Need Your opinion guys

MakeWomenGreatAgain · 2021-02-14T10:12:25+00:00

I told her that if she leaves I don't want her back, I'm not some fucking light switch that she decides to turn on and off, she tells me fine I'm not coming back.

My guy the reason why she's saying this is because she is 100% convinced that you'll take her trashy ass back anyway. Now i don't know you but it seems to me that she has the habit of having the leeway to do what the hell she wants, even if its against your wishes.

My advice: Drop this 'If you leave...' ultimatum right now and dump her ass. Its pathetic that you even have to resort to an ultimatum like this to keep a girl with you, what are you going to do the next time, threaten to commit suicide?

Dump her ass. Work on your self, build your business. These thots aren't worth the risk of a false sexual/abuse allegation.

richieyeah · 2021-02-14T10:20:03+00:00

Let her go, you can lead a horse to water but you can not force it to drink. Prepare to have her crawling back to you in five to seven years with three crotch goblins in tow from Chad, Tyrone and your sister in law's boyfriend.

MGMOWNow1978 · 2021-02-14T10:04:46+00:00

Just let her go and ghost her - she’ll be begging to come back after she’s been through a dick a day out there. It might be worth telling her parents you broke up so you can ditch her stuff there so she has no reason to get back into the house, don’t bother trying to explain why or cause drama, just be matter of fact “we broke up here’s her stuff, peace.” If you’ve been together 5 years you probably have a decent relationship with them, so they’ll probably be upset about it and ask for details - just tell them to ask her. Change the locks.

Itisoutthere · 2021-02-14T14:41:03+00:00

Has more or less a similar life story.

After 16 Yrs (let it be 15 ) my ex gf was told by her "friends" that living the life I prepared is too boring.

No partys no spontaneous city trips .. Only a child and a predictable life (everything is paid and in order.. the next steps are planed and everything is fine).

So she leaves. All I said was Ok.

Helped her to pack her stuff together to speed that process up and have an eye on my stuff....

After some month my children come back to me and the exes life is a mess.

Pregnant again with an impulsive guy no money no future .

My life is in the best shape of its time..

Thats my storie ....You see you are not alone with this dilema.

But first... Change the locks and the WIFI/Netflix/younameit password..

And yes then be an adult an move her stuff to her parents or whatever..

Clean your house, clean your life.

And never look back.

Have fun with your business . I wish you luck.

LkTahoeNV · 2021-02-14T10:19:15+00:00

Consider this your good fortune. Thank goodness you don’t have kids or married as you know how worse it could be. Let her go have “fun” getting wasted and riding the CC. Ghost and block her, NEVER look back. Focus on you... especially your new business.

Just so I’m clear on your dilemma too... ghosting/blocking/never looking back means that you don’t say anything to her parents, or anyone else for that matter, about why she decided to throw it all away and go back to live with them. She will make up stories to fit her narrative of what a bad guy you are and they will believe her over you anyways.

None of this will be easy. Best of luck and stay strong.

astuteglute · 2021-02-14T11:55:51+00:00

Send her back to the streets with no pension

pig_benis2 · 2021-02-14T10:03:39+00:00

Woah there buddy you're doing this all wrong. Dump her and forget about her. I can guarantee you that your relationshit is over.

Kini42 · 2021-02-14T12:58:37+00:00

You should be happy and thankful she is showing her real nature and is leaving you voluntarily. Good for you. It’s not only her sister it’s her as well!
Drop her, forget her and ghost her!

Good luck and all the best!

Shimakaze4 · 2021-02-14T12:37:01+00:00

Let her fucking go, then about a week before she is due to come back ghost her and take all her shit to her parents house, tell them what happened and that you don't want her back. Don't be an arse, just be factual and if they were nice people, tell them that they were good and that you'd have loved to call them your in-laws but their daughter ruined it. Then leave and don't come back...also change the locks on your house so she can't get back in.

cockthrowaway5 · 2021-02-14T12:29:21+00:00

Now there are only 2 ways to go about this.

You be a doormat and keep allowing her acting trashy and walking all over you and this will repeat forever until you find out she's blatantly cheating.
You keep whatever pride and dignity you have left, You drop that trashbag where it belongs and never ever contact her or let her contact you and continue with your life.

JohnStrangways · 2021-02-14T10:39:50+00:00

Don’t put a woman before building your life/finances/business. Women come, women go. Bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks!

Dense-Cartographer90 · 2021-02-14T16:47:41+00:00

If her sister is able to convince her that she shouldn’t be with you it’s either because she genuinely shouldn’t or because she’s so weak willed she follows how other people tell her she should live rather than forming her own opinions based on her first hand experience of being with you.

Neither of those options would end well if you had stayed together.

It’ll hurt you and it may be somewhat bewildering, but that’s because you cared about her and you probably aren’t as easily lead by others as she seems to be. Neither of those are negative traits. Well done for not letting yourself be left on standby. What ever path you follow from here, I hope you find happiness.

CodeDiscombobulated1 · 2021-02-14T17:09:27+00:00

they always regret their decisions in the end, when consequences begin to catch up

dont save her

distortionharmonics · 2021-02-14T19:05:42+00:00

You have to be mentally in control of your emotions. She wants to go? Let her go right away! And do not let her come back, for the love of god. She's no good to you, she'd rather be out drinking and probably fucking random guys while you work at home providing. It will probably hurt more just please don't be another simp loser. It will likely get much worse if you let her back. I left my girlfriend of 5 years last year after moving across the country to a beautiful place. Its their female nature going unchecked that's the problem, if you don't want a drunken idiot as a girlfriend, tell her that and show her the door. It might hurt inside, but its not your heart breaking, its your EGO breaking. From the sounds of it, things will get much worse... you're working at home and she's out drinking because she's bored, sounds like a terrible relationship with no respect. The irony is when you start standing up for yourself it increases their attraction. Just hold your ground. I had no idea how much peace and tranquility and simple love for life I would feel immediately after deciding to leave my old girlfriend who was wearing me out from the inside out, anxiety gnawing at me inside trying to make her happy. Let them learn the hard way how good they have it. You have to be the father figure with most young modern women and not put up with so much disrespect.

P.S. After I made the decision to leave her inside, I had a dream where I ripped a fish hook out of my thumb. It was incredibly painful in the dream believe it or not, barbed fish hook ripped right through thumbnail, I pulled it out. And felt such relief. A symbolic dream representing me cutting the cords in my soul to her, the emotional attachment. I felt so free and happy afterwards, most of my misery was from her and I was too dumb to see it. I really hope you teach this ungrateful girl a lesson.

Ramayri · 2021-02-16T12:41:28+00:00

Seen it happen before. Take note OP women take ques about life from other women, doesn't matter if they are dead broke or swimming in money to them its the "sisterhood calling".

In your case the "sisterhood" has deemed you a tyrant and a boring one at that.

Like most folks said here, no ultimatums mate , just take action. Want to be a footchair for your sister in law or just go your own way.

To put into some perspective of what will possible happen if u choose the chair option:

Sister in law has already deemed you as "not fit" so things won't get better and they will get worse trust on this one. Effects of it ? Family drama if you get engaged / married , you will never be a good match , but a tyrant that enslaved her sister. Side effects , like I said before women take ques about life from other women, now what que's is your sister in law giving your gf? Will she be a stoic and keep her model behavior or "try out" her sister's model?

Final cut , you said that the trash sister lives an hour away from you. This right here must be a deal breaker for you(let me explain). You will NEVER - EVER be done with her. She will be there on birthdays , anniversaries, weekends , girls nights out and so on.

To put it bluntly even if your gf doesn't do stuff now , she will in there future and EVEN if she doesn't her sister will take the time and effort to "remove set tyrant". Are you really ready for this and perhaps even more?

Goaliej · 2021-02-14T15:31:44+00:00

1) It was her low life, poor ass sister who got her thinking like that

Her parents already know this.

2) I never told her to leave directly only if she's going to get wasted and whatever else do I not want her back

She's an adult - leave her parents out of it.

You're so much better off being single. It will take some time to get over her, but time is the healer of all wounds and you will be much stronger and better once she is out of your life and you have gotten over her. Change your locks! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swnudbCnccs

Title	Need Your opinion guys
Author	pcoortiz
Upvotes	21
Comments	25
Date	February 13, 2021 4:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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