Probably going to get downvoted to hell for this, but why do so many members of this community feel like men who just want to fuck a lot of women are any different or better than women who just want to fuck a lot of men?

I constantly see people bitching about sluts and whores and women who have had sex with lots of men as well as comments about only wanting women who are young and or a virgin. And I'm just trying to learn what the difference is. I'm at a point where I just don't want anything to do with women. I would prefer to not have them in my life to any degree not have to interact with them at any level especially not even see them. But I don't understand the mentality of it's okay for guys to have sex with tons of different women but it's not okay for women to have sex with tons of guys.