Backstory(I know this will probably get some backlash). I've been married for 7 years and have 2 kids but have been moving more and more towards this lifestyle. It seems to be still working out though somehow. I used to fall prey to all the stupid ass mindgames my wife would try, but I've got to the point where my wife just says "I know you'll just do whatever you want." I know that's her last attempt at control, but not giving in and doing what I want always works out and benefits our family. Have I reached some sort of pinnacle?