Today was the court hearing for my divorce. I am so happy and relieved. I won sole custody of my sons. Their mom (who is very much the woman described in this subreddit) is paying me child support. I have a better apartment, and I am going my own way. 2020 is going to be a great year.

EDIT: Since you all are asking, I got child support and custody because I hired one of the best lawyers in the area. She came highly recommended from a woman who was on the receiving end, and she told me that "she completely fucked my life." The judge is also one of the good ones who follows the "best interest of the children" directive faithfully.