Not feeling manly enough?

DangZagnut · 2020-04-12T06:59:00+00:00

Single mothers can't raise sons.

Best to leave them and go take boxing, play sports, or do whatever the hell you want. Join the army if you want to get out and at least do something real.

seasonsbleedngs · 2020-04-12T07:25:32+00:00

I switched my hobbies to do art and I am currently studying architecture, but everything "dangerous" or "manly" was discouraged, I am the only male in my family, and when recently at 24 finally talked to my dad, to get some sort of guidelines or advice on you Know life, but he couldn't give me any, it really affected my personal life since I am perceived as "soft" or even with females I am ashamed to more than one occasion being asked if I am gay, I am trying to become more manly but it feels like punching in a dream

Your thought's are valid and your response to how you're perceived comes a from a pure, but painful place. How do I know, I've been there.

Artist here as well. Non threatening physique as well. If the desire is there, change yourself physically in ways that make sense. I'm not expert in that area, so Ill leave ya with thoughts on the mental side of things: do and pursue things you enjoy with an intensity and drive that NO OTHER woman in your life can do. If that happens to make money, EVEN better. Their tone around will shift, guaranteed.

MEH_DECK · 2020-04-12T07:34:32+00:00

Ya need to learn how to tune out the BS thats all you are earning your own money tell them BALANTALY to fuck oof i recommend you start lifiting once you can see the improvement innthe mirror you will get a ego/morale boost like none orther i speak from experience here.

monk2019 · 2020-04-12T07:42:47+00:00

Look up coach greg adams/coach red pill on yt. Both older guys, very good information and can act as dad figure. Maybe it can help you

karlis1993 · 2020-04-12T08:30:36+00:00

i so fucking feel you. i was raised by mother. it was so toxic, all she did was planting feminine thinking inside my head. like how you should treat people in general, be niceguy towards opposite gender, how to act, how to speak, how to dress (like, you should wear like that, or this doesnt fit you, or why you cut your hair). most of the years i was lost in myself, because deep down i was still man, becoming a woman. all she did was complaining about how i am this, i am that, i am loser, etc. all she did was feeding me with blue pill.

it made me worship women. last year i kicked myself out of home. and finally i live by myself not listening to anyone but myself.

i know she was doing anything by her best heart. she has done things my dad didnt. she paid my college education, she has paid my doctor visits, when i was at my lowest, etc. i love her so much deep down, but it was a toxic raising and i don't wish any guy to be raised by woman. period.

on the other hand, when i talk to my dad about my "issues", he gives me completely opposite suggestions about life, etc. like do what the fuck you want, don't chase pussy, fuck them and dump them, be natural, be yourself, be happy by yourself, live for yourself.

and so i did. my mother knew my passion about superbikes. she told me to never show up again if i go this path. i didn't tell her when i got my license and when i bought my first one. my dad always supported my passions or interests (and all he said to me is to be cautious and do everything with clear mind), while mom declined all of the dangerous ones. you see this correlation. woman want you to be simp, while men you to be yourself and follow your passions.

i am so sad, that my parents divorced at my teens, at peak years of becoming a man, when he was still there. i would be completely different person right now. but fuck this.

what i wanted to say is to never listen to women about things you love. you are born alone and die alone. it is your life. go your own path. my suggestion for you is to dont buy any womans shit and find a masculine figure (doesnt matter, irl or on youtube), to become a man you want to be.

AncientMGTOWWISDOM · 2020-04-12T11:10:16+00:00

boxing/ lifting weights should do the trick, also hang with guy friend, bros are the best. they will set you straight, My pops passed away when i was 8, but i have 2 older brothers and grew up with daily combat, and played a lot of sports, thats how young males learn masculinity, is basically play fighting and training, even animals do it.

Friendlyfire8102 · 2020-04-12T12:21:59+00:00

A real manly thing to do is pursue your own interests because they interest you, not because you have been indoctrinated to think they belong in the "manly group" To be a real man means not giving a shit about what others think. Do what you want to do. (except fashion design, that is super gay)

KUL-DANK · 2020-04-12T16:10:08+00:00

Its funy how women want strong men, but they will refuse their sons to become those strong men..

You should go and try boxing, i personally love martial arts and have practiced it for years, even had my first fight in the ring already

user_miki · 2020-04-12T10:06:40+00:00

if you don't get out of that environment things cannot get better.You must extract yourself from that influence.After that find a MMA club or something similar and start from there.

SlainFunicle · 2020-04-12T13:05:35+00:00

you have to know it takes time and dedication you have to stick to it first i would say is make a meal plan you have to eat healthy and an exercise plan i would say 3 in the morning and another one before going to bed, you said you are an artist think of this as remolding your body i have seen motherfuckers in wheel chair at the gym no matter how old you are as long as you are healthy you can change all you have to do is take the right step, if you still love boxing you can fit it in your schedule as a hobby if there is a chance you can take it further go for it but remember you have to put in the work, so sit down look at all your weakness and write it down then find out how you can improve that you can ask your brothers here we will try to give advice base and what we would have done in your situation there is a good chance one will work for you and remember life is like a game you challenge your self and never give up and supplements can be added like protein power, vitamins and minerals so on.

Zilo88 · 2020-04-12T13:54:35+00:00

I often don't feel human, much less like a man.

Title	Not feeling manly enough?
Author	AIRMANG22
Upvotes	15
Comments	13
Date	April 12, 2020 6:14 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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