Found this subreddit and it was about 2 weeks after my 9 year marriage/relationship ended. I was beating myself up about what I did wrong, meanwhile she has been having an emotion affair with a guy from work for a year.

Been going through this subreddit, and fuck her. I am going my own way! I did nothing wrong and I am starting to change my mindset.

Thank you for all the positive words. I appreciate it.