Hi MGTOW. I’m trying to understand something

All over the media I read articles and watch commercials about Men and how they need to “open up more about their feelings” and “why aren’t more men opening up” aka the basic narrative is how your not a real man unless your crying about every little inconvenience you experience, and gossiping about what mean things someone said once.

It’s like unless your an emotional wreck then you don’t fit in the world today? Have mother fuckers never heard of Stoicism ? It’s not the rejection of emotions, it’s control and possessing the ability not to fly off the handle or cry after unforeseen events .

I would also add that when men do talk, it is dismissed as ToXic MaSCuliNitY

Can anyone expand on this ? Do I have it wrong?