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[–]Thermotastic101 points102 points103 points 7 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link
I'm a gamer but I had kids, then I got red pilled.
I wouldnt change a thing about having my two little ones. Mommy can fuck off. I do all the child caring anyways.
Women act like being an adult and a parent is so fucking difficult. It's not.
[–]papabearcat37 points38 points39 points 7 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
I'd like to hear more about that last part. I don't have kids but ive always wondered why women act like raising a child is miracle work
[–]Thermotastic61 points62 points63 points 7 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link
It's all about routine. Keep a routine and most things fall into place. The kids know what's up, so you're not throwing them into an unknown situation. I take my toddlers with me everywhere. Shopping, I even take them with me to get my oil changed. Because I do it on the weekend so I dont have to take off work to do it. I drop them off at daycare at nearly the same time everyday. Pick them up at the exact same time too. My daughter knows what time. We eat dinner the same time everyday. Etc.
Stuff like that. It takes the stress out of it and the kids act a lot better in public when you don't throw them situations they dont quite understand.
[–]EnslavedOpethFan05341 points42 points43 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My friend's wives on FB always post these stupid things that say: The government expects women to take care of their kids and work a 9-5 job as well.
Well yea you dumb cunts. Men do it too. Men work all day, come home and still take care of their kids.
I only see women posting that stupid shit on social media.
[–]anti-hypergamist15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Funny how that never gives a woman pause when she demands full custody. You'd think with the amount of bitching they do about how hard it is to raise kids, they would love to pawn them off on Dad.
[–]l2rave7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, but they gotta get that $$$
[–]CastandRefused7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pfff, that's why back in the day they stayed in the house. They act like they're forced into this situation. If they can't take care of kids and work a job then don't do it, make the decision that's right for you. Simple. They love to complain and point the finger though.
[–]Thermotastic7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I do it everyday, including the weekend. Really their mother just gets in the way. Doctors appointments, sick day, everything. She may change their diapers like once or twice a week.
[–]theanchorman052 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You definitely have kids. This is a 100% facts. I'll go a step forward and point out it's the same things with consequences.
[–]Thermotastic2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah and bitches step in and fuck up the routine, and act like a child because you get annoyed.
[–]papabearcat2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That's dope. Did you learn that somewhere or take a page out if your own life ?
[–]Thermotastic0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I placed my comment in the general section of this post by accident.
[–]papabearcat1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see. Thanks
[–]bobmarleyatemyass 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My sister acts like raising kids is the most difficult thing in the world. She doesn’t even work and she went on a weeklong trip to Hawaii with her friends and let my brother in law take care of them while she was gone. He puts in 60+ hours a week as a cop and works long graveyard shifts. Women just complain about everything.
It doesnt have to be a job. You can do it in your pjs, no shower, whatever.
Right now, I'm watching the kids, grilling and smoking pork loin, then I'll throw some burgers on for dinner. Pork for later lunch and dinner during the week. I am also doing laundry. No problems. Kids are quiet.
During the 45 minute drive into town, kids are normally quiet because that is a time for reflection, same deal driving back home.... put a movie on and if they wanna watch it they can. If they don't then they have a toy box full of stuff to play with. Easy peasy...
[–]Renzolol10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm a stay at home Dad with a 3 year old and a 1 year old. It's SO EASY. My daughter is at nursery all morning so me and my son just chill. We go and pick her up when she finishes, after that it's more chilling, we play in the garden, play with toys, whatever. They then sleep for a few hours where I can... you guessed it, chill.
It's no MGTOW life but its nowhere near as hard as women make it out to be.
[–]loganlogwood1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That’s because you’re only taking care of one kid despite having 2 and the one you are taking care of is the least mobile one. Remove that nursery care and do it for a week then tell me how easy it is.
[–]Renzolol5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I've been doing it for 3 years. The nursery care is only 3 hours in a morning.
Edit: my son will have his 2nd birthday next month. He's very very mobile.
[–]loganlogwood0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s still 15 hours of you doing one on one man coverage rather than doing zone coverage against two. I’m a father of 2 also with the same age range as the kids but don’t bullshit these other idiots who don’t have kids as to how easy it is to properly raise children. And you have been doing it for 3 years but only 2 of it has been for caring two children. These other people might not know the difference but you and I do. Don’t overstate your stats.
[–]vector56336 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Good for you brother! Women believe they are miracle workers when they are not!
[–]Thermotastic10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Definitely not. If anything they make life harder. She acts like taking the kids out with her is so difficult. I'll start cooking dinner when the kids are older. Until then you watch the kids and cook dinner. Stupid bitch, I literally dont need you. You make more work for me.
I watch them and cook, not her.
She even used to message me asking how much longer I was going to be before I got home. Because is was starving. Be an adult and make yourself something to eat.
[–]vector56333 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can definitely agree that them bitches make life more difficult for sure.
[–]midnightblood3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are like children. Depending on the woman, she's never had to really bother growing up. Her looks carried her long enough to find a husband.
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Women act like just being alive in a first world country is difficult. Oh and I almost forgot how busy they are!
[–]Thermotastic4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love it when they act like you're wasting their time. Then when you get done, they just lay around and take a nap.
Making me rush my shit for nothing.
[–]40moreyears1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same. Agreed.
[–]SupaFlyslammajammazz1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have 3 da dem. I perform my duties. Wifey got tired of me gaming during my time. Now she can’t do anything about it.
[–]TheLastMgtow0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
All fathers say the same. I wonder if even if a father feels like regretting having kids, and really looking into himself, is he even capable of admiting to others or himself that he would be way happier and more free without the kids.
I really dont want kids. I want to stay sharp and free forever. My worst nightmare is end up like most men that are fathers, and say the exact same thing, and dont get me wrong it sounds cheesy. "Im so happy being a father". Ok.
It seems sometimes forced, as if they are trying to convince themselves that it was all worth it. And that now that they are rusty old men, they wont admit, what they really wanted was freedom and youth for themselves, not some spawn that comes out from a woman.
Anyways. I dont disregard the instinctive joy of having kids. But putting up with them, their mothers and this society, and in the end saying it was worth it, it is starting to sound like coping.
If i was in your position i would definitely regret the kids. Unless of course, i had a few here and there, and i dont have to see them, or pay for them, than thats ok i guess.
You can judge me, but im honest. Having kids is a trap, and most men that have kids in this day and age, is because they are finished.
Fatherhood is indirect and forced simping in this day and age. You are ultimately tied legally and forever connected emotionally to what a woman spawn from her vagina.
[–]Thermotastic0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes I gave up my freedom to do whatever I wanted. I have thought about it and I have my moments of regret. But I made the chose to have kids with this bitch, before being red pilled. All I can do is raise them the best I can.
It would be a different kind of happy, like most things. It's all connected. I realize that I have them now, and that's it. All I can do keep moving forward.
I still want to give them what I can. But there is a fine line of spoiling them and making sure they end up being well prepared for the normal hardships of being an adult.
Their mom, flat out told me she regretted having kids with me... she complains about not getting to do what she wants. But in the end I have to bury her in court just to make sure I maintain my rights as a father and not have to walk on eggshells until they turn 18.
[–]TheLastMgtow1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I understand that. Of course man, thats great. But can you imagine if you didnt have kids? I dont know what is like to to have kids so maybe im talking about something i dont know.
I admire your stoicism and sacrifice for your kids. I also think despite the best efforts of fathers these days, the situation is pretty much hopeless. We are throwing people in a world, that processes men like a meat grinder.
Men are born with invisible chains. No matter how you prepare them, they will still be considered mediocre and disposable. And we men can tell that. We men have the conscience that having kids is a selfish thing. Because we are throwing them in an arena. In the end you are just feeding a machine. We are in a world lost its natural state long ago.
This is the moral part of the thing. So this is irrelevant, if kids made you happy great, forget about it, because if they didnt you are not doing them any favours or the world.
Women, have no conscience of these things im telling you. They have a timing, and once that time arrives they will want to have babies, simple as that. So even if they are living in a shithole, they will still want to pop out some babies. The world can go fuck itself, and their kids, they dont care if they dont even think how miserable they will be, because its an instinctive thing.
Indeed the world wouldnt be such a mess. If females of all species were aware its not moral to have kids in certain conditions.
Men are not like that. At least men in their natural primal state.
Because nowadays with all that soy, they will buy into the first opportunity of having kids even its not theirs. When their natural state is to runnaway from those traps, and stay free, forever.
[–]Thermotastic0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes I can imagine not having kids. The freedom to work for my master hand engraver status. The freedom to go anywhere and do anything. But that's not what I have now. I have two little creatures depending on me. I'll be 48 or so and I'll have my "freedom" back. It's not a cake walk or anything. It's just the other side of the metaphorical coin of life. I will separate from there mother, fight for my kids, and remain single. Maybe I can teach my son to mgtow, maybe not and that's his decision. All I can do is point him in the "right" direction.
I once though why would I want to bring kids into this shithole of a world. I did anyways and it's a responsibility I will carry.
[–]UserName326770 points71 points72 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
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[–]LAIN_I47 points48 points49 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m a gamer; this struck a chord with me.
[–]Let-It-All-Go 25 points26 points27 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can see the invisible cage he is standing in.
[–]papabearcat23 points24 points25 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He's dying inside
[–]frenchwolf8312 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like an awful life
[–]Daman_198510 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is sad :(
[–]tennisss8197 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha. When I had my first son years back I sold the majority of my record collection then took that cash (literally) directly to buy a crib at babies r us.
[–]Thermotastic8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Normally I'm kinda random. But over time you realize that with kids a routine helps. Baths the same time, bedtime near the same time. Mommy comes in and fucks up the routine. Shes like having an extra kid along with having a dog. When she doesnt help (majority of the time) things are smoother and kids dont act out as much. Nap time I get all kinds of stuff done. Even yard work. Just periodically check in on them. Tv on and if they wanna watch that's fine, if not thats fine too. Let them decide that.
[–]voshler5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im not. You reap what you sow.
[–]rigoexe3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The walking dead
[–]the710sourhour2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
im a desktop gamer and this makes my blood boil.
[–]ajaski7081 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So much potential :(
[–]bigboilerdawg1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I actually enjoyed raising my kids, no problem sacrificing a little for them. My ex is a dumpster fire, but that has nothing to do with the kids. Now if this was pic of a guy holding boxes of women's shoes or something, that would be different.
[–]OZIOZIOZIO1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What's sad is that they're 8 shitty dell laptops in a case labeled "Games"
[–]RealisticKiwi0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hi I am new on this sub. Why is it sad?
[–]throwywayyyyee0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ben4P0RN0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He’s decided to start a family, so sad /s
[–]Critical_Cracker0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That happens when you bring a kid into the world bro. It's not all about you.
[+]nihilistCoffee-21 points-20 points-19 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Wait is this a joke? Is the point of this picture being that growing up means actual responsibilities instead of playing video games? What a fucking pathetic sub this is.
[–]micestorff-6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you mean something womens do everytime ? lul
[–]Uttfttufftcytfcctf4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why are you here? Nobody cares what you think of this sub. Stop wasting time, go live your life. Idiot.
[+]nihilistCoffee-17 points-16 points-15 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This sub is so cringe I can’t look away. Like a bad car wreck.
[–]dochollidayzz11 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Imagine following a Subreddit you don’t like because your own life is so uninteresting and boring
[–]E85Loial0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ew so not only are you a pos online but in real life your also one of those annoying people who hold up traffic rubber necking at bent metal and flashing lights. Like a zombie, hypnotised by nothing.
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Women act like just being alive in a first world country is difficult. Oh and I almost forgot how busy they are!
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