"If you can't beat it, join it..." Is a thought crossing my mind lately. I've been lucky to have been born with the genes that are preferred by women in our current time. For the last four years I took a break from dating and my active sex life, after having realized the lack of true love within this world.

Ladies still hit me up all the time, and I've been avoiding them to work on myself. I've gotten a kick start on my career and things are going great. I often wonder if it's okay for me to indulge in sex while I'm still compatible with women at the height of their fertility and attractiveness.

It wouldn't be a case of FOMO because I'm already in the high double digits when it comes to sexual partners. But for that very reason, does it matter if I become a 'Dan Bilzarian' again? I can't hate women, I accept their subconscious nature as just one of life cruel realities. If I were an incel or simp i'd probably be secretly wishing I were in my position.

Should one give into these desires? Or should I remain rational in my plight to avoid distractions and become better?