Hello brothers, just want to share something with you guys here. It's been a pleasure to see mgtow fellows being liberated and have become self-recognized and trying to be free yourselves from all the burdens women put us through (we partially did it to our own also). I've seen many mgtow fellows getting back on their feet really good. Some have very nice cars, some have very nice houses and lovely incomes. Nothing is better than seeing that the path we all decided to walk will or is paying off to us eventually.

We all believe will be alright in the end. I believe that also. But the path of being self-recognized is not always easy. This post is to all you guys who are working on yourselves and not getting there yet. I'm one of you guys.

I am entering middle-age (in my country standard), divorced. I pay 3K USD per month for alimony and child support. My income is not stable, sometimes I make a huge sum of money, sometimes don't. So some months the pay was reduced to a minimum at 2.2K. I have around 800 USD to live per month. It was a heavy burden that I have to live with. Just like you guys, we are in the same boat, just different seas. I stay with my dad and basically restart my life over again.

Why I'm telling you this? The point is it's easy to fool ourselves that we will land okay and softly after the crash. The truth is it's not. Without proper planning and self-improvement, even we adopted mgtow lifestyle, it'll get us nowhere. We need to be smarter, work harder and become more careful with ourselves and everybody around us, MORE THAN EVER! See things and people to their cores. Taking control of yourself and situations calmly and logically. So that you can prevent yourself from crashing down again. Mgtow is the best medicine for us men. But it's not gonna cure stupidity and carelessness. That part, you need to do it on your own.

Mgtow is a pill that will assist you to recover and improve but not a magical pill that will make everything okay. It strengthens your belief in yourself and now you need to do the remaining jobs based on your own goals. You need to work on yourself. And it's a long never-ending path that you need to walk. I myself don't know where it'll end. It's a lonely and uneasy road. But I want to stay the course and enjoy the scenery even though I keep sweating from the heat. Even though I only get a glimpse of the destination, I enjoy every minute of it. Because I'm walking with my own self, for my own destination.

I want to shoutout to all brothers who are in the same positions. For those who are successful, I'm very happy with you guys. You're my role models. You're the living proves of how rewarding the mgtow path is. But for others who are still broken and recovering. It's okay if you have nothing right now. It's okay if you don't own a nice car or a nice house. Because once you adopt mgtow philosophy, you gain the best friend who you ignored for a long time; yourself. Without people (especially women) intervention, after you were damaged, you've become truly self-realized. And that's the most important rewarding about mgtow. Some of you may have a long way to go, keep walking, the mgtow community got your back.

In this photo, it's my 2001 Mazda 323 Protege that my dad bought for me when I was in university. She is 18 now. This is the only car I own. She breaks from time to time, but nothing serious. She's entering her 20k miles soon. And I plan to use this car as long as the engine and the transmission are still working. It's weird for a middle-aged guy to drive a "ricer" car like this. But when you have no choice, you just have no choice. This car and my laptop are the only things that belong to me. And I'm proud of that, even though they aren't much.

I still have a long way to go and I'm sure some of you also. Stay strong. Never give up. The community got your back. No matter you're a success of still broken, we are survivors, we're all brothers.

Peace!

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