019-01-09T09:22:01+00:00

Those were my exes last words when when she was dissolving the relationship intentionally and making me look like the bad guy " I dont want to throw this completely away" BLOCKED Been 3 years since iver never heard from her!

tramese · 2019-01-09T18:38:55+00:00

be straight up. "come over and lets fuck".

if no, delete.

wheredidiputit · 2019-01-09T19:06:20+00:00

ou're ex does not want to get back together she at most just wants to use you as a shoulder to cry on.

It's deeper than that. They want to give themselves absolution for being trash. You gave her the all clear to continue acting like shit when you met with her. ALWAYS ghost after the break up

joehenrey · 2019-01-09T01:03:57+00:00

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xWaduHek · 2019-01-09T10:23:47+00:00

All the virgins patting each other on the back in this thread lol you're all pathetic. None of you have a pair of bollocks and blame your life being shit on women who won't sleep with you. Wake up.

Title	Just failed the biggest shit test ever.
Author	joehenrey
Upvotes	111
Comments	83
Date	January 9, 2019 12:23 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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