Shaming tactics

TruthSeekingPerson · 2019-01-15T03:51:21+00:00

That's what Gillette is trying to do to us.

MrMagtow · 2019-01-15T04:12:20+00:00

In Melbourne Australia, (on holidays) I see a TV ad called "RESPECT WOMEN" by "Respect Victoria" (Victoria is their state name).
In this ad, there's a bunch of guys sitting around and one of them gets a call from his gf/wife. She asks for more money and he gets unhappy, saying "I gave you enough money to last..." (she cuts him off, then he continues) "...hey! I told you not to speak when I'm speaking!"
One of the other men at the table begins the shaming process saying "do you think that's okay to say that?" which our main character replies "it's just a joke, don't worry about it".
The shamer then says "it's not a joke." and then the other men at the table then continue their discussion, excluding the main character.

Fear of ostracization is a huge tool that women use against each other - women fear being ostracized more than anything. Not being accepted, not being part of a NPC herd - women do anything to avoid it.

No only does this ad show that women are using Australia govt money for programming males, but it seems to be working. I asked a few men around here if they've seen it. Only one has mentioned that he saw through the programming - all the other men have said it's important be respectful and not commit violence against women.

I didn't believe it when people said Australia is becoming a weak soyboy society. My holiday here is showing it's very true.

1Badshot · 2019-01-15T05:01:31+00:00

"My mother is a professional travel agent for Guilt Trips. You're a fucking amateur so shut up already."

I drop that bomb on women who try that guilt trip/shit test crap with me.

_Anarchon_ · 2019-01-15T05:26:19+00:00

Yep, women use this tactic. Men do too. Sometimes it's despicable, deceitful behavior, and sometimes it's warranted. Just because chicks use it as a tactic to get their way shouldn't make one believe they should never be ashamed about anything. I've certainly done things I'm ashamed of. I'm happy to have learned the lessons from them so I don't repeat them.

Varsel · 2019-01-15T12:20:09+00:00

Actually crocodile tears are the default....shaming is just in play until they decide they have to bring out the big guns.

Suited_Vulture · 2019-01-15T16:27:13+00:00

I have found that simply telling people to shut the fuck up usually is exceedingly effective. I guess people are not used to facing push back when they spray BS onto other people.

MuleFool42 · 2019-01-15T16:06:19+00:00

Yeah, read the Quillette article on toxic femininity. Men usually resort to physical aggression to get their point across. That is easily policed and therefore kept in check.

Women manipulate and shame. There is no societal check for that bad behavior, so it continues and society doesn't care. The only way to deal with it is to know how to recognize it and do like you did by calling it out for what it is. You're basically shaming them back; it's a language/form of communication that they understand and can be effective.

wwstewart · 2019-01-15T17:43:46+00:00

"I was married to an alcoholic cluster B for 15 years, I'm immune to your shaming tactics."

Five years here, but I'm totally stealing this.

*yoink*

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Title	Shaming tactics
Author	Unthotful
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Comments	27
Date	January 15, 2019 3:49 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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