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[–][deleted] 102 points103 points104 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Not at all, she was clearly taking advantage of you. You were fortunate enough to find that out instantly instead of 10 years down the road. Give your mother a grammar lesson, in that “a” drink means singular, not 4 double shots. Also, the old tried and true, “buy them a drink” was a measure to see and judge what her tastes are,..do you have anything in common, etc. Here she was just using this gesture to make a fool out of you.
[–]random13980[S] 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I found this on r/AITA
[–]davisyoung38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
At least this guy didn't fall for it, but the fact that this chick had the audacity to do this so casually meant it's worked for her in the past.
[–]Imperiuma4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I saw once somewhere on here a post about woman only offering Audacity, well it's true, evidence is above. Too bad that's only a major on for the Simps of society and not Men, my point of view is, she can fuck right off and go eat some Simp Dick
[–]boltjamison66 points67 points68 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
At least he wasn't giga simp and paid for the shots. He was smart enough to walk away. He's a level 1 simp tho for offering to buy her a drink in the 1st place.
[–][deleted] 29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ive seen a poor fool pay for like 6 girls drinks then champaign and who knows what else, he goes to the bathroom and they split laughing. The look on his face when he came out, I sincerely hope he learnt a lesson and never again, but I doubt it.
[–]MrTT39 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
imagine if he never came back and they have to pay the bill
[–]Peroxidekid54 points55 points56 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you could, get the fuck away from your mom. If she was my mom, I would never trust her again and by that I mean the trust level will plummet from 0 to negative levels.
[–]HonestGamingTroll6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If nothing else I am sure he now knows why his father left his mother.
[–]StingRayFins42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
He was a man until he second-guessed his decision. His mom is a manipulative bitch and he should tell her to mind her own business. He owes a girl he just met almost $400?! For what? Can't believe the mom is condoning that.
You know that girl is going to ghost him and talk shit about him to her friends right?
"OMG guess what just happened?" And call him a loser and dumb for dumping that much money on her without making her work or earn it.
[–]MeagoDK14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then it becomes clear how she could suggest something so crazy as to pay the coworker 325 dollars.
[–]Vobat3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is nothing wrong with second-guessing a decision hindsight is 20/20 after all the real question is what you do after you have thought about the decision.
[–]silly_birb33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But she remembers him!
A paying simp would have been forgotten asap
[–]NickTesla201824 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Glad that he walked away. Unreal.
[–]themenacehimself18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seems like he should tell his mom to fuck off. Extreme? Yeah, but so is attempting to manipulate ONE guy into buying you $325 worth of alcohol for you AND your crew.
He’s not an asshole, he’s a smart man with his best interest in mind. His mom ain’t shit because she didn’t take her son’s side.
[–]JonnieMacTyler99 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good that you learned up front she was only going to be shit testing and using you. I never buy women drinks, but I am an asshole and my mom knows it. Also, my mom wouldn’t take that bitch’s side, she’d laugh at that girl and tell her she’s glad I’m not enough of a sucker to drop that kind of money on a chick I just met.
[–]random13980[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not my story, got it from r/AmItheAsshole
[–]jermrash77 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ha,thats how dating works nowadays,you find a girl and decide to take her out and she brings her friends.You need to prove yourself a man by paying all the bills.
[–]Paladin29035 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You offered to buy HER a SINGULAR drink. Typical female taking advantage of the situation.
[–]Vobat4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Give her an inch and she will take a mile.
[–]Obermarschall5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why would a man even pay for a woman he doesn't know?
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[–]SwordMasterLink792 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Heh, that's my plan
[–]aad79904 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a piece of shit mom, she is the one person who is supposed to have your back.
[–]MundaneGrab84 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congratulations! Now he became CHAD in her eyes.
He lived by he’s own rules and doesn’t care what people around him think he won he’s free he’s the Savage Man!
[–]WE_WERE_HERE3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The girl manipulated his mother into manipulating him. Tells you everything you need to know about women.
[–]FairlyWhelmed2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bahahahaha
[–]argama872 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At least he didn't fall for the trap and left her hanging with the bill. Good man. His Mom on the other hand is a piece of work and continues to prove AWALT.
[–]The-truth-hurts11 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
NTA
Your mum has a job right? Tell her to pay for it if she believes so strongly about it... geez.. talk about trying to take advantage of people
[–]MetamorphosisSilver1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% agree. $10 for a lesson about Thots in bars and how poorly his Mom thinks of him - now that's a heck of a deal!
[–]Han_GYOW1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He set himself up for that. Idiot.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Link the actual post, not just the sub.
[–]ClowntownDenisen12341 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you. OPs need to learn this basic skill.
[–]pkarlmann1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For 325$ you can get a threesome for an hour in the next brothel.
And who the hell pays 10$ for one beer??
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
thats rough to have your own mother sell you out for "team waymahn"....
AWALT and all women are prostitutes, including our mothers and daughters..
[–]mrtinlv1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You need a new mother.
[–]Lucius_Faust0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
XD Lol... true mad lad. Probably they're writing YTA, pay the Queen etc.
[–]random13980[S] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Believe it or not most people sided with the guy
[–]Lucius_Faust0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Wow, I'm positively surprised. Maybe there's a hope on this subreddit. Thx for info u/random13980
[–]MeagoDK3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
AITA and YouTube have been surprising the last couple of months.
[–]Doogie762 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because normal people have jobs. Now with the shut down they have a lot more free time to cruise reddit and YouTube so the crazies who police online aren't as strong in number
[–]MeagoDK3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That makes a lot of sense.
[–]simpleguychilling0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fck ur mom she is a bitch too trying to play that card.
[–]ThaHentaiConnoisseur0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
His own mother. Gentlemen, his own mother is taking the side of some random hole. If this isn't hivemind behaviour from women then I don't know what is.
[–]Chakra_Devourer0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah fuck that noise. Bitch didn't like it when she got played in her own game?
[–]sharedisaster0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In the comments, nearly everyone concluded that he was not the asshole.
[–]MigPOW0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What you learn as a non-top 20% man is that if a woman can't take complete advantage of you, they aren't interested at all.
[–]IvetriedallthePills0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope you are NOT the asshole here. If someone offers to treat me to something, i do not take an inch and go a mile. Thats messed up. I dont drink anyway.
But for context, my first real, serious boyfriend (check my page if u give a shit, my post probably wont be posted), Brough me marijuana in a stressful time. He showed up, gave me a gram wrapped in tin foil, and told me i was free to just take it and go. But....seriously....i gave him a damn chance. I went with him, and to this day, i often miss him. I never quite treated him as well as he deserved, but thats a complicated 2 way street. But if someone give you kindness, you dont need to give them everything, but at least fucking thank them and dont take more than you deserve.
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