Hey guys... got a situation here I'm looking for advice on.
I'm sure a couple of you have seen [and responded to] that I'm new to mgtow. Currently have a girlfriend I plan to leave, she's not a bad person but mgtow made me realize why I've generally been unhappy most of my adult life. So... here's the situation.
I'm 28, and I want to move out of state and start over, asap. But I know I need to wait a bit to save up money. I got a $1750/mo pension [military medical retirement] so saving's not really necessary, I just thought it'd be smart. My parents have a vacation planned to come visit me here in southern illinois from arizona in the middle of august. I found a shitty cheap studio apartment up in wisconsin, where I want to go, and cheap is a great way to start over. I can get out of "shitty" later, as needed. First month rent is free with a year lease, it's 460/mo with utilities included, they will allow my dog and everything. Kind of a steal for cheap single living on a starting over plan. Here's the problem: I planned to wait so I wouldn't screw my soon to be ex-girlfriend on the rent at our current place, and I also don't want to ruin my parent's vacation. But at the same time, I don't think I'm going to find a deal like this for a long time, if at all. I already inquired about it a few minutes ago but I'm still waiting for a response from them.
What would you guys do? I'm feeling claustrophobic from being in a house I don't want to be in anymore, hanging out with a woman I'm forcing myself to have sex with just to keep her happy... I want to be alone and get my life moving forward yet know it needs to wait a bit for smart planning which is fine, but I'm also feeling super pressured to just say fuck it and do it now because of this amazing deal I found... I can't afford to pay my half of the bills at my current place AND pay the rent for the studio I found, so it's either give it up knowing I won't find another deal like this one, or just do it while screwing her and messing up my parents plans next month...
What would you guys do?
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Just wait. It will be over soon. There will be other deals. Doing this cleanly is more important than rushing off ASAP, and inconveniencing your families planned trip isn't cool. You've toughed it out this long man, you'll be fine. Plus, if you don't find a deal there, maybe you'll end up going somewhere else where you do find one. Somewhere you didn't expect! Life is an adventure. Most of the things we worry about so much aren't that important.
Why Wisconsin?
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