Should men under 30 consider marriage?

lie-deflector · 2017-07-21T04:17:50+00:00

Instead of twiddling your thumbs, think of it as protecting your future

89Thoradin · 2017-07-21T04:58:06+00:00

Never marry. Just fuck alot and make money. Remember to protect yourself.

Turist0AT · 2017-07-21T04:19:47+00:00

Ppl marrying early and having kids miss out on life. So enjoy twiddling those thumbs, you could be forced to take care of a kid and have a women stressing you out and not letting you twiddle any thumbs. Imagine what you could do if you didn't twiddle your thumbs and invested in yourself instead.

LOLorDAI · 2017-07-21T09:13:06+00:00

No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no, oh helllllllllllll NO!

NegitiveMA · 2017-07-21T05:04:36+00:00

What does a woman get out of marriage? Emotional and financial support. A person to fix their cars and homes. A person to take responsibility when they mess up.

If they decide that the man is dead weight they can leave and take the kids, the money, the house and get two paychecks in the mail every month.

What do men get out of marriage? A person that bitches at them, drains their resources and pussy maybe once a month. Once she gets fat, you might not even want to stick your dick in it.

Reprogramming_Life · 2017-07-21T05:01:16+00:00

Never.

flatliner_ · 2017-07-21T04:27:09+00:00

In my opinion in general marriage is not worth it, but when she has more to lose from the divorce- for example if she has a higher financial standing and they bought properties or some assets after married (I'm not encouraging male gold diggers), but these circumstances should help ensure she will be loyal, or at least limit divorce rape. At minimum both parties should be on equal standing financially with a prenup- although that can still go south, especially when kids are factored in, and there is the risk of false abuse claims. And on top of this you have to have no doubts or red flags and strong feelings that it is right,unfortunately feelings can cloud logic. basically it's a fairytale, so in general no.

HerAngel · 2017-07-21T11:02:05+00:00

I am also 26.

I had your fear too, but I am a logical person, so I listed out what I was afraid of, if I am not married in the future.

Children to take care my late life? They will be busy on work.

So that I will not die alone? It happens to everyone.

So that I can have sex? Oh she is not in the mood, my bad.

So that I can have a home? Oh I must do all the chores or no sex.

So that I can have a life? With all the responsibilities and risks?

No thanks buddy.

protonexus1 · 2017-07-21T04:30:09+00:00

Develop your talents, invest in your self. Watch what happens in a couple years, see how many of those guys are stoked.

mgtow4ever · 2017-07-21T05:56:47+00:00

Should men under 30 consider marriage?

You really need to be the medical definition of Idiot to even ask this question on /r/mgtow.

Xlasingx · 2017-07-21T04:53:42+00:00

your livelihood, your belongings, your drive, peace of mind, sanity, introspect, friends, family, internal being, freedom..

just to name, a few..

smccullough28 · 2017-07-21T06:12:58+00:00

Marry an 18-20 year old girl when you're into your 30's. All your friends will be green with envy as they go home to their miserable ugly post-wall wives.

MethaCat · 2017-07-21T07:14:13+00:00

Wait a bit, you will begin to see a large amount of sadness and the inevitable divorce. After sometime count the number of those same friends that are still married. By statistics alone a man should never marry.

HandyManDan90 · 2017-07-21T13:51:03+00:00

Everyone in the world should get divorced immediately.

RealPoliPundit · 2017-07-21T05:21:55+00:00

This should be a sticky: https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/6nf1wo/why_i_avoid_women/

Rhodesius · 2017-07-21T07:38:53+00:00

Only get married if you have nothing of value to lose, and will never gain anything that you don't want to lose.

maszyna · 2017-07-21T11:45:06+00:00

Take your current life. Take away all freedom, all "fuck it let's do it" and all money. Add a lot of anxiety (if you got kids and a house to pay off add a shitton more) and conflict.

That's your life being married.

mercwithamagicsword · 2017-07-21T12:27:02+00:00

Men under 112 should not consider marriage.

AnonX66 · 2017-07-21T12:47:38+00:00

Nope

Mr_Options · 2017-07-21T13:14:44+00:00

Fuck no. No self respecting man should ever enter in a contract with the devil.

geocitiesuser · 2017-07-21T13:26:30+00:00

mgtowvideos · 2017-07-21T14:29:20+00:00

Don't do it. Just listen to Tom Leykis: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MtTj0uorAYQ

Dingus_Incel · 2017-07-21T04:49:43+00:00

*Should men consider marriage

RasterDeluge · 2017-07-21T05:15:33+00:00

lol wut?

stringedbeams · 2017-07-21T06:02:24+00:00

for me it's just I have to find the right person (unicorn/NAWALT) and/or we have to fix the system as much as we can or at least personally develop some kind of self-protective strategy

MyLittlePonyofDoom · 2017-07-21T07:42:55+00:00

Should they consider gender reassignment? WTF do you think?

comptejete · 2017-07-21T10:45:54+00:00

I'm sitting here twiddling my thumbs

Idle hands are the devil's workshop. What you need is direction, and pondering signing over your independence to a woman who will have the legal sanction to cripple you on a whim is not a direction you would consider were it not for the fact that your peers are doing it. Ask any married man if he has time to sit down and twiddle his thumbs and listen to him sigh while staring into the distance.

MobTilliDie · 2017-07-21T11:35:13+00:00

You've got excellent instincts young man, am 31, single and happy as fuck! Wait it out a while, you're not missing out on anything.

JFK7878 · 2017-07-21T13:56:13+00:00

hizek · 2017-07-21T14:25:14+00:00

No. Not even a common-law relationship.

'nuff said.

VoxVirilis · 2017-07-21T15:18:08+00:00

Should men ~~under 30~~ consider marriage?

No.

No matter what age don't get married.

grasshopper_69 · 2017-07-21T17:36:08+00:00

You are 26. Prime earning years. Reduce any and all debt. Gather your assets. Educate yourself. Plan trips. Date younger women but do not commit. No live-ins, no co-habitation. Bank your assets and plan for an early retirement age to enjoy your life. Enjoy the life that all your married peers will envy.

If you want to get married, find a culture in your travels that pressures women to stay married and does not have insane divorce laws.. You will not find that in North America. And those cultures are disappearing fast.

KingFuJulien · 2017-07-21T06:43:31+00:00

those peoples are just attention-whores

gundam_marauder · 2017-07-21T16:36:15+00:00

No. And if you do get married before 30. PRENUP PRENUP PRENUP.

Beeinkc9 · 2017-07-21T16:57:54+00:00

It is a bitter truth that friends will come and go. Once they're married you won't see them as often and once they have children you won't see them at all. Weddings and funerals may as well be the same thing because you won't see your friend again. That's the dumbest part of weddings, most of the guests you won't see again. I digress....

What you need are more friends.

Diam35 · 2017-07-21T18:05:29+00:00

:D

What would be the benefits of not purchasing a brand new car and accelerating it into a tree? Thoughts?

MiGTOWing · 2017-07-21T19:03:23+00:00

No, and neither should men over 30.

NS_GeishaLair · 2017-07-21T22:51:10+00:00

There is no upside to marriage for men.

Poofysmoof · 2017-07-22T04:53:25+00:00

YouTube search Tom Leykis, his shows are very entertaining and he talks a lot about a alternative path. In between Mgtow and bluepill, he leans more towards Redpill but his crutch is his money, and the majority of us here don't have millions. So he can get by with being a big boy. That's why TRP preaches lift because it's the cheapest and fastest improvement you can do for yourself.

You sound like you want that type of life. Not marriage but not be celibate, check his shows out.

Arabian_Wolf · 2017-07-22T17:19:15+00:00

What about getting married to have kids, a legacy, genes to continue to live on after worms eat my flesh out in my grave?

MGTOWISFREEDOM2017 · 2017-07-22T03:41:38+00:00

No man under 100 should consider marriage

Title	Should men under 30 consider marriage?
Author	BigGuy5u
Upvotes	35
Comments	54
Date	July 21, 2017 4:13 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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