Hello.

I'm on my early 30's. My social circle revolves around men with this age. And we are on a crisis.

 

My friend just got kicked by his ex-fiancee, 9 years of relationship, from the condo that he rented with his own money. He also lost all the money that he spent paying for her college. Thats right. He is a brilliant engineer, nerdy of course, but a very talented professional. And now he is living in a basement spending all his free time drunk and playing world of warcraft. He is moving to his hometown to live with his parents in order to recover from the trauma.

 

My other friend, sick thanks to stress, just got divorce raped. He is living in a 30m2 condo. With almost a full year of salary in debts. He had to ask me for 10 bucks in order to pay for his lunch. He painted and fixed his condo by himself, despite being sick, because its this or living in a shithole. He got terminated because his divorce culminated into a semi-depressive state. He lost his guts , because he was already stressed, and with the help of his ex-wive and losing years of savings, his performance was very low and he got terminated.

 

Another friend is in debt. He also got divorced, but since he was poorer than her, she didn't rape him. But now he had to spend all his economies on a little house. They had plans for the entire life, so he didn't worry about saving money. His ex-wife controlled his finances because she was an accountant, and thus, he didn't saved so much for the future. He, the chad of the group, tough that he would fuck his wife until his retirement. He, the trophy husband of the team is now fat, without a college, without money and with some debts to pay. He will lose his little house if he don't land a good job, and since he didn't studied as much as us, he is working on 2 jobs. A janitor at night and a blue collar half shift in the day.

 

The richest of us, the 6 figure guy, engineer at big automaker, is going to couple's therapy. His wife is a landwhale, and lost all her health after the marriage. SHe is almost 100lb fatter. She says that she is depressive and stay at home playing video games, eating and being a SJW. She always uses her depressive state as an excuse for doing nothing. She is a feminist and keeps threatening him. He said that she wrote an e-mail to the Human Resources of this automaker saying that he physically abuses him, and will send this e-mail one day or another. He lives hell every single day and has to use all his money to maintain this wife quiet and mentally healthy. This guy is a dear friend of mine and i'm very sad for what is going on with him.

 

The last friend of this group is also a brilliant engineer. He is the leader , a natural one. Charismatic, has empathy and a is very pleasant company. He is the natural leader and has always dreamed of being a manager. But he is stuck in his white collar position because of his salary. He can't risk a promotion because if his daughter of 1 year old. He can't risk a move. He works 9 to 5 every single day being very passive. I just can't recognize this guy anymore. He lost all his "light" and is just a husk of his former self. THis year, he will be spending his year saving on a trip to Orlando. His wife wants his daughter to have the best of what Disney can offer.

 

I for myself, the drunk of the bunch, the egoistic, that guy that only fuck escorts, has a huge beard, shaved head (Because its easier to maintain), only wear cheap clothes and leaves the job with my hand full of grease (I'm an engineer too), I'm having a dilemma. I'm very sad because I don't know if I will fuck a blonde or a red haired escort this weekend. I'm also suffering a lot because I just sold my Kawasaki Vulcan and I can't decide if I will buy a Triumph or a Harley Davidson. I'm having some MGTOW's problems here. I'm suffering and I don't know what to do with my life /s

Cheers.